YRKKH: BTS, SM updates and Spoilers Thread # 31 - Page 113

Originally posted by: Abhirasharma

If Abhira is a pushover, what about her parents? Weren't they very selfless?

I feel Abhira has more spine than a lot of female leads

She does act like a pushover at times, especially when it comes to Manish. She finds it hard to say no to him even though Manish hasn’t really done anything for Abhira (That’s the only thing I don’t like).

I can’t say much about her parents, I did not like the last season.

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Phir bhi people have an issue with it. If I can call out Armaan and Roohi then I will call out Abhira when needed as well.

Ruhi cannot be compared with Abhira and Armaan though. She’s evil and deliberately does stupid stuff while Abhira always has good intentions and tries to make things right, sometimes ends up making mistakes. I wouldn’t use stupid, obnoxious, etc words for Abhira tho

Originally posted by: Abhirasharma

You are right , even i believe in calling out characters

I generally asked question about dislike for Abhira in this forum because The dislike for the female lead is more than male lead, when both are equally flawed characters, infact Armaan is more. His confusion about his feelings for ruhi & stringing her along at some points, have been one of the biggest issues. But i don't see Armaan being disliked like Abhira.

You should have joined the forum two months back. That time EDT used to have 70+ pages with Armaan bashing .

Originally posted by: hobbit

She does act like a pushover at times, especially when it comes to Manish. She finds it hard to say no to him even though Manish hasn’t really done anything for Abhira (That’s the only thing I don’t like).

I can’t say much about her parents, I did not like the last season.

They show that bit to convey that she has always felt a connection with him. Thats why she cares so much about what he says, what he thinks even though she shouldn't. Hopefully bio reveal ke baad she will have a phase where she hates his guts for abandoning Akshara and her too. Abhira never had a family because MG didn't care for even the unborn child of Akshara's when he kicked her out. He never cared to know what happened.

Originally posted by: Abhirasharma

I thought people dislike her for being impulsive, not for being Abhinav's daughter. But i don't know, I am new here.

She is so endearing. How can anyone hate such a loveable child.

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Really don’t understand why some people have an issue with people being neutral? We can’t even call out Abhira’s mistakes now?

What I dislike about Abhira is she is is doing the same mistake as Vidya giving KP more importance than her husband

look at armaan’s mothers story .. even after so many years KP only has hate n venom for armaan .. why give so much importance to her acceptance

any sane n rational person would have said given so many complications of dadi , ruhi n rohit plus fufa it is best we shift to a different house .. when armaan himself is going to say it why say we can’t leave family rubbish

Same with Goenka’s Abhira knows Ruhi , Swarna and surekha hate her .. she feels a connection with MG great .. blood is thicker than water .. but she should still stay away .. and not enter into their lives ..

I dont think it's the same. Abhira always stands up to Kaveri when she says crap to Armaan like paraya etc. But she cares about her approval because all said and done, Kaveri is still the boss in PH. Armaan respects and worships her, seeks her validation. Therefore by extension she does too . She wants to live happily with Armaan in PH as his wife with Kaveris approval - the way it used to be. She seems to be hoping to achieve what they had before - where Kaveri accepts her as bahu and is humane with her the way she used to be long ago.

I don't think Kaveri matters more to Ab than Armaan like V behaved all these years.

She was being foolish for getting involved in Ro Ru divorce matter and she herself acknowledged it afterwards saying sorry to Armaan and mentioning that she should have just left instead of conceding to MG . She said that MG telling her with haq made her give in but she acknowledged that it was a bad idea.but her scenes with MG are written that way to show that she feels a certain unexplainable connect with MG as if he's really her own parnanu.

Right now she wants to stay with family because she will find it difficult to live with the feeling that she is called a family wrecker who made Armaan cut his ties to family and the only reason he is being treated badly now both personally and professionally is because he chose her. She doesn't want that for him. She doesn't want to marry with the looming threat of an elders baddua. Armaan may be ok walking away now but he's gonna be unhappy and in pain being away from his biological family. She doesn't want Armaan to suffer that. She knows the pain of having no family and yearning for one.

I agree these are situations she grew up with .. without a family .. but it’s always better to strengthen the bond with your partner .. and fill ur life with kids and their responsibilities.. elder ultimately get the message they cannot interfere in every thing

But it has to go both ways Abhira has to stop poking her nose in Kaveri matters .. in Ghum Sai had done the mistake of interfering in kaku’s mentally unstable Daughter’s life .. so kaku was not wrong in striking back .
Over here Abhira is getting in Rohit Ruhi matters then if Ruhi n Rohit are doing the same ..

the things are messy any sane elder like Madhav should advise Armaan n Abhira to move out of the house and stay separately for Rohit’s marital life

since Rohit has worded it out clearly.. And also tell Armaan clearly to start his own practice .. otherwise his kids will face the same discrimination he did

both in ghum and here I'd say intentions also matter. just because Kaku or Kaveri feel upset about the interference of Sai/Abhira, does not give them license to be cruel or go overboard in their hate. she may not like Abhira fully but she has to stop being cruel, petty and utterly spiteful. Even when first time shaadi happened, Kaveri didnt approve of Abhira but she grew on her enough that Kaveri acknowledged her as bahu and had basic insaaniyat and decency, but now she is acting like a tyrant. Kaveri had recognized that Ab may not fit her mould but she is a good girl with pure heart and she still knows that now also. She just refuses to accept that Abhira genuinely means well. She could have eloped with armaan long back but she is there seeking her approval. She could have turned M against family for good, but she saved his life going out of the way and made sure VM would patch up. Kaveri is too egotistical to acknowledge the truth.

Yes, Abhira should not interfere in Ru Ro matter, but at the end of the day, she is coming from a good place. she got involved in a professional capacity but the divorce matter was started by Rohit and now has been stalled also by Rohit only. she didnt do anything to push Ru or Ro to divorce each other and neither did she push them to stall it. her stance is only that Rohit should be cautious and not be heartbroken or cheated again. she even sees that he loves Ruhi but its one sided and thats her worry. she is only speaking out of concern and not in a way to meddle. She doesnt see any real feeling of remorse or wanting to move on in Ruhi's body language. Kaveri is being egotistical and not seeing the obvious but Abhira is perceptive to Ruhi being upto something especially after the date kaand. But even without Abhiras involvement in Ru Ro matter, Kaveri was gonna blame her in one way or another. Even now she almost agreed with V that Abhimaan shaadi is a good idea but her ego is in the way.

Kaveri will only melt fully ig once she sees Ruhis asliyat . RN Ruhi is being shown as out and out vamp so her pardafaash will be the trigger for Kaveri to realize whats obvious - that Abhira is a beautiful person whereas Ruhi -the one she chose is panauti, ghatiya, waahiyat person.

Abhira seems to believe that Kaveri does love Armaan despite the crap she says because even though she didnt approve of his bio mom, he is her khoon only. She seems to believe that all this current hate for Armaan is only because of her, because Armaan chose her and thats why she is going out of the way to be patient, to tolerate insults etc but wants to melt Kaveri and get her genuine approval. She wouldnt want to be labelled the cause of Armaan losing his dadi's trust and love, and cutting off from his family.

Seeing her laadli only through rose tinted glasses, refusing to accept and point out her mistakes thinking she can do no wrong, always trying to find a way to justify her behavior even blaming it on others and thinking the people who point out her mistakes do so because they hate her laadli... ..

God, how I dislike Suvarna.... 😏