Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 23rd Jul 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 22

Dadisa should understand armaan ne wada liya tha isliye ruhi ne shadi ki ab ruhi kyun saath nibhayege abhimaan ko dekhne ke liye ab to armaan ke paas rehne ka bhi matlab nahi hain woh samajh chuki hain

I am in fear dadisa will ask armaan to convince ruhi and he will again do something stupid

Originally posted by: Sneha.Narayanan

Charu, i agree but Naira didn't have the same life like Abhira. Abhira has no family, no father, no relatives. Other than her mother , she doesn't even know name of anyone (except her father Abhinav, that too she has seen only in photo frame)

(They must have struggled with money, because her mom was a single mom with no financial support and also her brother died (which i don't think she knows about) when she was in her mum's tummy. And then to see mother being shot by your molestor and being married to a stranger and then living in that house where they don't even let you sit on dining table and character assasinate your mother, wouldn't have been easy for Abhira)

My point simply is, Abhira craves for family, she has never had one, so she understands the importance and last thing she would do is, to take Armaan away from his family. It is not about flipping, it is reacting based on different circumstances and situations.

And i don't feel male lead is being degraded for Abhira. He was always spineless from the start. If anything, he has now started standing up thoda because of her.

Same reason why kartik naira can't be compared to arman abhira..kaira were never unwanted by their family so this narrative of daily dose of beizzati & familial love in response is too much to digest ...

If abhira craves for family , this is not the only place where she will get one...when she married Arman, she was never projected as a family girl. She always insisted on her independence & career..we know where she was headed to bec it's itv , that's a diff thing.

Arman was always a football & his gratitude towards poddars make him spineless ..abhi kuch change nai hua hai ....but when both the leads are like this , what's there to watch ? 😂 arman aisa hai wahi toh shikayat hai. inka ddp dekhte rahe bas ?

Originally posted by: Susi26

So they will be in live in relationship in outhouse.. wah dkp kya message de rahe ho .. now don’t tell me that they will do dhinchik even before getting married

Originally posted by: A_Derry_Girl

The thing is, narrative wise I get why both Armaan and Abhira are so needy about the approval and acceptance from the "family", even if I do not agree with them. However, as a viewer it is just becoming exhausting.

If they have to play hum saath saath hain after a few days, which I know that they will, they REALLY need to tone done the negativity. Families being upset and angry is fine. But constant pushing, taunts of sautela and ganda khoon is getting to hard to come back from. There has to be a line somewhere.

Abhira telling Arman ruhi humare beech mei hamesha rahegi and she can't trust arman but abhi dekh lo. likewise the family will do ghoomar next week , likhwa lo.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

She is a doormat too. She speaks up but then goes back to being desperate for toffees.

Right now, Abhira has no authority to speak within the family.

Iss family ko Armaan ki kadar nhi hai, Abhira ki kyu hogi. If they were married I would have understood her involving in family matters.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Same reason why kartik naira can't be compared to arman abhira..kaira were never unwanted by their family so this narrative of daily dose of beizzati & familial love in response is too much to digest ...

If abhira craves for family , this is not the only place where she will get one...when she married Arman, she was never projected as a family girl. She always insisted on her independence & career..we know where she was headed to bec it's itv , that's a diff thing.

Arman was always a football & his gratitude towards poddars make him spineless ..abhi kuch change nai hua hai ....but when both the leads are like this , what's there to watch ? 😂 arman aisa hai wahi toh shikayat hai. inka ddp dekhte rahe bas ?

I disagree with Abhira not being projected as a family girl. Abhira has always been portrayed as someone who desires a family, if you see her initial conversations with Akshara Sharma (Preeti Amin)

She has always wished for a family. Basic autonomy, independence and career is right of a person, that does not mean that don't want a family. So we can agree to disagree on this.

Regarding Armaan, I agree.

i have a feeling rohit will turn abusive and ruhi pagal oorat openly after ar cause he will give her sahara and shit

ar rohit rona dhona kitna hi khichenge they would need a reason for 4 of them in same house

kaveri ne mast aag lagai for vidya to pick rohit over ar lets see kya hota hai. madhav useless as ever going to raise hands on rohit whos clearly not in his senses.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

agle gen ki fl will be illegitimate baby 😂 armaan divorce dene wala nahi hai so they will show sr without marriage so that post leap ab will hold his kid and he will be married to ruhi

hammoo mummies and nanies will cut out throat hushhhh hushhh hushhh🤣

Originally posted by: All_A_MooPoint

Actually the wedding of ruhi and ar does not matter. Even without that Rohit has the right to be angry with armaan. It is only now that AR has realised his love for abhira, but back then, he also had the same intentions as ruhi. Why else would he tell his younger bro's wife who is his ex that he ll always have only her in his heart. AR did have those immoral feelings inside him when he got them married.

He was not married bk then..but shadi ho ya na ho..this promise itself is immoral ..

But considering the situation back then , engagement was done & both families prepared for the shadi..at this point if they backed off , family ki badnaami toh hoti hi plus , if the reason was revealed ke Arman and ruhi love each other , it's even more disgraceful ..pehle toh if they were in love , why did ruhi agree to marry rohit ? After the shadi is called off , will poddars accept ruhi for Arman coz their blue eyed boy rohit was hurt & already in love with ruhi ...

Also , rohit was attracted to ruhi & arman sacrificed for him and his family ....it was upto ruhi to accept.. but when Arman gave that goddamm promise , it became the root cause for all troubles ...bottom line is both were equally at fault.

All said n done they should forget the past and move on..ek galti ho gayi toh life imprisonment toh nai de dege ...Arman is still willing to move on but ruhi isn't..

Originally posted by: All_A_MooPoint

Actually the wedding of ruhi and ar does not matter. Even without that Rohit has the right to be angry with armaan. It is only now that AR has realised his love for abhira, but back then, he also had the same intentions as ruhi. Why else would he tell his younger bro's wife who is his ex that he ll always have only her in his heart. AR did have those immoral feelings inside him when he got them married.

We can agree to disagree there. In my opinion, If Ar really had immoral intentions like Ruhi, then they could have had full fledged EMA because Ruhi looked more than willing. That did not happen and he had asked her to back off also multiple times when Rohit was there.

But Ar is guilty of not drawing his boundaries firmly with her due to his misplaced guilt ( which Ruhi intentionally kept fanning) and people pleasing attitude which enabled Ruhi further. He is guilty of not letting Ab know the truth even when Ruhi interfered and insulted her which at the end made her look like a fool. And Rohit has every right to be angry because he is the biggest victim and he had every right to know and he if had known would have have put a stop to it ( I don't believe anyone else in family would have done, they would have expected Ar to sacrifice for Ro which Ar himself knew) . But the way he is lashing out at Ar bringing up sautela, pushing him multiple times , no flicker of emotion even when Ar was at his feet and absolutely no ill feeling to the others in the family makes it difficult to continue to root for him. And we have to forget whatever happened between him coming to know to realizing that Ar had made a sacrifice in the earlier episodes.