YRKKH: BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread # 22 |DT NOTE P.35, 54 - Page 83

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Kaveri is disgusting piece of shit. She is blaming Armaan for the death of his mother, now she also remembers the death of Abhira's mother when she never gave two hoots about it in the past & holding Armaan responsible for Madhav' condition. She is expecting Abhira to donate blood risking her own life when she has done nothing for her in life.

And everyone else is watching this tamasha silently. They cant find a word to defend Armaan and Abhira from this old hag.

Originally posted by: mili9

Sorry to barge in here, my friend.

I didn't know if what is mentioned here is real or sarcasmIf it is sarcasm, please ignore this free ka gyaan. If it is real, and you really like Ruhi and this is how you see Abhira, Armaan equation, I apologize in advance and let you have your opinion

But hear me out if I may......... I felt that the writers were totally off yesterday to have Ruhi come and give some gyaan to Abhira. The one who only a couple of days ago threw Armaan (her gehra pyaar) under the bus and expected to kill Armaan, Abhira relationship forever. She felt that she can't bend and twist Armaan anymore as he stood his ground at the mandapand so hoped Abhira will do what she wanted. The one who is irritated, peeved and salty that Abhira didn't fall for her machinations and returned to PH. She was giving the lecture as an elder sister to a wayward younger sister spoiling her life. OK, I will move on and make peace with it. May be her P naanu's kwhaish poori ho gayi, for sadbuddhi to both Ruhi and Armaan.

The above mentioning of Armaan- Abhira and how Armaan is now scared/guilty of what he has done to Abhira and somehow that killed the vibe of the relationship and Abhira= Daadi and Vidya bothered me.

I am all for having unconditional relationships. While Armaan did have a free and comfortable relationship with Abhira, a lot of that stemmed from the fact that she didn't need to be appeased by him, she is dependent on him. He treated her as his ward, somebody who is less worldly wise, insolent person tagged to him. I may not be too fair when I say that, as we saw him being affectionate with her, doing things for her. But, emotionally speaking he had set very clear boundaries with her when it came to his personal matters- RuhiHe didn't tolerate even small miscommunications with his family- daadi, maa or Rohit. So, he took all liberties with Abhira to know choti-badi baatein, not that she minded and gave everything whole heartedly without any conditions.He also took liberties to erupt on her and took out all kinds of frustrations on her, very freely. But, when it came for him giving back to her, that was not the case, that is if we agree that a relationship is a give and takeFrom his side, what he gave Abhira is very conditional(I am not talking about money etc., strictly speaking emotions only)

So, if he feels guilty now for how he treated her, that is what a nice person with a conscience should feel like, right? He can have his freedom with her, where he is not vying for anything, but to get there, he should also be able to give freely. For that to happen, she needs to be trusting him. I think this is where they are now. He is trying to convince her about his integrity(which by the way is completely uprooted by himself) and sincerity about his relationship with Abhira.

We also need to remember that Abhira is very aware of his mind set and dynamics with his family, his sense of misplaced guilt. With his personality, he would have been immensely guilty for Abhira's mother's death too, had she even harped a bit about that. Despite knowing his personality and his weakness, she never used it to her advantage. Not even when he threw her out of the house, knowing she has nowhere to go, means of survival, she didn't once bring up the topic. If I remember right, she even mentioned that it is entirely her mom's decision to intervene and fate took its course and him being there is a coincidence in the cruel khel of kismet. This attribute of hers where she lets him be without any conditions, is what made him have the relationship he had with herNow it is his turn to provide the same comfortable space with him to her

I don't want to even go there at how Ruhi, daadi and Vidya used that weakness, we all witnessed it in great detailHe now broke free of daadi's clutches, Vidya seemed to have turned around and Ruhi doesn't have that influence over him anymore to twist him against AbhiraFinally, Armaan Poddar had come of ageand it is a good thing

I am now tired of the lawyer black and white outfits. Can we see something else please?

Please ignore if this is not what you meant at all

Well written.

I agree.

Armaan until love realization treated her as a punching bag, took her for granted and didn't confide in her despite how transparent she always was with him . He was guarded. Didn't express to her. Hid things from her. But if Abhira did that he did not appreciate it.

Having haq on her doesn't mean taking her for granted. Its good he has regret and realization of how he had wronged Abhira.

Ruhis dialoguebaazi reeked of hypocrisy and dhong. She has never wished happiness on anyone genuinely. She will only create trouble always.

Woah! I didn't mean to label you what you are not, my friend

I am so sorry I set you off. Not my intention at all. I am just trying to write a perspective and have a conversation. I love having conversations when something is so muddled, sometimes helps me better understand. Sometimes, the way some one says it, everything clicks. That is all I am doing here.

My assumption that you might like Ruhi is my mistake, I whole heartedly apologize for that

My weekend is packed and am assuming your's is as well. Both of us need a free mind space to get on with the 100 million things we have to do. So, if you are having a bad day, yeh lelo, sincerelyIf I made your day worse, I sincerely apologizefor that !

It is just that I didn't have free time for a long time and had taken some time off this weekend before the academic year started to be ready with teaching material etc...., I am whiling away time. Moral of the story: Mili having free time is not a good thing

Thank you for your responseI hope you have a good rest of the weekend

Why can't we get Ruhi free in the hospital scene. Where dud she got the info and came there to make arman guilty. To show him u dumped me but I consider ur family mine so I came. Bakwass.

edited for name-calling

Originally posted by: parusmiley

Today whatever ruhi said to abhira is 100% correct each and every point is onpoint .... If the same points said by Manisha Chachi , or krish will be praised and applauded ... What not digestable is the words came from ruhi .. as simple as that ... I really liked the writer view she is the one who created the mess and she is the one who said give clarity to armaan .asked her to clear the mess it's a start .they brought ruhi forward Nd abhira backward .. because hear lacks trust on armaan and ruhi knows armaan

Manisha Chachi is Abhira well wisher so of course we will appreciate it

Personally, I wish that Abhira will stop being a fool and reached herself and

follow her heart, but like she said she want to trust him but scare.

Some of us have a hard time digesting her WW tour, maybe if the showed

some self reflecting, in some of her mistake and lies she told, we could

digest it. I couldn't bring myself to watch her give advise after calling the Ab doosri aurat

and her denial that all was fine but in 5 days Ab cause her shaadi broke. Nope

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Are yaar tum toh court khol ke baith gyi..

I already replied what I meant..time nhi hota subah fatafat type kiya meine...

Read your commemt afterwards so can't even tag you now...

It's fine is all good, it was already explained what you meant

and I agree

Arey na .. remember Pakhi didi even she used to pretend she’s Sachi and achhi when her chips were down .. I will give Ruhi benefit of doubt .. when she shows the intent of getting married to someone outside the Poddar house .. otherwise she is just looking for Mauka to sneak back in .Her cover of grieving for Rohit is blown .. otherwise she would have happily been staying in ph .., and dissed Abhira for keeping Madhav away from family

Originally posted by: mili9

Woah! I didn't mean to label you what you are not, my friend

I am so sorry I set you off. Not my intention at all. I am just trying to write a perspective and have a conversation. I love having conversations when something is so muddled, sometimes helps me better understand. Sometimes, the way some one says it, everything clicks. That is all I am doing here.

My assumption that you might like Ruhi is my mistake, I whole heartedly apologize for that

My weekend is packed and am assuming your's is as well. Both of us need a free mind space to get on with the 100 million things we have to do. So, if you are having a bad day, yeh lelo, sincerelyIf I made your day worse, I sincerely apologizefor that !

It is just that I didn't have free time for a long time and had taken some time off this weekend before the academic year started to be ready with teaching material etc...., I am whiling away time. Moral of the story: Mili having free time is not a good thing

Thank you for your responseI hope you have a good rest of the weekend

Oh okay..

Actually there is a set narrative here that if you find mistake with abhira you are ruhi fan..

Apologies from my side also to assume you in same league..

Baki you also had a good weekend...👍

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

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Originally posted by: Sajini235

Parallel story is thousand times better than gusaoing ru between abhira-armaan. Let them go that way. Can't they bring back that manav back and marry ru off to him? Hopefully he will take her to US. 🤔🤔 Ya phir ru keliye ek ghar jamai bhi chalega like poophz. Bus kuch time keliye hi sahi use ab-ar se door rakho.

Manish might know that Akshara is dead .. Abhira is her daughter … and how did Manish become her Nana .. he is her parnana …

It would look wierd if he’s happy to meet Abhira rather than cry and break down that Akshara is dead