Originally posted by: BombayChic
absolutely my thoughts . Chum never questioned Shilpa ever, never when she chose Vivian over KV , nor when Shilpa always targetted Shrutika for no reason. Why does no one question Shilpa.
KV made sense until the statement now does shilpa know how it feels to be neutral/ or both sides when I played it. Uske baad all abba dabba jabba. I lowkey felt she did gaslight him into accepting that he was wrong and made a mistake. He has his reasons fine enough. She was in a limbo ok . Leave it. She dint have to push her reasoning that since we all are friends we should nibhao the friendship like you say. Its a game too. After guilt tripping him to no extent she says sorry dint meant to make you feel bad. Then KV does the unbearable crying drama , yeh nahi karna tha.
Spare me.
i think the word gaslight gets thrown around too loosely on this forum. he considers chum a close friend and he has given her enough importance for her to be able to say these things to him. a friend explaining something to you or sharing their perspective with you on how they perceived your actions in a certain situation isn't necessarily gaslighting imo. if kv doesn't want to hear something, he can just tell her you are no one to tell me these things. usne khud yeh space dia hai chum ko k wo sab baatein un ko bol sakti hai because kv usko itni importance deta hai. to me, kv is wrong in this situation. if he had been honest and said i'm not supporting shilpa and that's the end of it, and then she tried to guilt trip and pressurize him, then i'd say it's wrong. but it was kv yesterday who changed his mind and did his jaap about friendship and how he can't do that to shilpa and blah blah. yeh sab is ne chum k samne bola tha and shilpa tak se apologize kia tha for having these thoughts because he considered them so wrong. yeh sab sochne tak ki maafi mangli thi shilpa se when she wasn't even involved in his thought process. so if chum is bringing up the friendship point (sure, they are not his true friends but putting that point aside), yeh point bhi kv ne khud hi chum ko dia because he was the one who was saying i have to support my friend, i can't be a hypocrite, blah blah. phir agley din iska memory loss hua and is ne kuch kia hi nahi task mein because it was all too childish for him. tab hi bata deta k i'm not playing for anyone. tab koi support nahi dia and then he had the audacity to take shilpa's name when bb asked who he wanted as time god. plus he can't even stick to a specific reason. kabhi he says shilpa didn't support him is liye nahi play karna, kabhi vivian ki taraf bias ki waja se nahi support karna, kabhi vivian ko compliment kar k irritate kia to nahi support karna, kabhi avinash k liye nafrat hai to is liye nahi support karna, kabhi task bohat childish hai to nahi support karna. he doesn't have the guts to stand with any statement. isko confused and stupid rehna hai bas.
just to clarify, i don't think he needed to support shilpa at all and i already clarified the point about chum's hypocrisy so won't repeat those from my last posts