Trauma - License for Misbehavior? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Sneha.Narayanan

I really tried to be neutral and give benefit of doubt to Roohi all these months , just because I have some attachment for her parents, but I just cannot anymore 😞

She is too entitled and this quality was there even when she was a child that everybody has to run and cater to her demands. Hera was such a good actor, that it looked adorable on baby Roo- even the possessive, territorial behaviour, insecurity, princess treatment, entitlement, expecting my way or high way. But this adult too behaves like a vamp. Vamp is not the correct words, i think delulu homewrecker.

And now the audacity of her to prepare divorce paper and hand it to armaan & order him to divorce abhira.

Lmao

delulu level main og bhabhi ko bhi picha chor diya

Manish and Suwarna no matter if they threw Ak out for Ruhi. How much they can love Ruhi? Grandparents can never love a child equivalent to his/her parents. A parent's void can never be filled. If that's true then what about biological parents who abandon their children? Do they love their children? This theory that nobody can love as much as biological parents is null and void.

Ruhi's first love was taken away from her. She in her trauma of losing ppl in her life decided to marry Rohit to stay close to Arman that's it. She didn't cheat on Rohit. She just tried to make sure Armaan didn't move on from her. For that purpose, she ensures Abhira is constantly reminded her marriage with Armaan is fake which isn't true. She provides to stay close to Armaan like a romantic partner which isn't cheating? In my opinion it is cheating.

Originally posted by: libran90

Isko "TRAUMA" inducing acting kehte hai...

But this is pathetic..what is she doing...ye has has ke ro rahi hai, ya rote rote has rahi hai

This is high level acting. Even surekha and swarna were all praises ki pratiksha is a very good actor

I have a little bit of a different take on this. Ruhi’s trauma doesn’t justify her behaviors but her trauma definitely gives us more understanding to her attachment styles and her view on the world which makes it easier for us to understand where she’s coming from.

The entire thing with Akshara, first of all, it seems as if nobody’s sat down with her to tell her that Akshara WAS NOT the reason behind her matashree and dad’s death. Even Manish at the time was like forgive Akshara now… not like Akshara is not guilty. It’s Akshara’s fault to for never clearing that up too tho. At least she could’ve told the truth to the adults. So it’s not really Ruhi’s fault for hating Akshara. If I was in her situation, I’d hate her too just like Ruhi is. Who would want to even slightly forgive the person who made them an orphan this young? And then when she sees the three adults she trusts go behind her back supporting Akshara, she’s obviously gonna be hurt like how can you love those who took away those two people who I need the most. And with that, Poppy and Abhir went away with Akshara too - the two people Ruhi probably loved the most. Baby Roo just saw the people she loved the most leave her one by one because of only one person, Akshara. And to top that off, Swarna was probably the ghee in the aag by constantly blaming everything on Akshara so that mindset is so rigid in Ruhi. They never explained anything to her.

And that’s why she’s so incredibly possessive. We always saw that Ruhi was a little bit of a possessive child because she was spoiled and we saw that dynamic with her and Abhir. Abhimanyu was great in balancing that out and managing both of them. Then he forgot all about her and went off with Akshara and Abhir. That probably really hit her hard. She was grieving the death of her matashree and didn’t have her poppy to support her. Her obsession with Armaan is nothing but the root of her possession. Her behaviors now are wrong, and she needs to wake up and have a reality check and genuinely go with someone who cares about her so much and puts her at a priority. She really deserves that. For Armaan, she found someone that cares and claims that he “loves” her and she’s pining behind that. She’s idolized Armaan into something he most definitely not. Her attachment feeds into her delusions and she’s not able to break apart from it. She’s not ill-intentioned, she just wants Armaan to herself which is wrong now and she needs to take the “kadwi dawai” and accept that Armaan is not hers. She’s gone negative because for her it’s desperation. She’s desperate to get to Armaan and will go to all heights to get him.

I feel bad for Ruhi, like genuinely pity her. She needs to get better and do well at life. Someone needs to sit down and give her a huge life check.

Originally posted by: Swathiyaa

Ye kya hai ,😂

Originally posted by: CaptDeadpool007

delulu level main og bhabhi ko bhi picha chor diya

edited for gen 3 ref

Ruhi is selfish person who forgot her marriage vows. Even being emotional close to her ex and expecting him to keep her in priority is cheating. I so want her dreams being with Armaan to crash

Originally posted by: Indira1211

now we can see why she got fired 😂😂😂

Bhabhiji is doing exactly what her matashree used to do for years.. use childhood tragedy as a mask to get away with every crime and wrongdoings. She's a pro at it, because she learned from the best. Every time something don't go her way, cry and play victim. At least Abhira sees through her nautanki and I hope she continues to do so even after their unfortunate blood connection is revealed.

Originally posted by: shahi10

I have a little bit of a different take on this. Ruhi’s trauma doesn’t justify her behaviors but her trauma definitely gives us more understanding to her attachment styles and her view on the world which makes it easier for us to understand where she’s coming from.

The entire thing with Akshara, first of all, it seems as if nobody’s sat down with her to tell her that Akshara WAS NOT the reason behind her matashree and dad’s death. Even Manish at the time was like forgive Akshara now… not like Akshara is not guilty. It’s Akshara’s fault to for never clearing that up too tho. At least she could’ve told the truth to the adults. So it’s not really Ruhi’s fault for hating Akshara. If I was in her situation, I’d hate her too just like Ruhi is. Who would want to even slightly forgive the person who made them an orphan this young? And then when she sees the three adults she trusts go behind her back supporting Akshara, she’s obviously gonna be hurt like how can you love those who took away those two people who I need the most. And with that, Poppy and Abhir went away with Akshara too - the two people Ruhi probably loved the most. Baby Roo just saw the people she loved the most leave her one by one because of only one person, Akshara. And to top that off, Swarna was probably the ghee in the aag by constantly blaming everything on Akshara so that mindset is so rigid in Ruhi. They never explained anything to her.

And that’s why she’s so incredibly possessive. We always saw that Ruhi was a little bit of a possessive child because she was spoiled and we saw that dynamic with her and Abhir. Abhimanyu was great in balancing that out and managing both of them. Then he forgot all about her and went off with Akshara and Abhir. That probably really hit her hard. She was grieving the death of her matashree and didn’t have her poppy to support her. Her obsession with Armaan is nothing but the root of her possession. Her behaviors now are wrong, and she needs to wake up and have a reality check and genuinely go with someone who cares about her so much and puts her at a priority. She really deserves that. For Armaan, she found someone that cares and claims that he “loves” her and she’s pining behind that. She’s idolized Armaan into something he most definitely not. Her attachment feeds into her delusions and she’s not able to break apart from it. She’s not ill-intentioned, she just wants Armaan to herself which is wrong now and she needs to take the “kadwi dawai” and accept that Armaan is not hers. She’s gone negative because for her it’s desperation. She’s desperate to get to Armaan and will go to all heights to get him.

I feel bad for Ruhi, like genuinely pity her. She needs to get better and do well at life. Someone needs to sit down and give her a huge life check.

It's mainly she thinks her poppy maasi and abhir abondan her and happy with new kid. That girl is in for shock when she knows that it's not that way how she thinks. Neither of them are alive.