Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 13th Apr 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 32

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

I want her to be like Gabbar from Sholay and ask Armaan to dance to this song .Naach Armaan Naach

Rather, she can ask charu to join her in dancing. Baaki cousins ko bhi invite kar sakti hain, daadisa can also join

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

this is a man who wanted to discuss divorce the previous night ? How do the writers expect an audience to enjoy a sequence like this after knowing he wants to divorce her? As a standalone, it is a really cute scene but not in the context of the episode. This man had a clandestine midnight conversation with his ex, went to her bedroom to appease her and then said she would never be unhappy if it were up to him. Then he goes and sleeps next to his wife and behaves like nothing happened the next morning. How are we supposed to appreciate the actions of such a man and root for him to be with the FL? This is abuse too, abuse of trust. The girl trusts him blindly and he is holding secret midnight meetings with his ex on broaching the topic of divorce with his wife. I don’t care anymore that he feels guilty about his having let his ex down. What about what he is doing now ? Is he thinking about how he is leading a young woman on? He is a mature man and she is an impressionable young woman. He has repeatedly declared in public that she is his wife. Their one year marriage agreement notwithstanding, how is this girl supposed to feel about this attractive man who is her husband and who stands up for her on every occasion. Granted you have a past and you cannot or will not move on until your ex is happy. Why should Abhira become collateral damage in the process? He talks of ensuring Ruhi’s happiness, what about Abhira’s? Doesn’t taking on someone’s responsibility include ensuring their emotional well-being? Does he imagine how crushed Abhira would be to know that he has kept her in the dark for so long and has been lying through his teeth? That he has allowed Ruhi to draft their divorce papers and is trying to broach the topic with her on her say so? The day Ruhi chose to marry his brother, his responsibility to her ended. Even if he asked her to marry Rohit, the final choice was hers. Whatever happened thereafter is on her and not on him. If anyone, he should be suffering a deep sense of guilt towards Rohit for having wantonly ruined his life. He hardly spares a thought for his beloved brother these days. He takes the liberty of conducting midnight conversations with his brother’s wife, dancing intimately with her in public, holding her hand and crying behind closed doors and what not. What kind of a morally upright man does this ? What is wrong with the writers who are charting the course of this character? Why are they making him skid like this on the slippery slope of morality? What kind of Rishta are they trying to show? As a legacy viewer, I am appalled with what is behind shown in the name of Rishta. I know Shahi owns the brand but, as one of those millions who contributed to making the brand, I am deeply disappointed today. Armaan is already teetering on the edge of the path of no return. A few more scenes like today’s and it will be a done deal. There may be a hundred other shows that are worse but they’re not Rishta. Appreciate what you have and don’t dilute the value of your own brand this way!

I am just being Devil's advocate here. Armaan doesn't think that Abhira can ever love him, so he is not even thinking that he can lead her on in any way. Heck, he doesn't even think anyone can love him. Did you see his reaction when Krish showed his respect to him as his elder brother? He couldn't take it be because he thought that's not possible or he doesn't deserve it. Ruhi in his life was the first person who reciprocated his love. That feeling is special for him. From his POV, she is "special" for him. I know she is his SIL now but in some part of his head or brain that feeling is going to be there. It need not be romantic or love kinda feelings. Just a memory of his life before Abhira came in his life.

Breach of trust? Ab-Ar marriage isn't marriage in real sense in their minds. Ab does keep things to herself and Armaan does too. They have never been completely open and clear about everything in their life. Because it is a deal marriage. So, for them they don't need to share everything. Ruhi matter is something which Ar doesn't want to share. But yes he should have shared this with Rohit that was a breach of trust because there is no "deal-deal" in their relationship.

I 100% agree on the dance, midnight conversation etc,It makes him pathetic, but crying for her ? Nope. He can't help if he still thinks he loves her.

Abhira just got to realise that she is falling in love, earlier she didn't even care about chitwali and was always the first to bring the deal marriage conversation.

Armaan Sa also needs that one push to understand what he actually feels about her.

Abhira didn't sign up to live under one roof with his ex taunting her though.

Rohit should be betrayed and pissed. But before leaving Rohit was feeling bad that Armaan "sacrificed" 🙄

Its ridiculous that he'd not tell his brother that his to be wife is in love with someone else. He owed it to Rohit. It was marriage , a lifelong commitment but Armaan ruined things.

If he loves Ruhi he needs to stop crying and do something about it. Either marry her or if he still is consistent about not wanting to be with her despite "love" then he needs to actually make himself unavailable so that Ruhi will leave and move on. He can't have one foot in 2 boats.

If he meant it about both of them moving on, he cant keep on running behind Ruhi or being her go-to person. Its 101 of a breakup that you don't hang out with that person until you are over them. So he's lying to himself and everyone when he keeps on doing his pendulum giri.

Originally posted by: Anu234

It's now about connecting dots who in their right mind would believe that ar ki chitwali ladki uski Bhai ki biwi hogi 🤢

Yes , in previous episodes she had reached the conclusion that Ru knows chitwali ...but who in their right mind would think ex can be bhabhi ...and that's why I say that here Ab falling in love phase is better because she doesn't know that ex is in home only otherwise I was disappointed that Sai/Emon fell in love with ml knowing ex is bhabhi something which I am not okay with

She also fell in love only when she was convinced that Virat was over P and it was P who was obsessed with him. She had a soft corner but she never let herself "love" or have any haq over Virat until she was sure that he was reciprocating too.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Abhira didn't sign up to live under one roof with his ex taunting her though.

Rohit should be betrayed and pissed. But before leaving Rohit was feeling bad that Armaan "sacrificed" 🙄

Its ridiculous that he'd not tell his brother that his to be wife is in love with someone else. He owed it to Rohit. It was marriage , a lifelong commitment but Armaan ruined things.

If he loves Ruhi he needs to stop crying and do something about it. Either marry her or if he still is consistent about not wanting to be with her despite "love" then he needs to actually make himself unavailable so that Ruhi will leave and move on. He can't have one foot in 2 boats.

Abhira only signed up to study and become a lawyer. The deal between them was to be in no kind of relationship except that Armaan would help her become a lawyer. What Armaan does in his personal life should actually be of no concern to Abhira; the same is true for Armaan.

@bold: 100% on this.

@Green: I agree that he needs to clear everything with her. By explaining things to her again and again, he is leading her on.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

I am just being Devil's advocate here. Armaan doesn't think that Abhira can ever love him, so he is not even thinking that he can lead her on in any way. Heck, he doesn't even think anyone can love him. Did you see his reaction when Krish showed his respect to him as his elder brother? He couldn't take it be because he thought that's not possible or he doesn't deserve it. Ruhi in his life was the first person who reciprocated his love. That feeling is special for him. From his POV, she is "special" for him. I know she is his SIL now but in some part of his head or brain that feeling is going to be there. It need not be romantic or love kinda feelings. Just a memory of his life before Abhira came in his life.

See..he is a thirty plus fully gown male who claims to be aware of his effect on women ..this girl lives in close proximity with him and they’ve been sharing several close moments both physically and emotionally ..I would imagine that Armaan would be more conscious of the likely consequences on Abhira than she herself would be ..if you are clear in your head on what this marriage can or cannot be, you should be laying down ground rules and adhering to them ..I would place the responsibility for all of this on Armaan because he is much older than her ..while he might not think himself worthy of his family’s love, he is self-admittedly aware of his effect on the female population lol

Breach of trust? Ab-Ar marriage isn't marriage in real sense in their minds. Ab does keep things to herself and Armaan does too. They have never been completely open and clear about everything in their life. Because it is a deal marriage. So, for them they don't need to share everything. Ruhi matter is something which Ar doesn't want to share. But yes he should have shared this with Rohit that was a breach of trust because there is no "deal-deal" in their relationship.

By breach of trust, I am not referring to their marriage but to Abhira’s implicit trust that he is completely honest and transparent with her. She has repeatedly asked and he has denied every time. Deal or no deal, it is kind of not kind to even a temporary partner to hide the fact that your ex lives under the same roof as you, particularly when she has repeatedly been telling this ex that she is your wife, even if for a year ..can you imagine the embarrassment she would feel when she gets to know….he was so angry with her for telling his father and not him about Yuvraj….if he thinks she owes him the truth, doesn’t he owe her the same ? If the former was about her physical well-being, the latter is about her emotional well-being ..he knows very well that she is very fond of him and she is going to feel betrayed if she knows the truth ..why else would he be dragging his feel over talking to her about the divorce or his past?

I 100% agree on the dance, midnight conversation etc,It makes him pathetic, but crying for her ? Nope. He can't help if he still thinks he loves her.

he can cry for her all he wants but holding hands with her behind closed doors and on either side of the door holding on to a piece of cloth ? That was appropriate behaviour of a jeth towards his bhabhi? We’re talking of Rohit here and not Abhira. He can still nurse love for her in his heart, that is beyond his control, but surely not the way he’s been behaving with her since Rohit left ?

Abhira just got to realise that she is falling in love, earlier she didn't even care about chitwali and was always the first to bring the deal marriage conversation.

Armaan Sa also needs that one push to understand what he actually feels about her.

My problem is not with his not being in love, I don’t even care if he never falls for her. You can’t make someone love you. My problem is with bringing up the D word simply because Ruhi asked him to. He asked her all the right questions and then he went to her room and told her he would stop at nothing to make her happy and that he would discuss divorce with Abhira. This sounds more like a promise a man makes to his side chick rather than to his ex. Why does he give her agency over his relationship with Abhira? That is not something I can digest and still root for him to be with Abhira.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Abhira only signed up to study and become a lawyer. The deal between them was to be in no kind of relationship except that Armaan would help her become a lawyer. What Armaan does in his personal life should actually be of no concern to Abhira; the same is true for Armaan.

@bold: 100% on this.

@Green: I agree that he needs to clear everything with her. By explaining things to her again and again, he is leading her on.

To study and succeed, she needs to be at peace she needs to have a good environment. Ruhi taunting her because of jealousy and Abhira being clueless as to why she's tageted is completely unnecessary. If she knew the dynamics she'd stay out of Ruhis way and maybe never read anything into Armaans gestures. Today she's falling for him because he's lied about being "over" his past, ruling out reconciliation with his ex and then going out of the way for her. His whole family feels like he loves her and teases them infact even his ex is seeing him having to much closeness with Abhira. If she knew the real dynamics of his past, she would have been forewarned.

If roles were reversed and Armaan was living with Abhiras ex in one roof and he found out 9 months later he definitely would not be cool with it

Completely agree with everything you have said

Can I be greedy and ask you to please write more FFs, oneshots etc.

Armaans pov after Abhira leaves and having realization that he never loved Ruhi would be good.