Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 12th Aug 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 22

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

the way she hugged him 2 days back told her fears. Ar is taking wrath from Rohit and dadi. He just took a decision to sort everyones issues easily. But now she is ulta. Her daily dose of flipping like as usual. She riled ar that it's blackmail by Rohit not acceptance through heart. So he suggested an easy way to let go his family for their happiness and chose abhira for shadi. Though he won't be Happy we knew he has to chose her and family too that way sacrificing family now for Rohit. Abhira wants both ladoos ar and family but she won't bend or realise it's all spoiled because of her deal jaap. Realisation ki baat hi na karo toh acha hi kisiko waha kuch nahi hi all are dancing as per daily scheme to show others they are mahan. I am getting khoon from blood with her I love you more jaap which is echoed🤣 always. She loves family more so holds arman to get it. 😛

@bold. Ekdum sahi baat. Yahi toh hai na. She is looking for excuses to not leave the poh.

It's OK to be wary of the difficulties that lie ahead but isn't it natural in any marriage & abhira has had that much experience with poddars , still she chose them so why these concerns now ?

Chalo maan liya madam wants dadisa to give her consent happily , what will actually happen is..dadisa will agree , not bec of rohits blackmail but armans blackmail of leaving the house ? Isn't it the same thing ? But second time she will agree 🤪 the same happened when Arman proposed. She refused him but said yes when vidya insisted...

Maan liya she wants no blames after marriage ..maan liya she dreams of hum saath saath hai with dadisa ..tell me , what did she do? Tell me about That one single thing she did to mend the bridges between her and dadisa ?

Its not stupid though, its exactly how she's supposed to feel if he says he's only leaving for her and not for himself. If someone is constantly called names, accused of things, somewhere they will be impacted by it. If everyday she's called family wrecker and then Armaan says he's doing all this only for her, it will make her anxious. She is happy he loves her so much that he has made her priority but she has never wanted him to choose between her and family.

Mujhe koi batao.......Abhira loves Armaan but won't marry him without KP's permission. KP toh mood mein nhi lag rahi maane ke. So, Abhira wants to live her whole life in OH as bf-gf till the time KP doesn't melt??

Leaving PH is not her "Agenda". Toh forever bf-gf it is, right?? Aur toh koi option nhi hai.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Things have gone really bad for Armaan in that house after Rohit’s entry , so his reasons are totally valid from his POV but bandha phir bhi uss Rohit ki baare mein hi soch ke ghar chod raha hai , and then he cries he can’t live without his family and bhai. The entire situation is actually tricky, he wants family , she too wants a family ,but they want each other more than anyone else. Abhira’s fears are not invalid, she went through a lot of humiliations in last 1 yr because of this same family but still she chose Armaan because they openly discussed how his family treats her and Armaan always accepted and sometimes stopped them too ,now they both don’t want to see that repeating . Waited for KV’s approval but today from V’s expressions she knows KV will not agree but rest of the family do support them and love them. The egoistic women also cursed Abhira ,that’s not easy for her to brush off ,But After a lot of thinking she will definitely choose to leave the house.

Only phufa and doormat Bahu her 2 fav ppl will use her fav potha to crush her ego. Only them she will understand AA’s goodness.

Abhira's fears aren't invalid is pretty much what almost every post is starting with and I'll reiterate it once again! But Armaan is right to think about Rohit's pain. In fact Armaan should have thought about it on his own and not waited until Rohit explicitly asked him to leave! And I have been saying so too! Armaan wronged Rohit and he needed to have been sensitive to his hurt and given him space. Armaan is also not wrong about wanting/yearning for his family's approval.. but he has also very clearly said he knows he won't get it for himself and for Abhira. Does not mean he hates his family.. it only means he has come to an acceptance about their unacceptance..

Abhira needs to brave her fears and take the decision to support Armaan in his decision because she has seen firsthand how he is treated from day 1. And it had nothing to do with her.. sure KP's anger may have increased, but even yesterday KP called Armaan paraya and not her apna khoon etc and all of that was not in relation to Abhira at all!! And she was right there.. So her fears aside, Armaan's position in the house is deep-rooted bland him braving his mind to decide to leave is huge and she needs to support it and then continue to work on changing her mind!

So I do really hope she thinks through all this and changes her mind!

"Pyaar hun Priority nhi" ye kisne bola tha?? Ab Armaan ne priority bana liya hai, phir bhi she is not happy.

Originally posted by: Krinya

@bold. Ekdum sahi baat. Yahi toh hai na. She is looking for excuses to not leave the poh.

It's OK to be wary of the difficulties that lie ahead but isn't it natural in any marriage & abhira has had that much experience with poddars , still she chose them so why these concerns now ?

Chalo maan liya madam wants dadisa to give her consent happily , what will actually happen is..dadisa will agree , not bec of rohits blackmail but armans blackmail of leaving the house ? Isn't it the same thing ? But second time she will agree 🤪 the same happened when Arman proposed. She refused him but said yes when vidya insisted...

Maan liya she wants no blames after marriage ..maan liya she dreams of hum saath saath hai with dadisa ..tell me , what did she do? Tell me about That one single thing she did to mend the bridges between her and dadisa ?

Abhira knows dadi won't accept her easily. Did she do anything to please dadi sitting in outhouse she riled ar and Rohit for kabaddi match keeping dadis ijjat at stake though as team they saved it. What if Rohit left ar in that end moment dadi will keep abhira on head for making all the dance kya. Next is ruhi Rohit issue. Dadi Rohit are interested it's their issue and karma Or interest to get her back it's their wish she intruded as head of house giving her decisions and didn't listen to ar. At the end of the day Rohit is ar brother and ruhi is his wife whether she is good or not. If similar situation happens in joint family will they break the rista Or accept the fact go ahead ignoring until it comes on their own life. This is where dadi doesn't want to approve. She says dadi hurts her insults her mocks her mom parvarish. Did abhira not intrude dadis issues at home and stir them in the name ov change where dadi is against it. If she comes permanent it's always dadi vs abhira and abhira wants her own pov to be accepted by everyone and dadi has to keep quiet. Already ar is saying dadi i can't say ha mein ha milavo to you go against you fight for everything. This is what abhira wanted in a way dadis puppet or chabi ka gudda image thrown. When he is doing it keeping her as priority she is thinking of dadi 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

Abhira's fears aren't invalid is pretty much what almost every post is starting with and I'll reiterate it once again! But Armaan is right to think about Rohit's pain. In fact Armaan should have thought about it on his own and not waited until Rohit explicitly asked him to leave! And I have been saying so too! Armaan wronged Rohit and he needed to have been sensitive to his hurt and given him space. Armaan is also not wrong about wanting/yearning for his family's approval.. but he has also very clearly said he knows he won't get it for himself and for Abhira. Does not mean he hates his family.. it only means he has come to an acceptance about their unacceptance..

Abhira needs to brave her fears and take the decision to support Armaan in his decision because she has seen firsthand how he is treated from day 1. And it had nothing to do with her.. sure KP's anger may have increased, but even yesterday KP called Armaan paraya and not her apna khoon etc and all of that was not in relation to Abhira at all!! And she was right there.. So her fears aside, Armaan's position in the house is deep-rooted bland him braving his mind to decide to leave is huge and she needs to support it and then continue to work on changing her mind!

So I do really hope she thinks through all this and changes her mind!

I am so confused with what Abhira wants right now.This whole asking for KP's permission has made the whole Madhav's list track senseless. Why was Abhira even angry with Armaan that time, and what were her concerns ??Abhi toh uska bilkul Ulta bol rahi hai.

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Originally posted by: Sera-high123

"Pyaar hun Priority nhi" ye kisne bola tha?? Ab Armaan ne priority bana liya hai, phir bhi she is not happy.

Behen she wants everything ..she wants a chalet in Switzerland , and a private jet to take her there , she will just go and lie on it..then dream of rajshri type family & prem type hero , bapuji jaise pita ...phir dhik tana dhik tana dance when they have a baby... ... Itna planning toh india ke 5 yr plan mei nai hoti..hoti bhi hai toh 30% hi implement ho sakti hai .

But who is saying Abhira's concerns are invalid??? Lol!

The point is this right! You are taking just today's conversation into account. But what I'm saying is.. Either Abhira goes by what Armaan is saying to her or goes by what she thinks he wants! It can't be both ways! She has been practically hearing him being told off and called names long before they fell in love... And now after Rohit's return, it has become more pungent.. so she can have her fears but what is her grand plan beyond that?? KP kabhi nahi maani tho?? And by holding onto her fear, Abhira is only denying herself AND Armaan a chance at a few happy days.. can she not marry him and continue this Bharat milaap of him with his family?

There is such thing as wishing for something and wanting something else that's more practical...so Armaan is wishing for a happy joint family but has accepted he won't get it and working to get the next best thing... Abhira is also wishing for a combined family but she's refusing to think beyond that because she is bound by fear. And it would do her good to break that fear!