I don't think ca was a "bone of contention" between Anuj and Anupama. She was willing to go with Maya to let her parents live in peace and even apologized for demanding her mother's presence during her panic attacks. Even adults can't display this level of understanding and maturity but everything has a limit. Anupama took advantage of her compromising nature and misused it to ridiculous level. Not once she assured her of her support in times of need. 3 years of constant neglect and humiliation coupled with abandonment instilled fear and insecurity in her which gradually transformed into deep hatred for her mother. Aadya is nothing but an outcome of Anupama's misplaced priorities. She is still that kind, understanding and benevolent girl but all these traits are clouded by the trauma that Anupama and Shahs inflicted on her.The ch is complex and Aurra has done a commendable job in showcasing it's various layers.👏👏👏👏👏