Why Anuj is blaming Anupama for Aadhya being missing

Isn't Anuj the one who left aadhya and went to meet anupamaa . He is the one who who abandoned her for his upma obsession and when aadhya is missing he is blaming Anupama ??? How is that upma fault

It's his pattern. He blamed Anupamaa when Choti left with Maaya, then blamed Adhya when and kept scolding her with his passive aggressive "kiddo" when Anupamaa left him, and now blames Anupamaa again.

This is no suprise, he was also blaming Bhagwaan and Vanraj when Anupamaa married 34 years ago, when it was completely done with Anupamaa's consent and liking.

That’s this beggar’s favourite TP.. when Anupama is not there in his life, blame Aadhya and when Aadhya is not there in his life, blame Anupama..

He can’t handle any relations and is such a useless coward that keeps on shifting his blame to others 🤮

Nothing new with him now as when either of anupa or adhya is missing from his life he ends up blaming them instead of owning up to his own mistakes and flaws

Originally posted by: Historia

Isn't Anuj the one who left aadhya and went to meet anupamaa . He is the one who who abandoned her for his upma obsession and when aadhya is missing he is blaming Anupama ??? How is that upma fault

This guy had issues since the beginning. He never knew whom to prioritise and when. First left his sister with Vanraj for his Anu. In his honeymoon, proposed adoption and went ahead with it. Never defended his daughter when those vile shahs mistreated her.

Vanraj is correct. Isko pagalkhana bhejo. Not defending maa at all but Aadhya was always his responsibility more than his Anu’s. Rote rehta hai mai adopted hu, abandoned ka Matlab Tum nahi samjhogi and blah blah. Anupama left them over a quarrel and he did the same. Left his daughter alone with that vile Devika and was running behind his Anu.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

It's his pattern. He blamed Anupamaa when Choti left with Maaya, then blamed Adhya when and kept scolding her with his passive aggressive "kiddo" when Anupamaa left him, and now blames Anupamaa again.

This is no suprise, he was also blaming Bhagwaan and Vanraj when Anupamaa married 34 years ago, when it was completely done with Anupamaa's consent and liking.

Completely disagree on the Maya thing, Anupama went behind his back and made a deal with Maya and didnt even tell him that his daughter was emotionally blackmailed

Just because he is wrong now doesnt mean Anupama wasnt wrong them

He's utter trash who can only ruin the lives of those around him.

Iss show me koi bhi apne actions ki responsibility nahin leta, apne actions ke consequences ko doosron ke sir pe madh dete hain.

He was only one thing ever the one who loved, was obsessed with Anupama. Briefly, he turned to be a responsible father but the day he ignored her pleas, forced his traumatised daughter to interact with her abusers and the source of her trauma and recounted to Adhya everything he has done as favours and sacrifices, there was zero redemption or a road to recovery.

Sun meri baat . . .

It's his choice