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Posted: 1 years ago

Originally posted by: Divya294

Exactly Manoj is. Yes at last she realized or may be acted like she realized🤭. But yeah i think it was for good of all of them that both the marriages didn't happened back then. With all the badnami, jakham and DDP they faced those years, they still are better off than having a damad like amit bansal and a bahu like his sister(has equal chances of being good or evil)

Ikr. SS devi ka bola hua ya kiya hua kuch bhi main nhi maan ne wali. Kyunki kal ko phir flip kr jaegi 🤣😂. Exactly it's good both the marriages didn't happen back then.

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Posted: 1 years ago

Originally posted by: VirenDev

Hypocrisy at its peak its what it is

Hypocrisy & toxic matriarchy too since SS Devi is concerned here.

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Posted: 1 years ago

Originally posted by: VirenDev

Agreed Manoj ka faltu ka zimmedar banaya tha inlog ne woh toh victim tha bechaara.He did right by eloping and glad SS atleast acknowledged about it yesterday but uski koi value nahi karna to inhone aage jaake fir hypocrisy hi hai.

True bechara Manoj. As of now I would say SS ki baat aur gadhe ki last ek saman hai 😂🤣

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Posted: 1 years ago

Originally posted by: rekha_crm


These idiots keep changing their statements and prathas at their will and wish, however it's convenient for them.

Seriously, choosing a life partner is everyone's right.

Kahan Likha hai that arranged marriages never disintegrate...so many women silently suffer in arranged marriages... and nowadays many break it too...Ma baap are also humans.. har want woh sahi ko pehchan nahi sakte..

These idiots were arranging Mini's wedding and if not for RauLi's interference, Mini would be married to a monster.

Bhaad me jaye inke prathas..

And for Sadu chachi... I hope Mini and Golu both fall in love with someone smiley36 Bada Aaya pratha samjhanewala

Sach me as viren said hypocrisy wala ghar

Arrange marriages mostly run due to the silence of the girls and nowadays are breaking for their being able to speak and stand up. There are no less number of cases we are seeing currently that proves the wrong judgement of maa baap. Of course 4 5 mulakat me kisi ko kitna jan loge

Exactly Mini ke liye to ain time pe aashirwaad svarup bhej diya ram ji ne rauli ko wo to bhag bhi nahi sakti thi😥

Yes they both must take inspiration and move forward in search of thwir better halves. Whosoever they may be its gonna be tbousand tumes better than amit, manas, rati and Vicky type people🤭

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Posted: 1 years ago

Originally posted by: VirenDev

Exactly thodi bhagawat toh Chachu bhi deserve karta apne bete se.

He deserves sabse jyada after he opened his mouth yesterday.

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Posted: 1 years ago

Originally posted by: VirenDev

Budhiya girgit se bhi tez rang badalti ye dekh liye maine kal.

Girgit sharma jae budhiya ke saamne 🤣😂

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Posted: 1 years ago

Originally posted by: Divya294

Everytime i am reading you my proud and respect for you inceeasing as well. I totally relate with each of your words. You and your husband was very much right when you decided to not accept any kind of disrespect from whosoever it may come and that's the reason your parents were finally convinced with your choice and happiness

I totally agree that its mostly the girls who have to move to their husband's house after marriage sufferin such kind of relationshipa. Damaad are accepted sooner or later barring the case where the daughter herself is abandoned by the parents and they don't want to keep any ties with her 😓

Same here Raina I'm officially ur fan now 😁😁.

Exactly it's girls who have to leave their home & suffer more. Damad more or less suffer less only.

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Posted: 1 years ago

Originally posted by: princesspurple

We're finally at the end of this track. Seems to be a bit more on Monday so I'll save my final thoughts until then. Rati's truth is finally out in the open and as expected she revealed Vaibhav's part in this. I'm extremely disappointed that it was only Ajay who scolded him for what he had done - he's definitely holding his son accountable while the rest just continue to yell at Rati. She rightfully reminded him that the whole wedding plan was his idea, not her's. She just ended up taking it forward. There was a slight shocked reaction from Rahul upon hearing this information and so I'd like to think he's hurt by this. We haven't seen his full reaction to this and I'm pinning my hopes that he doesn't let us down.

Now Vaibhav isn't the only one not taking accountability - Janki ma is at the top of this list. She pivoted so much during this episode that you have to now ask - what exactly was her problem with Rahul and Mauli. Look, she saw this happening before Jyoti and was immediately concerned that this would cause a fight between Manoj and Vijay. We kept on this reasoning for a long time but then we pivot to - Vijay and Tanvi will never accept the relationship. These are two different things. And to make matters worse, sitting on her high horse questions why Vijay and Tanvi have an issue with Mauli being a divorcee when she doesn't. Girl - you knew they lived each other before they even confessed and proudly said you were not going to step in. You let Rahul get engaged to Rati and not you want to have a voice?? She was part of the problem right from the beginning but is refusing to take any responsibility for it. We would not have been in this situation if she had just taken this stance earlier - and both Manoj and Jyoti reinforced it. The amount of flipping and pivoting she can do is just amazing and no offense, she is the master manipulator of the house.

As for Mauli, there was zero need for her to apologize. We need to stop this narrative of "women standing up for themselves" is equal to going against someone or causing them pain. Mauli isn't fighting for her happiness to be rude, she's doing it for her own self respect. If she can fight for everyone else's happiness, why can't she fight for her own - it's not being selfish. As much as I would like to see this change in her, I'm keeping my expectations low. FL on these shows are built to be people pleasing and self sacrificing- as to somewhat portray what the ideal women should be but it's out of touch with the real world. Maybe with Rahul's help she can find a way to balance this out but I'm not expecting much.

Now Rahul, thank goodness he's here. He rightfully calls out the whole house for still not accepting their relationship (I mean what more can they do) and at this point is no longer angry with his mother but more amused. I'm extremely glad that Rahul pointed out to Mauli that Tanvi still is not on board and if she was still adamant on getting everyone's blessing. It's a question that needs to be asked. Wedding preparations are underway and there is a huge chance of Tanvi never agreeing to this union. If we get to wedding day and she's still not on board, with Mauli bend on her hopes and still marry Rahul? Or will she cave to the pressure?

Yes vaibhav has earned all the rebukings, scoldings and disgust. Pahle hi itna hak mara ja chuka hai bechare ka theys should at least now give him what exactly he deserves 🤭

SS pleaseee she was just understandable for me when she knew Mauli as a wife of Manas with the latter being a sane guy. As soon as he truth was out and rauli returned i expected her to shun all her fear of breaking relations and propose a refreshing relation of both Rahul and mauli. What if Mauli was never married to Manas and was just a so called daughter of Manoj??

But she has gradually and perfectly shattered all her hopes and has been the greatest hurdle ever in the marriage of heaven made couple.

Mauli yeah i know these FL will fight the world for others but when ut comes to them will either be silent or will just apologize for all the right things they did for themselves but against their elders kyonki unke hath to maafi mangne ke liye nahi aashirwad dene ke liye hote hain😒

Rahul is practical and real. With Mauli he can tackle Tanvi and I thibk they will show her simply melting slowly and gradually nothing else.

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Posted: 1 years ago

Originally posted by: Divya294

Sach me as viren said hypocrisy wala ghar

Arrange marriages mostly run due to the silence of the girls and nowadays are breaking for their being able to speak and stand up. There are no less number of cases we are seeing currently that proves the wrong judgement of maa baap. Of course 4 5 mulakat me kisi ko kitna jan loge

Exactly Mini ke liye to ain time pe aashirwaad svarup bhej diya ram ji ne rauli ko wo to bhag bhi nahi sakti thi😥

Yes they both must take inspiration and move forward in search of thwir better halves. Whosoever they may be its gonna be tbousand tumes better than amit, manas, rati and Vicky type people🤭

True hypocrisy wala Ghar

Definitely no one can decide in 4-5 meetings if the person is right or not for u it takes time.

Rauli r seriously Ramji ka ashirwad not only for Mini but for this whole madhouse.

Can't agree more. Their choice of partners r anyday gonna be the ones selected by their elders.

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Posted: 1 years ago

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel


The Mini incident is what I still don’t understand. What if Vicky was a stand up guy but Mini just didn’t want to get married to him? Tab bhi zabardasti shaadi kara dete?!


There is a difference between arranged and forced marriage, no? More than half of us Indians come from austere families lekin aise toh shaadi nahi karaate! My sister/cousins rejected hundreds of guys on matrimonial sites, met a few of them and if they refused - for whatever reason - the parents accepted it. Arranged marriage means that parents figure out who you might like, not that pehle dikhe gadhe se shaadi kar lo. Chennai Express thodi na hai. And these people are educated, upper middle class-middle class people.

Uske upar se, why believe some new guy who you don’t even know instead of your own daughter?! Proof kyun chahiye tumhe? You are the court? There is literally just responsibility and familiarity between the parents and their children, not love.

In fact i was shocked by Mauli's reaction when she asked mini the reason due to which Vicky hit her. Thankfully mini aptly answered her back. Vicky ne kuch kiya ho ya nahi if for any reason in the world she dont want to get married to him than there is no question of moving forward with this relation.

Absolutely agreed all my sisters had an arranged marriage but nowhere our parents or relatives tried to pressurize them to get married to whatver person they met first even if the marriage was happening in their 35+. I am from Varanasi where we have very much a long way to go in order to be a truly open minded society on par with metropolitan cities. Ujjain i think is of similar background as some of my cousins and friends had studied there so i know. Here too they don't have any problem fro shorts, sleeveless and other modern outfits that many other show still advocatea but they have no such issues. All their orthodox thoughts come into play during marriages only😓

For last one i think they have taken atithi devo bhavah too seriously that even devas must be amused and irked by it🤣

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