YRKKH: BTS, SM updates and Spoilers Thread # 7 - Page 106

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

This is going the OG way, in OG the FL got the ML's cousin married with her ex bf without telling anyone. Plus the cousin wasn't mentally stable. Uske baad pure khandaan ko lecture diya.

Wtf

Why Abhira is helping dev - charu again? If she met them coincidentally then fine otherwise it's nothing but stupid decision on her part.

Now she also needs a slap so that her brain starts working again and she'll simply stop becoming bali ka bakra willingly.

And I predicted right, after the drama charu's semi rebellious nature increased. If this continues then in few days we may get to witness baby bansal/shekhawat coming.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

It maybe different.

She may simply be asking Dev to sort the matter out enough to have Charu not be imprisoned at home and losing her career . He is the older guy, he needs to take ownership.

Also if she's no longer bahu, she can act of her own free will based on what she as individual thinks is right/wring without toeing the line of poddars.

I highly doubt that she's gonna encourage eloping but she is not judging the "pyaar". She may just tell them to prove that they are serious and have the courage to beat the wrath, convince elders if they want acceptance.

Plus if she's blamed for Charu kaand she will take ownership to sort it out too. Thats her nature. She's a little meddlesome but I don't think she'd gonna do anything crazy.

The solution of this charu dev kaand is not to lock her at home and ban her from having a life.

What if Charu tries self harm or something else crazy.

So i am gonna wait to see what Abhira does before blaming her. She's not stupid. She's definitely not a doormat. She is opinionated and usually she is proved right about everything she stands for.

She's not getting any favors if she's allowed to stay in poddar house. Her mom lost her life. So i don't think she's ever been ungrateful but at the same time she does not owe anything to anyone. She can survive if they throw her out too. She does what she feels is right after some thought. Yes sometimes we can see better ways of doing those things than her ways but she's never been unreasonable.

In charu matter, she disapproved of the affair, warned and repeatedly told her to inform family. But she also doesn't think its fair to judge someone for falling in love even if its stupid. She thinks they should handle it maturely- at least hear Charu out, understand her pov before raising valid concerns. She's not advocating for more than that. And she doesn't think that falling for wrong guy should have dire consequences on Charus career dreams.

Originally posted by: Susi26

I didn’t understand the statement badon ko bhi badalna padega.. I mean why parents at home has to change their mindsets according to their child.. at home there will be certain restrictions for the benefit of the children, children do follow them right until their marriage. It’s in every house. Children should definitely express their choices and elders who are much ahead in wisdom should guide children if they are going wrong. In charu’s case, elders know that Dev is from rival firm, so they have instructed her not to work under him for the benefit of the family.. but neither Abhira understood it and Charu obeyed her parents. Any parent or elder in family get mad and become furious knowing that girl had fallen in love with a person like Dev.. he may be good at heart and decent in character.. but any parent reaction will be same in the first instance.. Did Abhira ever gone against to her mom? No right? Why she wants to change the dynamics of that family who were ok with each other?? I felt bad for her today, but I expected that this would come on her long before.. and I strongly wanted her to leave the house, but people bashed me saying she is poddar bahu, permanent wife blah blah.. and now the same people wants her to leave immediately . Armaan is not right for her.. for her hostel is better than PH. She no need to depend, get humiliated now and then, tolerate all the hate. And now she totally has fallen for him. Hope she come into her senses at least now.

Here she is absolutely wrong… it’s their family. Any person will be offended if their daughter decides to marry a guy 15 years older with a kid… in fact I hated when she stated supporting Dev today.. how much she know about him? Tomorrow if anything will happen to Charu her family has to deal the repercussions not ab… for once she should have thought, how her mother would have reacted had she fell in love with a divorcee 15 years older with a kid…she has no right to say anything in this
Now I am sure she will help them in eloping and getting them married but Dev will ditch them at the last moment for Sanjana and his kid… and everyone will scold ab which she rightfully deserves…

Maybe then she will be thrown out of the house and will meet Rohit and bring him back to ph… amazing legacy show👏👏

Any family in this world, and here we have the most regressive family would be mad if they get to know their 22 year old daughter is having an affair with her boss who is 37 ,has a son. They have no idea about this guy's personal life. Professionally he has tried to harm Poddar family. Don't blame the PH family now.

Ab should mind her own business and spare people of her pyaar lecture especially when she also doesn't know properly about this guy.

I think PH family will find a guy for Charu and will try to do a quick wedding. After this Ab will help her eloping with Dev who I think isn't a good guy and taking some revenge on Poddar's.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Any family in this world, and here we have the most regressive family would be mad if they get to know their 22 year old daughter is having an affair with her boss who is 37 ,has a son. They have no idea about this guy's personal life. Professionally he has tried to harm Poddar family. Don't blame the PH family now.

Ab should mind her own business and spare people of her pyaar lecture especially when she also doesn't know properly about this guy.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

she can do this after she gets out from under their roof and stops eating their food ..really sorry if I am coming across as harsh ..but I actually care for this character and cannot take her being degraded

Lets wait and see. Abhira has never been shown as stupid or rash.

She's never been ungrateful either.

However this roof, food is not some khairat they are giving her. If they throw her out today she will fend for herself.

The reason she's there is because her mom made the ultimate sacrifice for Armaan and she has been large hearted enough to not guilt trip him about it. She knows that it was a choice her mother made.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

practically none will change except adjustment and accommodate to each other after years of bonding. Most importantly respect elders for their pov though they tell in their pov and they have seen many incidents in life and took care of children in situations needed. As a bahu after entering their home she should adjust and see that harmony of house should not be disturbed. What elders told is only coming true she can't fit in that house. We write unbiased on anyone scold accept anyone without blind devotion to anyone. What ruhi told is right she won't fit in that family. Why abhira wont change herself for dadi as she is young instead wants 60 to 70 yr old dadi to change suddenly as she entered home. She speaks when not needed and keeps mum when needed this is her moms quality they are giving her. Kajal told her to stay away from her family happiness still if abhira helped charu for dev none can stop her exit. Ar choses his family always and why should he not. When abhira was in trouble didn't he go against dadi and help her giving money for resort renovation.

What you are saying is in real.world..

Thats how relations works but sadly itv doesn't give a damn..

In this matter ptv is very good..

They had strong censor system whuch call out anything deviating from their culture as well as disrespecting their god in name of emtertainment had to be edited out..

They had typical tv shows which screen them and report to this censor body..

So that entertainmemt doesn't poolute their culture..

They make shows on social issues also and give poetic justice to that..

They don't deviate from their culture but shows right thing..

I recently saw Mai,about child marriage,they shown everything as it would have been happening in your neighbourhood,it was not overly dramatized and even after a lot of SM craze over lead jodi,they show proper ending with them.getting divorced and separating on nice terms..

But humare yahan mazaa bna diya..

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

exactly! In fact it’s beyond me that after all that dadisa, fufasa told today and what Ar said in the precap, she is still supporting Daru in secretly meeting each other… kyu behen.. thodi self respect rakhlo… no one can fight battles for someone else.. firstly she shouldn’t have involved herself in this mess but at least now stay away from it, focus on studies… every family has their own way of dealing issues.. and ph and Ar has cleared it multiple times she doesn’t belong to this family so why zabardasti ghusofy in their matters..

Here she is absolutely wrong… it’s their family. Any person will be offended if their daughter decides to marry a guy 15 years older with a kid… in fact I hated when she stated supporting Dev today.. how much she know about him? Tomorrow if anything will happen to Charu her family has to deal the repercussions not ab… for once she should have thought, how her mother would have reacted had she fell in love with a divorcee 15 years older with a kid…she has no right to say anything in this
Now I am sure she will help them in eloping and getting them married but Dev will ditch them at the last moment for Sanjana and his kid… and everyone will scold ab which she rightfully deserves…

Maybe then she will be thrown out of the house and will meet Rohit and bring him back to ph… amazing legacy show👏👏