Sunn Mere Dil (GEO) #12 - Wahaj Ali, Maya Ali, Hira Mani - Page 89

Originally posted by: hakanturkey

How many Sadafs are there in this drama?

• Student Sadaf
• Sadistic Sadaf, who rejected Amaar and told him to die
• Traumatized Sadaf, who was shattered by illness and death
• Sellout Sadaf, who tried to sell herself to Bilal
• Heartless Sadaf, who rejected Bilal
• Cheap Sadaf, who married Amaar
• Now divorced Sadaf

Friends, what kind of character development is this?

Bilal is in love with Mirza Sahab’s daughter, but that girl doesn’t exist anymore. She’s gone. The real question is:

Can Sadaf ever become Mirza Sahab’s daughter again?

To be with Bilal, she has to become Mirza’s daughter again.

Jokes aside, the Sadaf Bilal fell in love with—the one in his heart and mind—is completely different from the real Sadaf now.

I think that's what scares Bilal and why he keeps his distance from her.

Bilal is in love with an idealized image of Sadaf who is Mirza's daughter, whose name he is forbidden to utter when drunk. Now think what names or words are we forbidden to utter when drunk or in state of impurity? It's usually prayers, duas, sacred holy verses. The writer is implying that Bilal has put Sadaf on such a high pedestal where she is some sacred and holy being to him. His love for her is that of ibadat (worship). The lines he utters in dinner date that his love does not need her physical presence is the kind of love associated with love of God or ishq e haqiqi, where one loves God in full faith without seeing Him or knowing Him. Bilal thinks Sadaf is so sacred and above it all that even when she tries to sell herself for 8 crore he does not think it is a mark on her morals or her character. So Bilal is in love with an idealized version of Sadaf he puts on a pedestal but real Sadaf is full of flaws and grey shades and not as morally upright or holy as Bilal projects her to be. In fact she is as opposite to Mirza Naamdar as possible.

But writer is not interested in exploring what happens when reality does not meet ideal. This reminds me of a ptv drama Shehr e Zaat which was about making idols out of those we love. Mahira plays an art student who makes the sculpture of her ideal man. She one day meets a man who looks like her ideal man and she marries him, ignoring any red flags cktr flaws or incompatibilities. She is shattered when she realizes that in terms of character, morals, attitudes, this guy she idealized /idolized is nothing like the ideal man she had put on a pedestal in her head. The core lesson for her was to never make a human beinga center of your existenxe and to be obsessed with them to the point of worshipping.

I have new found respect for Badar and Fahad Mustafa . At least they ended their crap shows with Wahaj in 32 episodes even when they are commercially successful and he was at his peak post TB. Kadwani is beating a dead horse at the moment.

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

Bilal is in love with an idealized image of Sadaf who is Mirza's daughter, whose name he is forbidden to utter when drunk. Now think what names or words are we forbidden to utter when drunk or in state of impurity? It's usually prayers, duas, sacred holy verses. The writer is implying that Bilal has put Sadaf on such a high pedestal where she is some sacred and holy being to him. His love for her is that of ibadat (worship). The lines he utters in dinner date that his love does not need her physical presence is the kind of love associated with love of God or ishq e haqiqi, where one loves God in full faith without seeing Him or knowing Him. Bilal thinks Sadaf is so sacred and above it all that even when she tries to sell herself for 8 crore he does not think it is a mark on her morals or her character. So Bilal is in love with an idealized version of Sadaf he puts on a pedestal but real Sadaf is full of flaws and grey shades and not as morally upright or holy as Bilal projects her to be. In fact she is as opposite to Mirza Naamdar as possible.

But writer is not interested in exploring what happens when reality does not meet ideal. This reminds me of a ptv drama Shehr e Zaat which was about making idols out of those we love. Mahira plays an art student who makes the sculpture of her ideal man. She one day meets a man who looks like her ideal man and she marries him, ignoring any red flags cktr flaws or incompatibilities. She is shattered when she realizes that in terms of character, morals, attitudes, this guy she idealized /idolized is nothing like the ideal man she had put on a pedestal in her head. The core lesson for her was to never make a human beinga center of your existenxe and to be obsessed with them to the point of worshipping.

@bold I agree with this..Its basically a deeper form of love which BA feels for Sadaf...where one doesn't even need the presence of other to love the other person. But it seems like BA knows how Sadaf acts,her immaturity,impulsiveness,her anger and frustration on Ammar..he is well aware of all these things. He is well aware of her imperfections and flaws still loves her..even that kind of unconditional love needs lot of strength.

My thoughts...

Bilal isn’t in love with the Sadaf he sees in front of him—he only respects her. Maybe he has some affection for her because she introduced him to love, but that’s it. That’s why, at dinner, he says, "I have very few feelings left for you."

In his conversation with Hamsha by the pool, he talks about God, the Creator, saying that just as nothing can replace Him, no one can replace Sadaf either. But he isn’t talking about her physical presence—he’s in love with the Sadaf he feels in his soul.

I’m sure Bilal won’t want a life with her unless she confesses her love to him first. And even if he does, it will only be out of gratitude, to make her happy.

The Sadaf Mirza Sahab once introduced and this Sadaf are two completely different people.

I’m certain she will ask Amaar to come back multiple times.

Farzana once said something about Bilal:
"You lost him."
"Never leave one man by trusting another."

Farzana is a woman who has seen a lot in life—she didn’t say this for nothing.

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

@bold I agree with this..Its basically a deeper form of love which BA feels for Sadaf...where one doesn't even need the presence of other to love the other person. But it seems like BA knows how Sadaf acts,her immaturity,impulsiveness,her anger and frustration on Ammar..he is well aware of all these things. He is well aware of her imperfections and flaws still loves her..even that kind of unconditional love needs lot of strength.

Agreed that this wasn’t Haseeb’s cup of tea. Besides the beauty shots of Wahaj and his hero entries, I honestly don’t see anything else masala about it. Masala should appeal to the masses. The controversial stuff is more alienating to the general public. And the execution is so slow and dragged out that people can’t even enjoy it as a forbidden watch. I don’t personally mind the controversial stuff but it’s just not made for the masses.

Oh god, I just saw a clip of KDH…I try to avoid it but it popped up on YouTube. Why was Atiqa calling Wahaj sexy over and over again? She was very happy he was delivering to the ladies including herself. Didn’t she play his mom in Jurm 🤣 She just repeated it so much, it was a bit weird for me 🥴 I didn’t watch the whole thing so I have no idea what look he gave that she was referring to

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

Oh god, I just saw a clip of KDH…I try to avoid it but it popped up on YouTube. Why was Atiqa calling Wahaj sexy over and over again? She was very happy he was delivering to the ladies including herself. Didn’t she play his mom in Jurm 🤣 She just repeated it so much, it was a bit weird for me 🥴 I didn’t watch the whole thing so I have no idea what look he gave that she was referring to

Reverse the genders and the actor would be called a creep

I am waiting for KRQ’s outburst and bashing for Haseeb. I don’t remember a KRQ show ever having so many episodes.

I wonder if anyone is watching Dastak but it has a similar plot of female lead marrying an abusive guy but that marriage already took place within 4 episodes. I bet in KRQ’s original script, Sadaf- Ammar’s marriage took place with the first 8 episodes at max.

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

Oh god, I just saw a clip of KDH…I try to avoid it but it popped up on YouTube. Why was Atiqa calling Wahaj sexy over and over again? She was very happy he was delivering to the ladies including herself. Didn’t she play his mom in Jurm 🤣 She just repeated it so much, it was a bit weird for me 🥴 I didn’t watch the whole thing so I have no idea what look he gave that she was referring to

Which shots were she talking about? Was she talking about the office scene where he opens his coat when he asks Sadaf to come to his cabin?