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Originally posted by: leafy2022

What happens to the ever traumatic Ruhi didi’s hatred when she sees Abhir? If I watched the same serial they both belong to the same mother who is responsible for her misery.

It just doesn’t add up for me.

For Abhir, Ruhi spent an year bonding with him and developing a bond that we all are familiar with. It is not that there are no issues between them, they still have but that bonding is also there.

With Abhira, Ruhi's relationship had always been complicated. They never actually bonded like Ruhi did with Abhir. Since the beginning, there has been enmity between Ruhi and Abhira because of Armaan. And then, the fact that Abhira grew up loved and cared for by her mother while Ruhi had to grow up without one, which she believes happened because of Abhira's mother, adds to her hatred.

On the other hand, Abhir grew up alone.

Originally posted by: itsShonali

For Abhir, Ruhi spent an year bonding with him and developing a bond that we all are familiar with. It is not that there are no issues between them, they still have but that bonding is also there.

With Abhira, Ruhi's relationship had always been complicated. They never actually bonded like Ruhi did with Abhir. Since the beginning, there has been enmity between Ruhi and Abhira because of Armaan. And then, the fact that Abhira grew up loved and cared for by her mother while Ruhi had to grow up without one, which she believes happened because of Abhira's mother, adds to her hatred.

On the other hand, Abhir grew up alone.

Abhir and Ruhi separated on a very bad note; Ruhi had significant issues and jealousy with Abhir when he arrived (Akshara was not even in the picture for her at that point), and she was very upset when Abhimanyu turned down Arohi, so they merely bonded for a few months at the end, and accident happened. so the attachment doesn't make any sense.

Am I watching the same serial?

In my opinion, the stem of Ruhi's hatred for Abhira has nothing to do with Akshara. It's for all other reasons, and the connection to Akshara just gave her more options to justify it to other members of the family.

Originally posted by: leafy2022

Abhir and Ruhi separated on a very bad note; Ruhi had significant issues and jealousy with Abhir when he arrived (Akshara was not even in the picture for her at that point), and she was very upset when Abhimanyu turned down Arohi, so they merely bonded for a few months at the end, and accident happened. so the attachment doesn't make any sense.

Am I watching the same serial?

In my opinion, the stem of Ruhi's hatred for Abhira has nothing to do with Akshara. It's for all other reasons, and the connection to Akshara just gave her more options to justify it to other members of the family.

Did I not mention it or did you not read it? Abhir and Ruhi have their own issues but they also have a bond that Abhira and Ruhi do not have.

Also, I know no matter what I say you are never gonna believe anything or even think that this could be a reason enough. This argument can go on and on without any conclusion. I do not have that much time to waste on fictional characters

So I am just gonna enjoy my favorite villain who is seemingly more popular than the so called main leads who clearly failed at being the main leads and are acting more like villains.

Enjoy!

Originally posted by: itsShonali

Did I not mention it or did you not read it? Abhir and Ruhi have their own issues but they also have a bond that Abhira and Ruhi do not have.

Also, I know no matter what I say you are never gonna believe anything or even think that this could be a reason enough. This argument can go on and on without any conclusion. I do not have that much time to waste on fictional characters

So I am just gonna enjoy my favorite villain who is seemingly more popular that the so called main leads who clearly failed at being the main leads and are acting more like villains.

Enjoy!

Villian need no reason to hate " the leads " but Ruhi has her own reason let her do her work right ..Yeh kya jabasdasthi hai ,

Originally posted by: leafy2022

Abhir and Ruhi separated on a very bad note; Ruhi had significant issues and jealousy with Abhir when he arrived (Akshara was not even in the picture for her at that point), and she was very upset when Abhimanyu turned down Arohi, so they merely bonded for a few months at the end, and accident happened. so the attachment doesn't make any sense.

Am I watching the same serial?

In my opinion, the stem of Ruhi's hatred for Abhira has nothing to do with Akshara. It's for all other reasons, and the connection to Akshara just gave her more options to justify it to other members of the family.

Originally posted by: Ambajee

Ruhi and Abhir were Six and given their age, both had a bit of immaturity and loads of understanding. I don’t know if you followed gen3, but honestly the kids had a good bond inspite of the mess around them. They even relied on each other and jealousy beyond the particular circumstances, wasn’t even shown. The kids enjoyed each other presence and Ruhi was actively helping and enjoying AK’s remarriage. And even helping Abhir understand the relationship of siblings since AK got pregnant with Abhira. With current gen, none of the siblings even enjoyed a coffee together peacefully to reminisce or talk abt happy stuff and so they have a long way to go. But gen3 Ruhi Abhir were the best in current itv siblings!

Manyu aru did try to make them friends and until aru death they did have a bond

Originally posted by: Ambajee

Ruhi and Abhir were Six and given their age, both had a bit of immaturity and loads of understanding. I don’t know if you followed gen3, but honestly the kids had a good bond inspite of the mess around them. They even relied on each other and jealousy beyond the particular circumstances, wasn’t even shown. The kids enjoyed each other presence and Ruhi was actively helping and enjoying AK’s remarriage. And even helping Abhir understand the relationship of siblings since AK got pregnant with Abhira. With current gen, none of the siblings even enjoyed a coffee together peacefully to reminisce or talk abt happy stuff and so they have a long way to go. But gen3 Ruhi Abhir were the best in current itv siblings!

The period you are referring to when Ruhi and Abhir were buddies was the same time that 6-year-old girl was all comfy and was loving her Masi Akshara... Is it still the same now? SO how come selectively Abhir is still her pal and everything else related to Akshara is traumatic for her?

I guess people will see things with their own lenses... No point....

Originally posted by: leafy2022

The period you are referring to when Ruhi and Abhir were buddies was the same time that 6-year-old girl was all comfy and was loving her Masi Akshara... Is it still the same now? SO how come selectively Abhir is still her pal and everything else related to Akshara is traumatic for her?

I guess people will see things with their own lenses... No point....

With abhir, there are 2 strong reasons 1) They had BONDED as an innocent kids in their childhood before Akshara’s death. It was not just about memories, it’s about BOND 2. In adulthood, they share the same pain of growing up without any parent around them. Ruhi ke according akshara ki wajah se ruhi bina mother ke raise hui waise he abhir bhi bina mother ke he itne saal raise hua, he was also in pain for many years just like her. Of course she has/had soft corner for abhir jo abhira/akshara dono se uper hai.

Abhira ke sath toh na kabhi koi bond tha, na koi soft corner , na unka pain same hai kyunki abhira had Akshara since childhood but ruhi/abhir were always motherless, uper se Armaan love saga alag like karela woh bhi neem chadha!!

Originally posted by: leafy2022

The period you are referring to when Ruhi and Abhir were buddies was the same time that 6-year-old girl was all comfy and was loving her Masi Akshara... Is it still the same now? SO how come selectively Abhir is still her pal and everything else related to Akshara is traumatic for her?

I guess people will see things with their own lenses... No point....

Originally posted by: Ambajee

Ruhi and Abhir will always be a product of Akshara running away from her responsibilities. Abhira will always be a product of Akshara’s only responsibility which she took and never really ran away from. So I dunno how we can equate all of them and expect Ruhi and Abhir to be just ok with Abhira. That’s just Abhira with her wishful thinking. She needs to make an effort to try and actually make a bond with them. Did she make an effort to atleast ask either of them how they fared at such a young age after their moms left them??