Some explanation for Ruhi Birla running behind a paraya mard - Page 2

Originally posted by: Swathiyaa

Woh insult nahi hai.. Delulu world mein it is called pyaar ke jumale 🥰🥰

Nice post… won’t comment on the Ar Ruhi angle coz I agree that it’s going over board but wanted to give some clarification on Ruhi’s career.

There is a scene where they say Manish has become one of India’s 100 top businessmen… considering a 90+ man would be a sleeping partner at max and as Kairav settled in US, Ruhi must have done a pretty good job for Manish’s business to be one among the best…

There is also a scene where Manish says agar Ruhi hoti to sab sambhal leti which means Ruhi would have solved 50 lakhs loss somehow but they didn’t seek her help…

I agree Ruhi got a ready made business in silver platter but imo it’s practically impossible to even do the bare minimum work of managing a jewellery business with zero knowledge in jewellery designing and business… rest you are free to disagree…

Also mbbs isn’t the only field in medicine which deals with healing… there are tons of other courses and fields in the same umbrella… colouring books, deep breathing, counting steps, as silly and childish as they seem are actual real methods used to calm people down and are used by therapists… I agree Ruhi may not have done mbbs but she could have done a course or diploma in counselling or therapy… Ruhi somehow always manages to calm the person in front of her ( just presuming like you presumed her to be 12th pass)… the reason I guessed this is usually we give others, what we ourselves couldn’t get… I personally know someone who lost her mother in childbirth which made her to take up medicine and gynaecology stream…. Ruhi’s grief might have wanted her to heal others

And now before you all come after me to say that she herself was depressed and seeking therapy, there is no such rule as she can’t be depressed or seek therapy…even a doctor can become patient… if a doctor gets appendicitis they don’t start operating themselves…..

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

Nice post… won’t comment on the Ar Ruhi angle coz I agree that it’s going over board but wanted to give some clarification on Ruhi’s career.

There is a scene where they say Manish has become one of India’s 100 top businessmen… considering a 90+ man would be a sleeping partner at max and as Kairav settled in US, Ruhi must have done a pretty good job for Manish’s business to be one among the best…

There is also a scene where Manish says agar Ruhi hoti to sab sambhal leti which means Ruhi would have solved 50 lakhs loss somehow but they didn’t seek her help…

I agree Ruhi got a ready made business in silver platter but imo it’s practically impossible to even do the bare minimum work of managing a jewellery business with zero knowledge in jewellery designing and business… rest you are free to disagree…

Also mbbs isn’t the only field in medicine which deals with healing… there are tons of other courses and fields in the same umbrella… colouring books, deep breathing, counting steps, as silly and childish as they seem are actual real methods used to calm people down and are used by therapists… I agree Ruhi may not have done mbbs but she could have done a course or diploma in counselling or therapy… Ruhi somehow always manages to calm the person in front of her ( just presuming like you presumed her to be 12th pass)… the reason I guessed this is usually we give others, what we ourselves couldn’t get… I personally know someone who lost her mother in childbirth which made her to take up medicine and gynaecology stream…. Ruhi’s grief might have wanted her to heal others

And now before you all come after me to say that she herself was depressed and seeking therapy, there is no such rule as she can’t be depressed or seek therapy…even a doctor can become patient… if a doctor gets appendicitis they don’t start operating themselves…..

Instead of running behind and wasting time on ar she needs to concentrate on the business and the losses occurred in business I don't know why makers making her do all this.

Speaking of grief, I can never understand why Ruhi running lustily behind a married man gets justified under her so-called grief. Guess what Ab also lost her parents but she isn't running behind her own man, forget even married man...

Nobody is justifying Ruhi going behind Ar… I guess you didn’t read my first comment…it is wrong from both sides with Ruhi pinning hopes and Ar not drawing a boundary…. I stated about her career…

also comparing abhira and Ruhi’s grief is futile… every has their own share of problems and traumas and they deal with it in their own ways…

Imo Abhira had no trauma growing up… she had her mother who gave her a comfortable and warm environment to grow, nurtured her… Definitely she would have missed her dad but that doesn’t come under trauma coz she never met him…Her main truama came from Yuvraj and her mom dying… before that she was pretty normal…

In Ruhi lad case she saw her mother die, then her mother like maasi confessed she caused the accident and death and finally her poppy left her… just imagine the emotional scars the kid would have got at such a tender age… and god knows how 3 oldies to care of her….

Absolutely right - she is in delulu world as she has nothing to do and her mind is stuck on portraying herself as a victim- it is the worst victim complex where a person blames others for their own mistakes- she agreed to marry Rohit and did not wait for Armaan- Armaan should tell her that. At any cost she desires a comfy life so she only cares about being a Poddar- hope one day comes where it is out and Armaan realises what a selfish girl she is and disconnects himself fully from her- gets over her. Her beech ka rasta is in insulting Abhira, playing an innocent victim to impress Armaan and being the false nurturer with Dadisa. Garvita is doing a great job portraying all this. But Abhira needs to pick up her care for herself- trim back that horrible hair style, wear salwar kameez that make her lok young- right now I do not understand why she has been given such horribe slawar kameezes to wear- looks put on in weight and older not the sparky Abhira we knew. Otherwise, Sam's acting is wonderful.

Ruhi is just a cheap,desperate immoral woman…with no respect for the sacredness of marriage..she didn’t respect her marriage and she doesn’t respect Armaan and abhiras marriage.. because she had a very bad upbringing..she got taught no morals and values by the goekanas or her poppy and matashree 🤮