Mehndi Wala Ghar: Episode Discussion Thread #3 - Page 148

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

True. They have the most pathetic judgement of characters.

Ye log koi pratha na nibhaye, is me hi sabki bhalayi hai.

Can't agree more even pathetic seems a very small word for them.

Ofcourse pratah nibhane ke chakkar me bas zindagi barbad krte hain ye log.

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

Chachu bohot judgemental hai...toh banta hai...Golu ko thoda bhagawat Karna Chahiye😂

Thoda kya full fledged bagawat Krna chahiye Golu ko. 😂🤣

Originally posted by: Divya294

Exactly Manoj is. Yes at last she realized or may be acted like she realized🤭. But yeah i think it was for good of all of them that both the marriages didn't happened back then. With all the badnami, jakham and DDP they faced those years, they still are better off than having a damad like amit bansal and a bahu like his sister(has equal chances of being good or evil)

Agreed Manoj ka faltu ka zimmedar banaya tha inlog ne woh toh victim tha bechaara.He did right by eloping and glad SS atleast acknowledged about it yesterday but uski koi value nahi karna to inhone aage jaake fir hypocrisy hi hai.

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

That's what I was also thinking earlier that Manoj didn't inform anyone at home about Ajanta and straight away got married to her...

But yesterday Janki's dialogue confused me. She said if I had agreed earlier you wouldn't have done it..😂

Her statements are so contradictory these days that I guess we should just ignore her😂

That's what happened I guess.

Ye budhiya ki kisi bhi baat pe dhyan na Dena hi better hai. Cos usse sirf confusion badhegi koi sense nhi banega 🤣😂

Originally posted by: Vidvish

Thoda kya full fledged bagawat Krna chahiye Golu ko. 😂🤣

Exactly thodi bhagawat toh Chachu bhi deserve karta apne bete se.

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

A lot of people confuse arranged and forced marriages. And the way they portray it on ITV is why most people outside of the subcontinent don’t understand the difference.
Arranged marriage is basically Tinder Ultra Max Pro with parents having more details and horoscopes and stuff. But the power is generally in the bride/groom’s hands. In fact nowadays the couple are advised to go on a few dates, communicate on the phone etc before giving any reply. This is middle class Delhi/Mumbai/Bangalore. Obviously we have stricter families around but most parents love their kids and are not going to force them into unwanted marriages.

I expect them to show such marriages happening when they want to show the family members as the villains. Like in Laado or Crime Patrol. Not when you want the audience to like the characters. 🙄

The need for proof is what gives this family drama more thriller comedy vibes 😂
Most days we are confused ki MWG hai ya Savdhaan India or CID.

Agreed. But u know ITV & it's weird way of portraying things never gonna change 😅😅

Originally posted by: Vidvish

That's what happened I guess.

Ye budhiya ki kisi bhi baat pe dhyan na Dena hi better hai. Cos usse sirf confusion badhegi koi sense nhi banega 🤣😂

Budhiya girgit se bhi tez rang badalti ye dekh liye maine kal.

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

I called her as having more shades than a paint catalogue yesterday, and I stand by it.
Abhi tak I haven’t understood her problem with RauLi. Mauli is a divorcee, Mauli is Manas’ ex-wife, TanJay are bigots, Mauli deserves better than their taunts as in-laws, Rahul was engaged to Rati, Rati was an innocent victim. So many reasons she could have given but she flips and flops like a noodle in the wind.

Itni confused hai ki bhagwaan se bhi jhoot bolti hai. She has a new and different reason for her hypocrisy everyday. Ramji must have a book filled with her excuses by now.

This budhiya is hypocrisy, manipulation, ego, toxic matriarchy & inconsistency personified. All of this makes me think did she actually ever had a problem with Rauli or all of that was a sham to u know just prove herself as the elder one & always right.

Originally posted by: Divya294

Need of the hour🤣

Badly needed. 😂🤣

Originally posted by: natkhat_angel

Hahahaha. Thank you for your kind words but honestly, someone’s gotta give in these situations. My parents’ reasons were flimsy so it was easy to stand against it but when you love your parents, it’s hard to see their faults. I get Rahul’s disappointment with TanJay, having experienced it myself. Bagaawat bhi isliye samajh aati hai.

My parents were never confrontational or rude to even a fly so I don’t connect with the crap MWG family spews. My husband and I were together for more than a decade before we even told my family but we had had a conversation in our early days that neither of us would accept any disrespect. Which is why I don’t connect with Mauli. You have a loving partner who cannot stand your disrespect but tumhe poccha banne ki aadat hai.

Something I learnt is that in an Indian family with love marriage, damaad ki problem ends with the wedding and bahu’s problems start with a wedding. Toh, fingers crossed for Mauli because Tanvi is gonna get worse, now that she’s up against the wall.

Everytime i am reading you my proud and respect for you inceeasing as well. I totally relate with each of your words. You and your husband was very much right when you decided to not accept any kind of disrespect from whosoever it may come and that's the reason your parents were finally convinced with your choice and happiness

I totally agree that its mostly the girls who have to move to their husband's house after marriage sufferin such kind of relationshipa. Damaad are accepted sooner or later barring the case where the daughter herself is abandoned by the parents and they don't want to keep any ties with her 😓