How is anupama different from Kayati?

Prem hates kayati why she loved parag and married him

So his mom died or disappeared whatever

Anupama is more worst she spoiled 3 to 4 womens life

First she interferred everday in vanraj life and made kavya life miserable that she ran off to USA

She was always like wife wife of vanraj although married to anuj kapadiya and made kavya life hell although kavya too decent to admit it

Than she destroyed maya life maya died saving anupama

Also they could have adopted another child and given choti anu to maya only because she has no one than CA

Than she destroyed Shruti life too

So why is this useless prem worshipping anupama while hating kayati

I like parag guys acting he has charisma

The ML prem is useles he has no charisma or screen presence

Also anupama and vanraj destroyed nandini life bec shes kaya neice and asked for justice to kavya and could never become mother