Yup... according to the writers of these show acceptance is everything
Like you. said with Ani and J being legally married, they both denied the marriage til the end. We as viewers saw them as legally married husband and wife but to them they never were. Even if that though crossed their minds they rejected it or it got rejected by the other person and because they rejected it so strongly society also rejected it because it was in their favor!
Right now it is in society's favor well - BH people - that Ani and Arshi are announced as husband and wife. BH people trying to save their bachi kuchi izzat, trying to I guess show it to the world Arshi is the bahu of the house and she already is and she will be... That is why they showed all the talks about shubho telling ani how he has to feel ashamed about Ani when he is asked about Jhanak...
Is it ridiculous , yes ! Their thought process and double standards are ridiculous, to say the least
But are they trying to do it right for Arshi, yes they are as future in laws...
As viewers we can view this as anything we want and judge it. We felt the love that Runak had for each other , and that is why the idea of them being with someone else feels disgusting but if they are married , then they are already committed to someone and that is it .. then who are we to say anything !
The way things are going Runak is long long gone.. Ani will reject Jhanak the next time he meets her as a love interest because he has to now support Arshi. He might help her, support her , may miss her , may emotions come running back but that is about it...
Now how Arshi takes things , and misunderstands Ani that is the game. Because that is why they are showing Arshi being so much not trusting of Ani, which i found strange. But it's all , I mean all in god's or arshi's hands now. They - runak - are not going to nothing! So dont keep any hopes on them!
Originally posted by: MMR2810
Vira, what I understood from their narration is, rituals not important, acceptance, acknowledgement and consent are very important things to go-ahead in any relationship.
There is no consent of Ani and Jhanak in their marriage..even though they married with all rituals infront of God and whole village.
But both Ani and Jhanak never accepted and acknowledged their marriage. When Tejas exposed their marriage truth both denied... and elders of the family just to please Shrishti they organized reversal rasam..
Followed by Avinash and Jhanak marriage...if it is not Tejas, jhanak would have married to Avinash. Her story might have ended there only..here also consent played role.
At the time of Kashmir wedding Pandit ji stopped Ani chi marriage because for him Ani is tied with jhanak legally and morally.
So upto that no one thought about legality of Ani and Jhanak marriage. So they nullified their marriage.
Now Ani and Jhanak both are free from each other legally.
Ani Arshi Kolkata marriage even though rituals were not performed they both accepted that they are married . Family acknowledged their relationship.
If we consider our customs and Rituals they are not married.
Edited by vira76 - 1 years ago
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