Anupamaa is a shrewd and angry vamp.

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Anupamaa may seem like a woman who has been wronged by the universe but she is actually the one who knows how to deal with the ones who wronged her and how to condemn them forever into a state of misery. She may not see DukhLee as her wrongdoers but she knows that VanYa have hurt her therefore, she has tried everything to ensure that VanYa are unhappy but are not apart. She did every little thing to turn their dream into their worst nightmare. She does not want VanYa to break apart but she also doesn't want them to have some happiness at all.

First she gets Vanya married but chooses to stay in same house as them. They are still housemates and share mutual family members which means that Anupamaa never left the family but am extra member Kavya joined. Being a part of her ex's life would ensure disarray in his marriage. Even after leaving, she still visits on daily basis even when Kavya was legal owner. She even uses her kids to bond with her ex but her intention is to cause problems between VanYa, not to have V back. Later, she visits on festivals and uses every possible excuse to come to SH. Even after becoming Kapadia, she invites these 2 even when she claims to have no relation with them. She tries to use her old strategies of getting close to her ex but it gets old because Kavya has adjusted and has become her fan. In spite of Kavya's adoration for her, she still despises VanYa. Now, instead of prepping V against Kavya, she preps K against V. She adopted CA in order to make Kavya crave motherhood desperately. She also knows that age of becoming grandpa, V won't want to be father again so fights continue. Soon, things start to become stable for VanYa. They are not fighting but now the passion is gone. Kavya still craves passion, so Anupamaa bribes a company at Delhi to give them a lucrative job offer. Then she orchestrated Dukhmukh's disappearance by blackmailing his friend to keep him busy and let battery of his phone to die.(We know how manipulative Dukhmukh is. It won't be a surprise that his friend is selfish and greedy and may have been easily bribed.) She knew Julie would do Tamasha and V would come to Amdavad like a bull with his desperate wife following behind. Now, V has given up his job offer for 2 bratty oldies and his anmol ratan. K always disliked V's obsession with phemily but this was a new low.(Being Maa bhakt can't change someone's inner nature. It can only change kismat.) He has always neglected her compared to phemily and even his ex. That may have made her want kids even more because V's kids were the reason ex wife got more attention than current wife. V never wanted them. Now, K suffered a lot and is useful enough to be used against V. She bribes Mohit to not take crap of K's husband for long and fire her ASAP. Then, she and Anirudh teamed up to torture Vanya forever. Anirudh convinced K that he still loved her. K being K, starts to incline towards another man because her husband is not giving her attention. K starts to neglect V and V also starts to incline towards ex more than ever. Upmaa is not interested in V and wants V and K to be stuck in a loveless marriage so she rejects him. Meanwhile Anuj drama happens and she pretends to be hurt but actually has given Anirudh a huge sum of money to convince K that they had ek raat but in reality he won't touch a cheater like her therefore Vanar ka baccha would be doomed to be neglected by him forever and K would doom her kid to be mistreated. Using Vanya's own kid, they have V stuck with a kid who is product of adultry of the woman he once loved and he has to support this kid and a cheater wife and also, they are putting pressure on him to accept the kid, K is stuck seeking approval of her heartbroken husband and is stuck with guilt of hurting V and phemily and Mahi is stuck with an emotionally distant father and a mother lacking self respect. Upma also ensured that neither V fully accepts Mahi not does he fully free himself from her. When V was willing to accept K and her kid, she tried to divert his mind again and succeeded and whenever V wanted separation, she stopped him.And with causing enough problems, she happily left and attained temporary sanyas. She does not care for anything except ruining Vanya even 5 years later, she is here to use each and every Anmol Ratan and Buzurg to be close with V. She also wants to ensure that she is not exposed. In spite of truly loving Baa, Bapuji and her Anmol Ratan, she is more interested in sabotaging Vanya and she is a true expert in it. For her, Anuj, Aadhya and Kapadias were just pawns. Even if she cared for them, she always used them more to sabotage V , make K jealous, make Baa and Anmol Ratan feel inferior so that they do her her huzuri. In Vanya's case, she has taken a backseat and is eating popcorn , watching them fight and give hell to EO. This also explains why such a supposedly shrewd woman is easily manipulated by her ex in laws and kids. The truth is she is using each so called manipulation to sabotage her abusers. Plus, she used Kapadias money behind the scenes to make Vanya suffer. She is not dumb, she is smart. She is not in love with V, she pretends to in order to trouble K. She has cleverly sealed her real intentions from all.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Ah I wish... I wish she had that kind of brain.

All she is, is a stupid woman looking for approval from people who will never love her, and to fulfill her agendas she takes undue advantage of people who are unlucky enough to fall in love with her.

Absolutely zero character growth since the show started.

But she does know that her crying in front of the RIGHT people will get her favors and that is her only modus operandi. I will give her due credit for that.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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I don’t think she has this kind of brain. She has a servile mentality. Usko pyaar se bolo bartan maanjne, she will do it. Fir woh Kisika bhi ghar ho

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Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Ah I wish... I wish she had that kind of brain.

All she is, is a stupid woman looking for approval from people who will never love her, and to fulfill her agendas she takes undue advantage of people who are unlucky enough to fall in love with her.

Absolutely zero character growth since the show started.

But she does know that her crying in front of the RIGHT people will get her favors and that is her only modus operandi. I will give her due credit for that.


Even if anupama is stupid as you say - her methods always destroy others life


She has successfully going to Shah house destroyed Vanraj and kaavya married life and anuj life too by going everyday and interfering in shah house which no divorced woman does in world


Also she interfered a lot in dimpy and samar marriage and never let dimpy leave shahs and serve them


What was need to give an upper room and half kitchen to dimpy - just say go separate house on rent


But anupama know vanraj jobless than toshu jobless only samar working man so she cleverly never allowed him away from shahs after wedding


Same she did between toshu and kinjal too first without rakhi permission she married them off who is she to decide for kinjal? Will she be ok if dimpy parents or kinkjal parents decide and dictate to anupama and vanraj how their kids must live or whom they marry etc


When toshu was having affair anupama agian cleverly saved toshu marraige to kinjal by emotonally blackmailing her and not letting her go to rakhi house but got her to anuj mansion why?


Because she know if kinjal laeves to rakhi house chance of reconciliation with toshu is less as own parents advice daughter thinking of her good and bad or future correctly unlike anuapma nad shahs who will think of toshu over kinjal. So she never let kinjal go to rakhi house at all except when financial help or job required for toshu only. Otherwise she warned kinjal never to go to rakhi house because if kinjal go frequent to mayka rakhi may convince her to leave toshu and shahs and give divorce to toshu


Anupama do same with adhik too, she cleverly did dram aof kicking adhik-pakhi out of house and made them stay off shah house in nandini/kavya home. Because anupama and shahs can keep eye on pakhi. She never allow adhik to correct pakhi and she and vanraj interfere a lot in their marraige whether when on rent or in kapadiya mansion. Why? Because anupama knows if she do not intefere so much adhik will divorce pakhi and run away which happened when she turned jogan for 5 years


See you must understand some humans in real life act innocent and dumb but they are not really so stupid as they portray - they know how to act dumb and emotionally blackmail others into doing as per their wishes. Anupama is one such person thats all


f anupama never acted so innocent you think at 45 years anuj would run behind her or kinjal/kavya/nandni all show so much symapthy to her after her divorce?


Usually in india if woman divorce hubby family or mayka both boycott woman - they do not want the burden finnacial or physical of taking care of that woman all life. Anupama by acting dhukiyari becahri ensured no one boycotted her not even her souten kavya.


She acted same bechari innocent and married anuj not becuase she loved him but for benefits marrying a kapadiya will get shahs and her. In society from divorced woman she will become millionaire wife shahs and full moholla will respect her who are taunting her. She never married anuj for love or to spend life with him and his family. If she wanted to go shah house from 7am to midnight everday cannot be at kapadiya house why marry anuj at all? Tell him you cannot give him time as you love shahs and vanraj more and just let him wallow in his 26 years dream land for remaining life. Atleast GK kaka and Mukku would be with him still


No woman is so innocent not even village un educated woman to not understand that after divorce you should not go to ex hubby house where another wife there - i have seen village woman uneducated whose hubby left them never went to hubby house whose living with another woman or second wife

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Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Ah I wish... I wish she had that kind of brain.

All she is, is a stupid woman looking for approval from people who will never love her, and to fulfill her agendas she takes undue advantage of people who are unlucky enough to fall in love with her.

Absolutely zero character growth since the show started.

But she does know that her crying in front of the RIGHT people will get her favors and that is her only modus operandi. I will give her due credit for that.


True crying in front of others for benefits


Thats called emotional blackmail in other terms


Emotionally blackmailing or compelling a human to do as per your wish than whats practical or right


Shes used that on anuj and kapadiyas first and got everything for shahs and herself and chased all kapadiyas away from anuj


She using it on yashdeep and beeji next


And yet anupama is innocent becahri not clever


Bewakoof are other woman who work 12 hours a day in office or hotels or others houses to make ends meet


They must use anupama tactics to get jobs and rich millionaire hubby - why run after self respect and work hard for themselves


I have seen woman leave a 3 month baby in creche at 8am and come and work in company from 8am to 8pm than take baby and go home and reach home at 10pm in indian corporate company. Such women are fools may be. They than get up at 4am cook for hubby and kids again brig baby in creche near office than work 12 hurs agan next day. This they do year after year how foolish of them. Even diorce or widows i have seen do same leave their kids in play school or creche and work 8am to 8am arent they all fools to leave their mayka and work their assess off for their kids future?


Ohh and i see 10th pass going on weekend to college to get degree after working 12 hours over week day and cooking cleaning for their kids so they can get better jobs in india how stupid of them?

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: Partyc

Then, she and Anirudh teamed up to torture Vanya forever. Anirudh convinced K that he still loved her. K being K, starts to incline towards another man because her husband is not giving her attention. K starts to neglect V and V also starts to incline towards ex more than ever. Upmaa is not interested in V and wants V and K to be stuck in a loveless marriage so she rejects him. Meanwhile Anuj drama happens and she pretends to be hurt but actually has given Anirudh a huge sum of money to convince K that they had ek raat but in reality he won't touch a cheater like her therefore Vanar ka baccha would be doomed to be neglected by him forever and K would doom her kid to be mistreated. Using Vanya's own kid, they have V stuck with a kid who is product of adultry of the woman he once loved and he has to support this kid and a cheater wife and also, they are putting pressure on him to accept the kid, K is stuck seeking approval of her heartbroken husband and is stuck with guilt of hurting V and phemily and Mahi is stuck with an emotionally distant father and a mother lacking self respect. Upma also ensured that neither V fully accepts Mahi not does he fully free himself from her. When V was willing to accept K and her kid, she tried to divert his mind again and succeeded and whenever V wanted separation, she stopped him.And with causing enough problems, she happily left and attained temporary sanyas.

Wow! Keeping aside Anupamaa's ability to actually do any of this, really commend your imagination smiley20

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Wish this was the actual story instead of portraying her as some great Mother India, bechari woman who has been wronged by all, and a person with sacrificial nature who chooses others’ happiness over her own (which is absolutely false btw)!

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Oh she is smartly stupid.

Leaving aside the fringes in the story, the fact that she knows kiskisko "grent pe lena hain" is proof enough.


Good job with tying the loose ends and scripting it out👍🏼👌🏼.


Frankly I don't understand why we need a positive female hero, always. If anything, "Beyhadh" showed us, we are fully capable of appreciating grey and even negative female hero roles.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Beyhadh was such a hit show. The lead was negative and people loved her more than the positive parallel lead.


Unrealistic shows like "Anupama" portraying females as weak and whitewashing their mistakes under the garb of "women empowerment" are the real toxic shows!

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