ambika woman/mother....

yep after long time back with a subject....

why is ambika's behavior not acceptable...

it's a woman in pain after discovering that the person she loved and trusted has betrayed her... and why is so obligated to accept the child off his betrayal....

I personally feel that her anger is justified and she doesn't have to live with kalika under the same room.....saloni has crossed her limits....she is wrong......

Ambika has been shown as being a mature and sensible woman hence her behr towards Kalika is not justified. Narpat had an affair but that was before marriage, so how is Ambika betrayed? He did have a a child out fo the relnship but he was unaware. This is real sense is being unfair towards the child and really not to her! A child borne out of any relationship has no fault. How can one blame the child and for what? All children need parentage which is significant not only socially but also psychologically. Kalika deserves that. A sense of belongingness is needed. The person who was really decieved/betrayed is Shyama and rightfully deserves to rebuke Narpat.

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hmm .. saloni is wrong?
i don't really think so, yea the wrong thing
here is that ambika is cursing kalika the whole time.

so what... ok her husband betrayed her..
and it's hard to live with the 'illigimate' child, of his.

but the reason why saloni took this desicion was tht Kalika wasn't at fault, narpat is at fault; shama is at fault: not kalika .. why is she to blame.

she live like 20 years without a mother or father..
tht's the only reason .. why =)

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Originally posted by: realitybites

Ambika has been shown as being a mature and sensible woman hence her behr towards Kalika is not justified. Narpat had an affair but that was before marriage, so how is Ambika betrayed? He did have a a child out fo the relnship but he was unaware. This is real sense is being unfair towards the child and really not to her! A child borne out of any relationship has no fault. How can one blame the child and for what? All children need parentage which is significant not only socially but also psychologically. Kalika deserves that. A sense of belongingness is needed. The person who was really decieved/betrayed is Shyama and rightfully deserves to rebuke Narpat.

but we don't know what's narpat's side of the story.
you know na .. har sikke ke do pehlu hote hain.

Originally posted by: xmanisha

but we don't know what's narpat's side of the story.
you know na .. har sikke ke do pehlu hote hain.

Yes but whatever the story he did have an affair and went on to father a child so it was a deep relnship hence he is deemed to take on the responsibilityof the child and somewhat the mother too.

shali dear a woman is a mother first and a wife later. well she proved herself today by attending the party.
Yes a wife in her should be hurt, But then it is not a fault of kalika and she should be pitied as she never got a love of mother.
Yet ambika has never cared for explanation. what if narpat was never to marry Ambika and had to under some force or circumstances.

I would give a chnace to my huby to explain before comepletly shutting out of my life.

i still don't get why is it saloni wants an independant person who has her own home to go live with kaveri that dont' make sense, its not kalika is homeless

Originally posted by: shali

yep after long time back with a subject....

why is ambika's behavior not acceptable...

it's a woman in pain after discovering that the person she loved and trusted has betrayed her... and why is so obligated to accept the child off his betrayal....

I personally feel that her anger is justified and she doesn't have to live with kalika under the same room.....saloni has crossed her limits....she is wrong......

Agreed Ambika is a woman who had her husband on a pedestal and he has fallen off. Yes, it may have been before marriage but to Ambika her husband has broken her heart.
All this is acceptable - her hurt, her anger both at Saloni and her husband. Not wanting Kalika under the same roof is also acceptable. What is unacceptable is her purposely trying to hurt or take out her anger on
others.

When Kunjan's family could accept Shubhra's illegitimate son, why cant ambika accept her husband's illegitimate daughter?
SHe whole heartedly accepted Shubra's mistakes... n she was happy that her son was accepted.

This shows Kunjan n Padma Thakurai has larger hearts than Ambikaji??????????

soch ne ki baat hein...