self respect is taken in the wrong way of ego and pride. Accept the mistakes and move ahead is the best. Only ar is doing it. Did she think she intruded into bhansal family. She could have pushed ar to talk to them Instead of her involvement. That way they all fight and she can have the work done also. Or use smartness to convey the words. This does not mean dadi fufa are mahan they are what they are they won't change. It's their yrs of nonsense continuously done. Small Tablets won't work for them they need surgeries 🤣🤣. Deal shadi truth out time if both accepted it as galati hogayi innocence se of stupidity se baat khatamOriginally posted by: parusmiley
When deal marriage is out every one in podar family felt cheated both Arman and abhira would have asked sorry ..abhira should have expressed her feelings which what made her deal and about now senerio .. a simple sorry can change the situation ..see even dadi was accepting abhira .. suddenly deal marriage is out both are not interested to continue the marriage .. one is defending himself and other left the house ... When two persons are not interested eventually third.person interference will be above them ... Even our parents say something about us does we leave the house and start living seperately ... No na..
I think whatever Abhira said is what she wished happened, not blaming Armaan and his action/inaction as the direct cause and effect
How many times do we think of the if only, kaash yeh aisa hota, yeh aisa nahin hota. As they say the hindsight is always 20/20. That is what I saw Abhira saying. She did this very calmly, as she herself was breaking from the inside. I felt that she is entitled to say whatever she felt to the one person whom she feels attached to, in a moment when she lost everything including her very own identity
How many times do we snap at people who love us and be there for us when we are stressed? Because, let us face it, we know they will take these outbursts
I felt that was the root of all of her hurt. Maanaa ki their's is not a real marriage, but she didn't know the existence of a 3rd person in that marriage. So when you think about it she made a fool of herself as she sparred so many times with Ruhi about her interference between her and Armaan. She thought she was replying with all rights to Ruhi, little did she know that Armaan put her in a position of ridicule.
Aise humiliation se koi bhi, kaise normal ho sakte hain? Unfortunately, these acts of Armaan are very difficult to reconcile with and forgive. She didn't know the vulgar kaand of him going on to try and write on the temple walls, what explanation or justification can he give to that kaand? But he still dared to say " hum aisa kuch nahin kiya" which is a total lie at that time
. When you think about it, that is one of the worst things he has done, actually planning his future with Ruhi waiting for Abhira to finish her term as his wife and leave
. He brought a sincerity and honesty to Armaan
Something in that guy's body language was so off
Call me petty, but I hated it
. Ruhi is taking a moral high ground of a bechari, jilted woman and the whole blame is on Armaan
while both of them played their roles in the mess they created in Rohit and Abhira's lives
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He needs to be sued first for giving orders to debar her without looking at such simple evidences
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