Long post but Sailee is NOT wrong

Well, she's not 100% wrong. I have been going through some comments from YT and Twitter, and a lot of people are kinda accusing Sailee of not being a good partner to Sachin. Some people were even like she should be replaced like what 😭

I don't agree with this. Sachin being right does not mean Sailee is wrong. In fact, I think Sailee is being quite lenient with Sachin based on what she knows and what's hidden from her. Everyone is just looking at Sachin's perspective, and damn it even though I love him so much, it's not right to blame and accuse Sailee on why she isn't siding with Sachin. In fact, I think this track actually shows how much she loves him which might be even more than how much Sachin loves her. Just look at this from her perspective.

All Sailee knows is/is told that Dilip was with Chitti, who was his employer in a legit job (which is a lie), and they had gone to Sachin's friends to collect the money that they loaned (so basically her little brother was only doing his job). Remember that Sailee isn't justifying her brother's job and she is completely against it. Then, from what Dilip told her and what Sachin confirmed was that Sachin was batshit drunk when he decided to beat the absolute sh*t out of her college-going little brother who is literally a bacha in front of Sachin (which is why she keeps saying bacha, not because he is an actual kid but because he is younger than Sachin who is a full grown man next to Dilip). Sailee doesn't just assume Sachin beat his brother. When she first tells Sachin about her brother on call, Sachin goes off on her and lies. When she comes home, she realizes that Sachin was lying to her and questions him on why he didn't come. Sachin then starts giving excuses and explanations that literally made him sound like he's guilty and now covering up. Then when Dilip lies to her about Sachin beating him while being drunk she goes to meet Aneesh first who lies about where Sachin is, but Sachin comes in front of her absolutely out of it in broad daylight (which he never did in the past, kinda also confirming what Dilip said is true) and she gets even more angry and questions him about his drunkenness and whether he was drunk when he beat her brother, and instead of denying that he was drunk, Sachin confirms that he was. Any woman would be mad and disappointed in her husband. Not only has her husband relapsed but he has also brutally beat her brother who is younger than him. The reasoning she is being exposed to literally doesn't warrant Sachin beating her brother so brutally. She literally can't defend Sachin even if she wants to at this point.

Now why didn't she think Dilip could be lying is because Sachin has a history of violence and alcohol. Dilip stole once and reformed according to her because their dad died. Why would her brother continue to do things that killed their father, and why would he steal from Sachin again when they were so close? Dilip personally never had anything against Sachin. Renu's robbery is so far back that connecting dots would be nearly impossible. According to Sailee, Sachin beat her brother and won't apologize because they are poor so Sachin can get away with it, and this thinking is because of her inferiority complex that Renu drills into her head 24*7. It's literally Sailee's fatal flaw, which influences her judgement. I'm sure that if Sachin had told her about Dilip grabbing his collar, demeaning/insulting him, or even trying to beat Aneesh she wouldn't have held Sachin guilty.

And despite all of this, Sailee doesn't leave Sachin, not even for a day to just take a break. She not once stayed at her parent's house, and as far as I know she is still taking care of Sachin's needs with food, clothes, rangoli before leaving, etc., because the maker's haven't shown otherwise. Maybe she can't leave him because of society and marriage, but she can definitely make excuses to stay with Dilip for a couple of days. She can even abandon taking care of Sachin until he bends or harass him like Renu does because believe it or not Sailee does have that kinda power over Sachin and she very well knows it. Sailee can make Sachin's life miserable if she wanted to, which is what Sachin did in the past when he misunderstood her. Instead, she is only expecting Sachin to admit that it was a mistake and he won't do it again so they can move past it. Not even to her family, but to just her. It says a lot about how much she feels for him. Sailee has ALWAYS compromised and put more efforts than he did. When Sachin misunderstood Sailee, he literally kicks her out for something that wasn't even her fault and even starts harassing her after he brings her back (ignores her, yells at her when she tries to make him understand, insults her, abandons her, etc.). Sailee's basically doing nothing in comparison. She's just mad, and she has every right to expect efforts of reconciliation from Sachin with the reasoning she has been given. I just hope she explicitly doesn't end up picking sides.

My issue is that how can she believe her brother's words of working with Chitti in a legit job (when everyone knows he is a criminal) because of what happened in the past with their father but straight away believes that Sachin has got drunk and beat her brother up for no valid reason?

Why can't you give Sachin benefit of the doubt that he won't do that but Dilip gets the benefit of the doubt just because U believe he has changed? The disparage is something that has irked me with Sailee the past few episodes.

When the truth is out in a few episodes, the guilt Sailee and her family are gna feel is gna be immense. Can't wait to see how they apologise to Sachin for what Dilip has done. Can see Dilip getting kicked out of the house cuz of this now.

Originally posted by: Lava07

Nice Analysis from sailee perspective. In upcoming sailee going to suffer between sachin her husband and her brother fight/conflict, because for sailee both of them important so she can't pick any sides between them 😅

I just think it's important for people to see both sides of the coin and then judge. Wait, really? How bad is it gonna get and how long is she gonna stay mad at Sachin (if you've watched the OG)?

Originally posted by: King07

My issue is that how can she believe her brother's words of working with Chitti in a legit job (when everyone knows he is a criminal) because of what happened in the past with their father but straight away believes that Sachin has got drunk and beat her brother up for no valid reason?

Why can't you give Sachin benefit of the doubt that he won't do that but Dilip gets the benefit of the doubt just because U believe he has changed? The disparage is something that has irked me with Sailee the past few episodes.

When the truth is out in a few episodes, the guilt Sailee and her family are gna feel is gna be immense. Can't wait to see how they apologise to Sachin for what Dilip has done. Can see Dilip getting kicked out of the house cuz of this now.

Her brother isn't a serial thief or anything. He did it once and their dad died so Sailee wouldn't think he's that insensitive to do all this again (which chor Dilip is doing). She's an older sister who really loves her lil bro and she's given him everything she could. She literally babies him like her own child. It's easier and more straightforward to believe that Sachin did it yk since he was drunk, was in a fight with Chitti and then beat Dilip because Dilip was with Chitti (maybe she thought Dilip was trying to stop Sachin). Remember when Sachin slapped the old landlord when the guy got in the middle of Sachin's fight with some random guy -- it kinda reflects on how Sachin can't control his anger, and this time Sachin is actually inebriated. Sachin's defense itself is very lame, which he is doing intentionally, and Dilip is taking advantage.

Sailee does give Sachin benefit of doubt when she came to ask him but found him drunk and confirming Dilip's fabricated story. I personally really dislike how she said that line "jawab toh woh [Sachin] tab dega jab uske paas koi waja hogi" in front of Paresh, Shobha, and Dilip because it's back b*tching about your partner. But then I remember Sachin did far worse in back b*tching when he had kicked her out. I just find it intolerable that women can't make mistakes or she can't speak against her husband but he can and it isn't made a big deal, even if it's because of misunderstandings? Sailee not trusting Sachin for understandable reasons makes her guilty but Sachin not trusting Sailee for inadequate reasons makes him misunderstood? I'm not saying either of them are or were right, but the way people have been refusing to see Sailee's pov is baffling. Sachin being right doesn't mean Sailee is wrong.

Bro out of Sailee's family, Shobha is the most hypocritical tbh. She suddenly cares about Sailee being "unsafe" but didn't give a crap when Sachin raised his hand on Sailee and actually came drunk during early marriage. She should've supported Sailee then when Sachin was actually unsafe. Now a year later she wants to talk about this because it concerns her baby boy Dilip. There is no way she would ever kick that loser out. Sailee will probably be the only one who will try to make amends, but Shobha would just apologize and get over it.

Originally posted by: jm43

Her brother isn't a serial thief or anything. He did it once and their dad died so Sailee wouldn't think he's that insensitive to do all this again (which chor Dilip is doing). She's an older sister who really loves her lil bro and she's given him everything she could. She literally babies him like her own child. It's easier and more straightforward to believe that Sachin did it yk since he was drunk, was in a fight with Chitti and then beat Dilip because Dilip was with Chitti (maybe she thought Dilip was trying to stop Sachin). Remember when Sachin slapped the old landlord when the guy got in the middle of Sachin's fight with some random guy -- it kinda reflects on how Sachin can't control his anger, and this time Sachin is actually inebriated. Sachin's defense itself is very lame, which he is doing intentionally, and Dilip is taking advantage.

Sailee does give Sachin benefit of doubt when she came to ask him but found him drunk and confirming Dilip's fabricated story. I personally really dislike how she said that line "jawab toh woh [Sachin] tab dega jab uske paas koi waja hogi" in front of Paresh, Shobha, and Dilip because it's back b*tching about your partner. But then I remember Sachin did far worse in back b*tching when he had kicked her out. I just find it intolerable that women can't make mistakes or she can't speak against her husband but he can and it isn't made a big deal, even if it's because of misunderstandings? Sailee not trusting Sachin for understandable reasons makes her guilty but Sachin not trusting Sailee for inadequate reasons makes him misunderstood? I'm not saying either of them are or were right, but the way people have been refusing to see Sailee's pov is baffling. Sachin being right doesn't mean Sailee is wrong.

Bro out of Sailee's family, Shobha is the most hypocritical tbh. She suddenly cares about Sailee being "unsafe" but didn't give a crap when Sachin raised his hand on Sailee and actually came drunk during early marriage. She should've supported Sailee then when Sachin was actually unsafe. Now a year later she wants to talk about this because it concerns her baby boy Dilip. There is no way she would ever kick that loser out. Sailee will probably be the only one who will try to make amends, but Shobha would just apologize and get over it.

The benefit of the doubt has to go both ways as Chitti is in involved who is a known criminal. As soon as Dilip would have said I work with him, the suspicion should have started then. My point is Sailee has to be fair in this scenario as Dilips actions are suspicious enough but they are turning a blind eye even tho he has gone to jail due to Chitti. The main issue I have is why does Dilip get benefit of the doubt even tho he works with Chitti so his version of events is right but Sachin beat him up for his actions yet cuz he has has history of being a gunda he doesn't get benefit of the doubt? I'm sorry but Sailee has double standards in this regards as does everyone else in this drama on this point for me U know.

Originally posted by: King07

The benefit of the doubt has to go both ways as Chitti is in involved who is a known criminal. As soon as Dilip would have said I work with him, the suspicion should have started then. My point is Sailee has to be fair in this scenario as Dilips actions are suspicious enough but they are turning a blind eye even tho he has gone to jail due to Chitti. The main issue I have is why does Dilip get benefit of the doubt even tho he works with Chitti so his version of events is right but Sachin beat him up for his actions yet cuz he has has history of being a gunda he doesn't get benefit of the doubt? I'm sorry but Sailee has double standards in this regards as does everyone else in this drama on this point for me U know.

Sachin literally said nothing to defend himself, but just that he himself didn't do anything wrong, which can be taken as arrogance or just trying to protect oneself when they are lying. He even confirmed Dilip's lies (his biggest mistake imo because that's what really made Sailee turn against him). I would've supported you on Sailee giving him the benefit of doubt if he had tried to personally talk to her about trusting him and told her about not being drunk when it happened, and then if she still refused, but that didn't happen (at least not yet). So I'm not against her for not trusting Sachin.

You and I have different takes on this. I'm neutral to both and I don't think Sailee has double standards. He broke her brother's arm without giving a solid reasoning when asked. Her anger is justified imo. If it was the other way around (Dilip breaking Sachin's arm 🤡🤡), she would've had the same reaction.

Originally posted by: jm43

I just think it's important for people to see both sides of the coin and then judge. Wait, really? How bad is it gonna get and how long is she gonna stay mad at Sachin (if you've watched the OG)?

After this anniversary over itself, things will start to calm down. I think around 10 episodes after this,they will back to normal.

Since both sachin & her brother won't like each other there will small conflicts only, not anything big problem will happen So nothing to worry.

Originally posted by: Lava07

After this anniversary over itself, things will start to calm down. I think around 10 episodes after this,they will back to normal.

Since both sachin & her brother won't like each other there will small conflicts only, not anything big problem will happen So nothing to worry.

omg that's good. SaChi are one of the few couples who I prefer without angst. Some Dilip roasting would also be nice. He needs to be shown a mirror.

In today's episode Paresh understood that Sachin is hiding something which he is not telling anyone. Yet Sailee being a wife all this time could not understand this and said it's nothing like that and he was drunk and beat my brother up for no reason? My problem with Sailee, the women thinks the worst of Sachin in this scenario yet why can't she think that Dilip did something very bad hence Sachin taught him a lesson? The lack of trust from Sailee has disappointed me alot in her the past few episodes. When it came to Roshni and the chichaa U investigated into that matter yet Ur not looking into this as U have blinkers on that Ur brother is innocent in all of this? Very very poor from Sailee.