kya Maa aisi hoti hai?

I am just amazed at Ambika and how she talked to saloni in her house in the party knowing saloni was not well and just cme from hospital.

Why does Ambika remembers her self respect and things she has to do for her daughters? I am just amamzed where does her self respect go every day when kaveri insults her treat her like dirt make her work and talks back all the time. Why does she do everything for kaveri because she is pregnent.

How about saloni? she is pregnnet to. where is her care for saloni.

She says she regrets the day saloni and shubhra were born.

Kya maa aisi hoti hai? kabhi nahi? Mothers are compared with gods. amd called shakti roop. they sacrifice anything for their children and suffer at any length to give them happiness..Who would we compare ambika with. Who time and time goes to her daughter's house and curses her.

Ambika is lowest of all low. Who curses her daughters who always cared for her and supported her and not back stabbed her.

I think kaveri is low as bahu and Ambika is low as a mother. she gives shame to motherhood. She cursed saloni before marriage she again started cursing her.

what say?

I completely agree!
I was meaning to make such a post but glad you did it. (need to vent out my frustratiom somewhere 😆 ).

I too, would say that Ambika is not fit to be a mother and deserves everything kaveri gives her, which for some reason she seems to easily accept but when Saloni tries to help her or lessen her sorrow she has a hard time accepting it.

It's disgusting how she said that she regrets the birth of Saloni and Shubra. First of how can a mother say that about her own blood-daughters?

when she found out Saloni was preggers she was so happy but now, when Saloni needs her mother, Ambika seems to not care anymore. instead of taking care of Saloni's health, she gives her a lecture which could worsen Sal's health.

Just because Saloni did something that upset Ambika, gives Ambika no right to tell all the things she told Sal today. Samar has also given Ambika alot of pain but she never told him that she regrets having him. Now this raises a question - Does she favour her son over her daughters?

Now if you think of it, Ambika was never a good mother. She used to curse Sal before marriage but stopped soon as Sal and Nahar were about to get married. Did she stop only because she was about to marry into the Singh family or did some over night change come in her that made her realize what gem of a daughter she has. And, sadly now when Saloni needs her, she has started hating her again. Pathetic! 😡

I comletely 100% agree with you ramasji, Ambika is a shame to motherhood.

One good thing did happen in this episode: the cute scene between NaSa 😆

No offence to anyone intended

Kernal

we are all looking at Ambika as a bad mother...did anyone stop to think for a while why she is behaving the way she is.

Put yourself in her shoes..i definately wouldn't like to live in the same house as my husband's illegal daughter..no matter how much good a mother you are, this is something that some people just cant do...and Ambika seems to be one of those people.

Originally posted by: kernal

I completely agree!
I was meaning to make such a post but glad you did it. (need to vent out my frustratiom somewhere 😆 ).

I too, would say that Ambika is not fit to be a mother and deserves everything kaveri gives her, which for some reason she seems to easily accept but when Saloni tries to help her or lessen her sorrow she has a hard time accepting it.

It's disgusting how she said that she regrets the birth of Saloni and Shubra. First of how can a mother say that about her own blood-daughters?

when she found out Saloni was preggers she was so happy but now, when Saloni needs her mother, Ambika seems to not care anymore. instead of taking care of Saloni's health, she gives her a lecture which could worsen Sal's health.

Just because Saloni did something that upset Ambika, gives Ambika no right to tell all the things she told Sal today. Samar has also given Ambika alot of pain but she never told him that she regrets having him. Now this raises a question - Does she favour her son over her daughters?

Now if you think of it, Ambika was never a good mother. She used to curse Sal before marriage but stopped soon as Sal and Nahar were about to get married. Did she stop only because she was about to marry into the Singh family or did some over night change come in her that made her realize what gem of a daughter she has. And, sadly now when Saloni needs her, she has started hating her again. Pathetic! 😡

I comletely 100% agree with you ramasji, Ambika is a shame to motherhood.

One good thing did happen in this episode: the cute scene between NaSa 😆

No offence to anyone intended

Kernal

I agree Ambika is at her lowest for now. She never left a chance to curse saloni. This is the same saloni who helped them get back shelter and helped out in all bad situation. Saloni loves both her parents and never menat to hurt Ambika.

Isn't Ambika least bit concern after hearing narpat took a bullet that where is he and in whar condition.

Originally posted by: wednesday

we are all looking at Ambika as a bad mother...did anyone stop to think for a while why she is behaving the way she is.

Put yourself in her shoes..i definately wouldn't like to live in the same house as my husband's illegal daughter..no matter how much good a mother you are, this is something that some people just cant do...and Ambika seems to be one of those people.

Yes Ambika is angry and has a lot to deal with. But isn't she least bit concern after hearing Narpat took a bullet for kalika. 30 years of maraige does not vanish with one incident. How can she forget how much Narpat loved her.

her anger with kalika justified but how can you say I regret the day you were born. That is just outrageous and unthinkable. Trust me being a mother I know this. Some times kids give so much a pain but still you never say that I regret the day you were born. saloni has always given rather than taken and in return she has gotten lot more abuse from Ambika.

One question about Ambika. Since she had taken off the mangalsutra and thrown it, meaning that she is not married to Narpat. But why does she still put sindoor?

Originally posted by: livoniadesi

One question about Ambika. Since she had taken off the mangalsutra and thrown it, meaning that she is not married to Narpat. But why does she still put sindoor?

you are right about that. why does she puts sindoor if she thinks she is not married to him. and what about the children?

ppl put their differences aside fot the sak of children.

ramas i agree with ur entire post ....u took the words out of my mouth !
She takes crap from Kaveri who is pregant .....she treats Saloni like nothing or Narpat who took a bullet like nothing ! It is common human decency or sanskaar to ask even a neighbour with whom ur not on such good terms about his health for the sake of humanity . She doesnt give a thought to narpat , nor Saloni , and with a thick skin like a rhino , goes on wiping floors in Kaveri's house , doing my beta my beta .
It is clear Ambika belongs to that breed that favours bahus over betis .
She behaved good to Saloni only when she got married in rich Singh family and increased her status in society . Till then Saloni was treated like kachra by her .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

ramas i agree with ur entire post ....u took the words out of my mouth !
She takes crap from Kaveri who is pregant .....she treats Saloni like nothing or Narpat who took a bullet like nothing ! It is common human decency or sanskaar to ask even a neighbour with whom ur not on such good terms about his health for the sake of humanity . She doesnt give a thought to narpat , nor Saloni , and with a thick skin like a rhino , goes on wiping floors in Kaveri's house , doing my beta my beta .
It is clear Ambika belongs to that breed that favours bahus over betis .
She behaved good to Saloni only when she got married in rich Singh family and increased her status in society . Till then Saloni was treated like kachra by her .

exactly saloni was treated like a dirt and if she made a smallest mistake she was cursed and punished. where as shubhra was teated like a godess and given everything. May be because of her laad pyr samar did not study and would have ruined his life if it was not for the money samar got from Neel because of saloni.

Ambika deseves to be treted like a dirt for what she did to saloni and to Narpat too. bcos of her constant taunting Narpat has to take poison.

ambika one more time taunted saloni saying she is being punished for being a mother.
Oh my god I can't take this.
Being a mother for almost 20 years I know this much. i will never ever curse my child no matter what. Motherhood is a gift from god. Mother is part of ma shakti ma durga and they are here to protect bless and take care of their children and not wish them bad.
Yes you definately guide them if they are trying to do something wrong. But not curse them if they are doing something right.