Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 24th Apr 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 18

Kaash koi Chinmay from Ghum typed character rishta mein aata, but probably rishta can't handle Chinmay-type character arc

Originally posted by: Randomlurker

I'm so confused. If it's a deal marriage, why does Armaan have to spill every detail to Abhira and vice versa? We fans can see it's not just a deal marriage, it's real. But for them, a deal marriage means being fake. He even prays at Gangaur that their marriage is fake but she gets all the happiness and a good husband. So, if two people are in a contract marriage without any feelings for each other, why should they share every secret and be transparent? Isn't marriage supposed to be a deal?

But Armaan writing and going out with Ruhi and giving her side eyes, that's definitely wrong, WHY because she's his brother's wife. But does Armaan have any obligation to tell Abhira about his Rumaal love story? No! Hypothetically, if Abhira had an ex and still had some residual feelings for him, does she have to be transparent with Armaan about it? No, that's her personal choice.

But do I want Rumaal to get busted? Hell yes! They cheated on Rohit, pushed him to the edge to leave his own house, and deceived the whole family. Armaan and Ruhi should definitely get kicked out of the house for this!

I agree it is a deal marriage and both are not answerable about their past to each other.

Having feelings for someone is not wrong but acting on them while being married is wrong. It doesn't matter it's for one year or two but it is there.

If it was past love then it was ok but he is practically trying to do husband - wife things with Ru (shiv shakti incident) and as Ar is legally married (even for a year) so this whole swinging between two women is wrong.

He should inform Ab that he plans to marry his ex (if he actually plans) after this deal gets over or is still involved with her so that Ab keeps her distance. He himself comes close to Ab then goes complaining to Ru so that both women gets their hopes high and then both will crash.

Though Rohit is bigger victim then Ab coz atleast for Ab the marrige was not forever one but for Ro it was real one so he definitely deserves justice.

Originally posted by: Randomlurker

Kaash koi Chinmay from Ghum typed character rishta mein aata, but probably rishta can't handle Chinmay-type character arc

Currently watching ghum with my nani and even her fav character is Chinmay

He is breath of fresh air or tadka to feeki dal.

Rishta make sideys either victimized - crybaby characters or super sweet or ladaku - angry ones they rarely have humour filled but aukat dikhau ones.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Theres a difference between platonic hugs and actions vs romantic. Armaan has definitely overstepped that several times. Abhira wasnt uncomfortable because she's been gradually falling. Realization happened now but its been a slow organic thing for her. No one including Abhira herself is saying he's obliged to love her back just because she does. All she wanted was respect, honesty and transparency. She didn't sign up to be under one roof with his ex or be character assassinanated for a deal that they both agreed upon. She has wanted to leave many times. She has wanted to tell family the deal truth too but he hid it. Today she's being faulted more than him.

If she was selfish and there only for material things only she'd have never spoken up for anyone or helped anyone in that house. Its easier to do her own thin, stay mute like everyone else and enjoy the luxury of Poddar living. They all grew to like her because of how selfless, genuine, kind and brave she is. But very conveniently they have forgotten everything to accuse her now.

All her good deeds cant be wiped away because of some faults. No one is flawless but there's no comparison between Abhira and Armaan Ruhi.

What Armaan Ruhi did was to cheat 2 innocent people for no good reason. Abhira would have long been gone if she knew their truth and wouldn't be tolerating Ruhis bakwaas or family taunts. Rohits life would not be ruined.

Abhira is taken for granted by everyone because koi kuch bhi karein she's always kind, righteous. She does not hold grudges and speaks up for what she believes.

This same story was reusing but only Abhira was unaware that who was male leads ex...

Deal marriage is not fake marriage .he is a married man for however long it lasts and Ruhi is bhai ki biwi. When he expects Abhira to be honest with him, he has the same obligation toi. If Abhira had ex or even a current flame that wasn't him, he'd be pissed if he learned about it from someone else. He'd definitely not be ok living with her ex in one roof - that much I'm sure. When his "secrets" impact her life too he needs to be transparent. He owes her the honesty that he expects from her.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

that step sister who’s actually half sister..is Over rated..she was a manipulator..who later on was just a side character..she just Stopped being a manipulator because the writers stopped writing tracks that involved her..and maybe motherhood just improved her. Abhiras mother was not liked by many of the heros fans as she moved on from him. They couldn’t handle their hero being forgotten by her.. But frankly..she did well. He treated her badly,and she left him forever..nothing wrong there.. and she never moved between men. She was a good decent woman.,after abhiras fathers death..her family and son pressurized her to marry her first husband again..and she agreed just for her son. But the marriage never happened. She remained the widow of abhiras father until her death..and she loved only him until her death.. You have to watch the show to understand this..and the episodes and scenes show us this..just reading up on it and listening to biased viewpoints.won’t give you an objective picture..🤷🏻‍♀️

Her convincing her ex mother in law was done in such a poor taste , she was herself convincing her ex in laws and left her maternal home with ex willingly , so how was she pressured into it ?

She didn’t marry her ex because she couldn’t otherwise she’d be his wife now . I actually watched the gen3 after seeing pictures of Abhira’s parents because I had heard a lot about their love life here but surprisingly their pictures showed nothing but awkwardness. The whole moving on from ex wasn’t done organically like it’s hyped up but it looked like a backup option of makers .

edit : about the sister , she did have significant screen space even after the leap and made few more positive changes in her and her daughters life before dying something which Ak couldn’t , so I don’t think step sister was a wasted character .

Anyways I don’t want to discuss gen3 anymore . Peace out ✌️

We can agree to disagree on this .

Originally posted by: Nephy1

I am hating it that even after so much she is still calling him khadoosmaan..

I kean holding his sleeve,calling him with endearing name after he clearly shown her that he considers her as unwanted bhojha..

I mean seriously girl,keep your distance intact na..

Stop calling him with names whuch are special..

Gharvalon ne naam rkha hai..pls call Armaan nd it would be much netter if you shift to Mr.Poddar..

But I think exoecting anything from a doormat,pyaar mein pagal FL is stupidity..

I am finding that chinmay of ghum nice.....he should be the lead,he had his woes but atleast he seem to be a nice man to follow his story..

Seriously she is staying in PH after all this,pls DKP spare us torture and give nice digestable reason..

she is staying any bts based on this assumption?

Here is what I feel-

Gharwale chahe Abhira se gussa ho for hiding Charu and Dev affair makes sense but this Armaan n Ruhi?? No way!

They should be right now ashamed and introspecting instead they r showing attitude to Abhira for something they have been hiding themselves!

Armaan should be the one to understand why Charu hid her affair, He is doing same thing especially after giving so many Vadas to Ruhi. (Dont get too technical- Charu has age gap n divorce issue, Armaan n ruhi has jeth bhabhi angle) But look at this shameless man - getting angry at Abhira, and on top remembering her Ruhi getting exposed for divorce paper n all!

Dude- Ruhi told you exactly why she got divorce papers, she cooked story in front of Abhira n family but YOU KNOW THE TRUTH!

HE WANTED ABHIRA TO TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT CHARU WHILE HE AND RUHI HIDE THEIRS!

This man is coming out shameless and hypocrite n liar who will go to any length to keep his AND RUHI’s image intact.

Originally posted by: Vismaya03

Akshara past me bohot Saari wrong decision liya hai...

Narrative aisa hai phir bhi this was her worst decision....She already knows that how sarfira his family...She already go through that pagal in law phase...Phir bhi she did this...Atleast in ghum sails father didn't tell to Marry her ...Just ask to take responsibility...But villagers forced him...

I can understand why Akshara took the decision..

She was on death bed with yuvraaj lurking background,she called manish goenka but he rebuffed her and she took desperate decision to ensure her daughter's safety at that time..

She thought that being poddars bahu will keep her safe and also she would not face financial situation..

Thinking from mother's pov,abhira was just 22,very young to navigate alone in the world and that too with stalker,murderer behind her..

Yeah Armaan suggested to take care of abhira as a guardian but what was the gurantee for akshara that he would not forget her as sson as he will.get married to other woman,and beside that if he would have taken care of abhira without relation so as Akshara mentioned people would mudsludge abhira's character..as we can see dadisa already started..

So according to Akshara she married of Abhira to a nice man for lifetime..

She could be wrong in past,IDK much.

But in this case scenario she took desperate choice in hand..

She wasn't left with much..

If she would hsve married abhira to armaan without trying to connect with Goenkas,I would have held her responsible,but she did...

Yeah mariages like these are no good and we can now see this...

So now they should redeem some things..

And bigger one be Abhira to move on..

I don't find her with Armaan as endearing..

He doesn't respect her viewpoints neither her advices..

He found ruhi mature,seek her emotional support as well as advices in complex situations,he literally treat Ruhi as the one badi bahu..

As badi bahus advices their husbands on complex joint family relations,their equation is same..

He respects Ruhi a lot,guves her viewpoint weightage..

He take abhira as kid and im-mature while ruhi as mature and sensibke person...

If we see that ar-ru are perfect as eldest bahu beta..

So DKP need us viewers to save from this torture..

After seeing clips of their prev seasons on insta,IDK why they are hell bent on thopoing Ar-Ab on audiemces..

Their Male lead gets besotted with FLs and after that no turning back with every passing second they gets more and more obsessed..

They may not stand with them but their love for them never flickers..

Be it first,second or third one..

They loved and lived only FL till she was there

Abd Armaan doesn't fit the mold itself of DKP ML..

It seem I am cursed the show I watch,MLs never loved FL intensely..skipping 2 sony shows😅

I just know one thing that I can't forget Armaan's love,respect and helding Ruhi in high regards..

I am no fan of one day out of blue him saying Oh I toh always loved Abhira..pagal hai kya hum..

They want to thopofy 2 sec. Love of Armaan on us for Abhira...sorry not interested.

I would be happy if they marry off Armaan to Ruhi.

I am very much interested to see a couple who did so much planning plotting of throwing an innocent sould under bus shamelessly to hud their im-moral act living together..genuinely very interested..

To see guiltyman and other who is pro in guilt tripping others living as husband-wife..

Abhira deserves much better,as a lively,lovely girl..

She deserves a man without baggages,one for whome she matters as other DKP FLs matter to DKP MLs..

Juska pehle aakhiri pyaar vahi ho..

Abhira hi ho uske ilawa koi nhi..

Chahe vo chod ke chli yah fir mar jaye...

Lets see....

But not at all interested in Ar-Ab...

But Ab had already disappointed me very much as a viewer..

She herself doesn't her on high regards in this matter,she wants bare minimum toh fir kya hi kar sakte..