Anuj Anupamaa Divorce Reasons - Page 2

In 1 of the episodes Anuj bags a contract and he goes to the Shah House where Vanraj is seen performing a Pooja and Vanraj gets infuriated when he comes to know that Anuj has bagged a contract. Toshu terms Kinjal's unborn child as a bad omen and is promptly slapped by Vanraj. Hasmukh tells Anupama that his family is there to take care of Kinjal and asks her to concentrate on Anuj. Indirectly he suggests Anupama to marry Anuj and she proposes to marry Anuj by dancing on the stage.

She has failed to learn a lesson from her failed wedding with Vanraj. Vanraj's grandmother is responsible for Anupama's 1st failed wedding with Vanraj. Every man has certain expectations from his wife that she should be well educated and speak good English (I am not supporting Vanraj. He had EMA with Kavya due to this stupid reason). What is shocking is that instead of being a good friend to Anuj she decided to get married for a 2nd time (All thanks to the stupid suggestion by Hasmukh).

Worst thing is that even after divorcing Vanraj (The divorce itself was built on a rocky foundation), she had stayed with him and Kavya under the same roof. If she wanted to stay with Vanraj and Kavya after the divorce, why did she divorce Vanraj? If she did not want to cut off all ties with Leela and Hasmukh, why did she marry Anuj?

Marriage means commitment to your spouse and his children. Even though Anupama had adopted Aadhya she neither prioritized her nor her 2nd husband Anuj. This is the reason why Anuj had lost all his patience with Anupama (On the day of car accident).

Feel free to add any points that I have missed.

A few days before Anupama's 2nd wedding with Anuj, Kanta Ben Joshi (Anupama's mother) gives her (Anupama), a piece of valuable advice. She tells Anupama "Anuj will understand all your relationships with the toxic Shah family. Do not put the load of the problems of Shah family on Anuj's shoulders". But Anupama did not listen to her mother's advice.

Following are some of the instances which showed that Anupama neither prioritized Anuj nor CA aka Aadhya.

01. Anuj is wheel chair bound after a terrible accident with Vanraj when both of them fall from a cliff. But Anupama, instead of prioritizing Anuj assists Kinjal during her pregnancy. Kinjal should have gone with her biological mother Rakhi Ji (Rakhi Dave).

02. CA aka Aadhya is excited about taking part in a dance competition conducted by her school. Anupama instead of going to CA aka Aadhya's school prepares Kichidi for Leela. Does Leela not know how to prepare a simple Khichidi?

03. Anuj is heart broken after Anupama allows CA aka Aadhya to go with her biological mother Maya. Anuj wanted a background check on Maya. But our mahaan matashri Anupama Devi Ji who should have supported Anuj in his battle with Maya, plays Holi with Hasmukh's family.

Not just the above factors, in 1 of the episodes Pakhi elopes for marrying Adhik against Vanraj's wishes. Vanraj rightly banishes Pakhi from the Shah House. Hasmukh and Vanraj both of them put Pakhi's responsibility on Anuj's shoulders. Anuj and Anupama go to the Shah House to discuss about #PakAdh, discuss plans to conduct their wedding following all the rituals and finalize the schedule of events. But Pakhi had showed her true colors on the day of her Sangeet by signing receipt of ornaments worth Rs. 60,00,000/-. Devika even makes proper arrangements for Pakhi's Sangeet with in the budget. But Pakhi's demands for expensive designer clothes and her insulting of Anupama's mother and brother by passing inappropriate comments on their clothing ensures that Anupama banishes Pakhi from the KM.

Not only Pakhi's drama during her Sangeet, she had assaulted Adhik in 1 of the episodes and goes to the Shah House. By mistake Pakhi's mobile had slipped out of hand and had gone to speaker mode. Vanraj creates a ruckus at the KM even though Pakhi was at fault.

Poor Anuj had suffered a lot after marrying Anupama and he had lost all his patience with her (On the day of car accident).

Please feel free to add any points that I have missed out.