Kaffara #3 (GEO) Ali Ansari , Laiba Khan , Usman Peerzada - Page 45

Originally posted by: bips

Even Working with the theory that sitara is not a horrid person but one on the verge of breakdown, i dont think the ideas suggested works ::

Theoretically giving space to sitara sounds good but sitara is such that anyone else giving her space would amount to abandonment to her....

It would just solidify her belief that salaar just married her for time pass and now he has left her alone like a used tissue (urghhh.... who is writing these crappy dialogues)..

She doesn't want to become independent or working.. For her that amounts to no one willing to take responsibility of her.... No one willing to keep her in their life... She doesn't have aspirations as such... .

It's catch 22... She doesn't want to live with him but any hint of him leaving her would confirm all her misunderstandings

only solution is to tell her the entire thing that why salar lied to nani ... as i said before , sitara always reacts strongly at first but later calms down ... she will slowly believe him but for starting , he has to tell her ..

what sitara needs right now is a sense of security and belongingness ..

Originally posted by: bips

Even Working with the theory that sitara is not a horrid person but one on the verge of breakdown, i dont think the ideas suggested works ::

Theoretically giving space to sitara sounds good but sitara is such that anyone else giving her space would amount to abandonment to her....

It would just solidify her belief that salaar just married her for time pass and now he has left her alone like a used tissue (urghhh.... who is writing these crappy dialogues)..

She doesn't want to become independent or working.. For her that amounts to no one willing to take responsibility of her.... No one willing to keep her in their life... She doesn't have aspirations as such... .

It's catch 22... She doesn't want to live with him but any hint of him leaving her would confirm all her misunderstandings

True. What you said is how I genuinely think Sitara's thought process will be. That is exactly why I wrote I want Tahir to step in. He has earlier stated that he will protect her like a daughter and this is the opportunity to do so. Sitara needs a elder figure right now. Someone who can firmly guide her. As for working or not working, I dunno. She has explicitly never said that she is opposed to working but that Salar might not like her doing a teacher's job when Nani offered it to her (and in all probability, he would not have liked it because he wants her to concentrate on her education). Maybe (and hopefully) once she moves, she comes to realise that she has to look after her own self and does start working.

It is as you rightly said. It is a catch 22 situation. The only solution that I see is that Sitara herself wants to leave (like abandoning Salar before he can abandon her in her own mind) and Tahir provides her protection and support while she does so. Only once she calms down and recovers and they come out clean to each other and re-establish a solid communication and Sitara does realise that yes, she does want to be with Salar regardless of anything, is the time I want them to get back together. Otherwise, it is all going to go on in circles again and again.

I want Sitara to hear the truth from Salar mouth, because nobody is close to her more than him. Whatever misunderstanding they have between them, only they can heal each other. Zohaib k thapad wali baat jb Salar ko btai us ne, they still have that unseen bond.

Salar should told her the truth. And yes he should giver her choice & space. But in this situation ...respecting her consent in living together or jaan churana has very thin line.

I too want Tahir to step in... to have sitara place and power. As I write before,...Salar should not be her option but her choice.

I don't think they'll show tahir helping or Sitara taking his help, as technically she has no haq over him to take money from him. She didn't even opt for the scholarship. I don't think they'll even take this track

They'll probably end with some half hearted apology from Sitara and maybe salar too and the matter resolving itself. Which would be disappointing.

Originally posted by: Schrute

Exactly, she needs that right now. She is not a horrible person, she realises her mistakes and goes around fixing them, like she did with saba, and nani. She wanted even salar to talk to his nani and clear things out, she is not an escapist like salar and tries to face things. But having a moral,emotional support is important for her, and that's what she feel is lacking, and with Nani's departure, things have accelerated to ghe point of no return

Yeah, thats why I want salar to step in and confess. Atleast she will realize, nani went in peace. Salar ne qasim ki job, gjar k pper...sb uske dad k the. Aur Sitara ko dunya ki kisi cheez se fark nhi pdta koi greed nhi use....But she should know. Ek rishta tha salar k pass, a one person that was his home...aur usne wo bhi Sitata ki mohabbat mein sacrifice krdya.

Pyar mohabbat ko side pr k...i want them to sit close to each other...talking about nani...sleeping on each other shoulder.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

I don't think they'll show tahir helping or Sitara taking his help, as technically she has no haq over him to take money from him. She didn't even opt for the scholarship. I don't think they'll even take this track

They'll probably end with some half hearted apology from Sitara and maybe salar too and the matter resolving itself. Which would be disappointing.

Originally posted by: Schrute

Exactly, she needs that right now. She is not a horrible person, she realises her mistakes and goes around fixing them, like she did with saba, and nani. She wanted even salar to talk to his nani and clear things out, she is not an escapist like salar and tries to face things. But having a moral,emotional support is important for her, and that's what she feel is lacking, and with Nani's departure, things have accelerated to ghe point of no return

i feel after salar slapping salman scene , writer should not have dragged this nani salar MU till now ... it was absolutely not needed ...

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

I don't think they'll show tahir helping or Sitara taking his help, as technically she has no haq over him to take money from him. She didn't even opt for the scholarship. I don't think they'll even take this track

They'll probably end with some half hearted apology from Sitara and maybe salar too and the matter resolving itself. Which would be disappointing.

Baat to wahi hai naa...Salar ne shadi kr li..to apna hi bna lya use. Uske mohabbat ka yakeen hi sirf us k dil ko skoon de skti hai. Haan Salar ye zrur keh skta...jb bhi tum jana chaho, jb life mein strong hi jao..you can leave.

But aesa keh de aaram se to wo Salar Sikandar nhi rhe ga naa

I enjoyed reading all the posts. Everyone is so invested. We are collectively thinking about this way more than the writer or makes might’ve thought 😂😂