The New Ruhi - My Opinion - Page 4

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

when its about favourite blame on writers when its about hated ones it's the character. All are written by the same writers. Abhira had a simple life without any blames or baggages on head taken for granted or in gratitude like her mother had in her time. Her mom kept the child free of those blames gave a happy free spirited life which gave her confidence and strength. Being a single mom she gave that security to the kid. What her mom can't take stand against truth she taught the kid. In a way she rectified her mistakes in life giving that teachings to her kid. But only thing she did was she didn't tell about her past life to her kid might be it's not wanted for her or thought not to get back to old relations. Today Manish dialogues shayad kuch thread is left over so if we do this puja it will be good. Ak always wanted manish to excuse and accept her back which was shown in bits in mandir shadi as her dream, her convo with ruhis poppy when abhir got good marks in school. Her version was when they didn't call me why should i talk. When on death bed manish refused to accept her saying you are already dead for us she lost her last chance. Ruhi as child has that feeling of fatherless child a single mom and the kid was taunted badly in function for not having a father. Though her poppy gave her that unconditional love a parent is always a parent either father ir mother . She had to share her poppy with her cousin brother accepting the reality with maturity. She was shown as jealous girl first but slowly with poppys words she understood the value of brother in her life.This girl had Baggage of deaths and abandonment issues with her loved ones. Abhira too has no father but single parent love was there for her though she misses that father love which she feels in madhav. Whereas ruhi lost her own parents and parent figures her poppy her masi which she acknowledged on holi. 90 ,80 yr old great grand parents gave love shelter and security ti kid but will they be equal to parents any day who give confidence, trust and unconditional love correct the kids when they do mistakes . Ruhi has her past journey along with losing loved ones in her life next. Rohit without giving a chance left her easily listening to corner talks and his brothers sacrifice. No brother can atay that way infront easily in the name of ar gratitude on poddars. Ruhi wanted to be near arman its told always and arman knows it. He never pointed her love on him or disrespected her. Definition of love is as per writers any day in story not according to us and our thinking. If they put Ruhi in that place means they want to show her that way only either positive or negative or grey. A fl has many ups and downs in her journey with her mistakes, mus,egos , attitude or misjudge people in her impulsiveness. She is accepted as flawed fl easily. Wheres other characters are highlighted badly as they don't like it. Acceptance of characters is needed to understand them properly.

Well said meher. Abhira as a character atleast had her mom with her. Who was there to guide her. Ruhi's life was destroyed in her childhood. She has no one. She was left with goenka's who were already 80 90 years old. They can not take care of her as a parents. They can never be her mom or dad anyday.

She lost everyone. At very early age she has to take responsibility of goenka's buisness as goenka's offsprings seems like abandoned them.

She took care of them as well as buisness. She loved everyone but when she found a man who loves her she started dreaming of a life where ppl loved her instead of treating her as zimmedari. It's very clear that goenka's treated her as zimmedari or else suvarna even after knowing ruhi loves armaan never did anything to fix ruhmaan as a couple. They just wanted her to marry in wealthy family to wash their hands.

For me ruhi is wrong only in marrying rohith and trusting armaan who never took stand for her. If they add some dialogues on why she did that. Apologies to rohith when he comes back and accepts her mistake i will forgive her as marriage happens between 2 ppl. If rohith wanted he could have spoken to her and asked an explanation and divorced her. But he also used her as a lamb and left her for armaan once he realized ruhmaan loves each other. Why didn't rohith thought about abhira before leaving PH does he want to gift ruhi to armaan and keep Poddars in delusion that everything is alright. What kind of man he was. He could have asked ruhi and divorced her so that atleast she could have moved on in her life as when he does that and when she sees armaan is not taking stand for her she would have come out of her delusion. But he ensured she stays in his house and left his house even after knowing armaan is cheating on ab.

Rohith is no saint. He was neither a good brother and devar.

Everyone are responsible for their own miseries her. We can not blame some one else for one person's miseries.

Ruhi for trusting armaan blindly not taking stand for herself and not thinking about rohith.

Armaan who was not a man promised ruhi he will love her forever even after she marries rohith also revealed about deal marriage.

Rohith who even after knowing armaan is ruining multiple life silently escaped from the situation as he was stressed.

Abhira even after knowing armaan has someone else in life not maintaining distance from him.

Originally posted by: bajarbattu

I mentioned sexy dress...... coz of the simple reason that if I would have mentioned in more explicit words, i thought i would get banned or something. I dont particularly know how India forum works, what are its pain points and limits.

I was being safe.

But as you said apna apna nazariya hota hai. Aapko sexy dress characterless nahi laga kyunki aapka nazariya different hai.

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Also about marriage to Rohit... that does not make her characterless. She needs mental help. I blame Swarna for this. She could have stopped the marriage, but she encouraged it. She knew her granddaughter was in love with someone else, and even after being in 2024, she was behaving like a woman marrying off Ruhi in 1962. Jab badnaam ladkiyon ki shadiyaan kisi se bhi karwa dete the.

As for the language most Abhira lovers on this forum write.... mere toh kaan laal ho jaate hai padhne par. Its like they've got a license to trash the character called Ruhi.

And mind you, I am a staunch Abhira Fan. And I am shipping Abhimaan big time.
But yet I feel, what Ruhi is getting from India Forum Abhira fans, is just UNFAIR.

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"We don't see things as they are. We see things as We are."
~ Anais Nin.

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much love, light and laughter,
Battu.

i have not created characters neither i m the writer...jo characters makers de rahe hain...unhe hi dekh rahi hun mein...😂

To haan IMO, ruhi ka rohit se iss reason se shaado karna taki woh armaan ke paas rah payee...is not moral....nazariya apna apna hai...😂 ruhi sexy dresses mein ghoomti but with no such immoral feeling's and ideas.....to mujhe characterless nahi lagti....yahin stop nahi hui.....she has been shown trying to come physical close to armaan...kaala teeka lagana....haath pakadna and then na chodna...😂 mere liye characterless hain...😂

ab saara dosh swarna ke sir daal dena, IMO is wrong...haan parvarish mein gadbad hui hai...but ab ruhi knows what she is doing and y she is doing...so its her doings...😂 not that i like swarna ka character...but ruhi ka rohit se totally immoral reasons se shaadi karna , IMO is not swarna ki galti.....guilt trippping armaan....for this, when she knows ruhi has done this, is her fault......😂

aap abhura ki fan ho na nahi, isse mujhe farak nahi padta.....but ruhi ka character makers ne filhaal to kafi grey likha hai...😂

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

when its about favourite blame on writers when its about hated ones it's the character. All are written by the same writers. Abhira had a simple life without any blames or baggages on head taken for granted or in gratitude like her mother had in her time. Her mom kept the child free of those blames gave a happy free spirited life which gave her confidence and strength. Being a single mom she gave that security to the kid. What her mom can't take stand against truth she taught the kid. In a way she rectified her mistakes in life giving that teachings to her kid. But only thing she did was she didn't tell about her past life to her kid might be it's not wanted for her or thought not to get back to old relations. Today Manish dialogues shayad kuch thread is left over so if we do this puja it will be good. Ak always wanted manish to excuse and accept her back which was shown in bits in mandir shadi as her dream, her convo with ruhis poppy when abhir got good marks in school. Her version was when they didn't call me why should i talk. When on death bed manish refused to accept her saying you are already dead for us she lost her last chance. Ruhi as child has that feeling of fatherless child a single mom and the kid was taunted badly in function for not having a father. Though her poppy gave her that unconditional love a parent is always a parent either father ir mother . She had to share her poppy with her cousin brother accepting the reality with maturity. She was shown as jealous girl first but slowly with poppys words she understood the value of brother in her life.This girl had Baggage of deaths and abandonment issues with her loved ones. Abhira too has no father but single parent love was there for her though she misses that father love which she feels in madhav. Whereas ruhi lost her own parents and parent figures her poppy her masi which she acknowledged on holi. 90 ,80 yr old great grand parents gave love shelter and security ti kid but will they be equal to parents any day who give confidence, trust and unconditional love correct the kids when they do mistakes . Ruhi has her past journey along with losing loved ones in her life next. Rohit without giving a chance left her easily listening to corner talks and his brothers sacrifice. No brother can atay that way infront easily in the name of ar gratitude on poddars. Ruhi wanted to be near arman its told always and arman knows it. He never pointed her love on him or disrespected her. Definition of love is as per writers any day in story not according to us and our thinking. If they put Ruhi in that place means they want to show her that way only either positive or negative or grey. A fl has many ups and downs in her journey with her mistakes, mus,egos , attitude or misjudge people in her impulsiveness. She is accepted as flawed fl easily. Wheres other characters are highlighted badly as they don't like it. Acceptance of characters is needed to understand them properly.

I dont think ki ruhi is a fl...😂 woh abhira hi hai...😂 filhaal to ruhi is the grey character.....which is defo important for any story...😂

Originally posted by: sweta2005

y would writer show reasoning y ruhi accepted rohit'd rishta after miscommunication on phone when same Writers were hailed when a mother chsnged a father's name on birthcertificate after same miscommunication on phone,where no realisation or introspection was shown,same will happen now

usse pehle ke issues bhi bahut different the...the last talk that armaan and ruhi had was not anywhere near what akshu and manyu had...😂 to dono scenarios are very different...

Originally posted by: India_TV

I dont think ki ruhi is a fl...😂 woh abhira hi hai...😂 filhaal to ruhi is the grey character.....which is defo important for any story...😂

Originally posted by: janecastle

When you marry one brother to stay close to other brother, when you continue to lust after your married BIL, you are immoral and characterless (you here is of course Ruhi). How does calling a spade a spade become hating?

Originally posted by: bajarbattu

That happens in all serials.... Viewers refuse to acknowledge the humanity of characters. Unfortunately it is such viewers that drive the dreaded TRP, and hence stories become crappy as time passes by.

Poppy fell in love with Akshara maasi not at first sight but at first song. Akshara took time to fall in love. She had her family and her equation with Aarohi to sort. Her priority was that! Similar to Akshara, Armaan's priority is his family owing to his equally complicated childhood and upbringing.

For viewers to see Ruhi as a complex layered character will be difficult, because Pratiksha did not do justice to the character because of her poor acting initially. And now with Garvita, the confusion has increased, but eventually and hopefully those who think that Ruhi is just a spoilt brat, will figure that she is just a traumatised kid who thinks those whom she loves, leave her eventually. And her story with Armaan, is actually her last straw that broke the camel's back so to speak.

I feel she will reach a compromise at some point when Rohit comes back, where she will let go of Armaan, so that he can stay in her life. And not go away as everyone she loves goes away. It will be upto Rohit, who will be responsible for teaching Ruhi, that people don't go away because she loves them, but in fact they go away, because things happen to them (like destiny) which is way beyond her control. He will have to teach her this through his own example of giving her unconditional love. And as she matures with this thought she will accept that Rohit was handed to her on platter as a gift by her destiny.

And eventually she will want her little sister, her dearest Akshara maasi's aakhri nishani to have her bit of heaven with Armaan too. A lot of 4th Gen YRKKH depends on the generosity of Ruhi and Abhira's hearts. Its going to be a great story to watch, just like Kaira.

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Though I have only one issue. I don't understand why they are making the sophisticated lawyer in Armaan do naughty and childish stuff with Abhira. I understood the Trampoline bit with Abhira because she was high on Bhang, but the other stuff that lately the makers are making him do just dilutes his sophistication. They need to come to a certain middle space where their minds can meet.

I want to see Abhira and Armaan meeting on his turf, and Abhira raising herself to meet his NOUS. They need to become a power couple before she leaves him after that one year. So much that he will miss her like the very air he breathes.

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much love, light and laughter,

Battu.

I unfortunately dont understand why the onus is on Rohit to come back, still show love to Ruhi and make her move on. Any sane self respecting woman would take a call to move on instead of expecting her married BIL to dump his deal wife and go back to her . She literally does no work except to stalk Armaan and occasionally doing some kitchen stuff. Rohit deserves better than a woman who is interested in her brother and didn't even care to come clean about her past before marriage. She took a huge decision like shaadi without even thinking it through. And she blames her family for "forcing" her. Umm what?! She is a modern educated woman who can certainly say No.

I read in other posts that she's managing multi crore business - unm when?! I dont see this happening.. she probably has some shares in it and gets passive income.

I don't even know what her qualifications are in this show.

She has zero drive, ambition and individuality.

She thinks infatuation is true love and is ridiculous enough to pine over the man who could not even take a stand for her and their love.

I have not watched prior seasons so dunno what baby Ruhi or her parents etc were like but adult Ruhi is all about being born with a silver spoon but self victimizing herself and being utterly immature, needy and selfish. I'm just glad she's not evil or criminal like Pakhi, Seerat etc etc of other shows.

I'd hope Ruhi grows a spine and moves on for herself instead of wallowing in self pity.

I think the intention of showing Armaan being child like with Abhira is that he never got a chance to be that way at all and Abhira brings out his inner child. I enjoy watching that. Abhira is full of sunshine, badbad, positivity and is supposed to fill up the darkness, loneliness, silence and negativity in his life and he's supposed to make her feel secure, be a voice of reason, be the anchor that grounds her solidly with a silent strong presence while she does her thing.

But Armaan needs to properly cut ties with Ruhi. This dosti dosti is utter BS. He is not enjoyable to watch when he is lying to himself and the world about being friends with the ex who is literally hitting on him and telling him she's waiting for him to be back with her.

Ruhi gets into Armaans space and does things to be physically close like holding hands, hugging, putting button on shirt, first aid, dancing etc etc but i would not call it harassing because Armaan currently allows her into his space and isnt clearly telling her to stay away. Infact he himself has also been in her space.

Abhira saw him hugging his chit wali and would have distanced herself but he lied to her saying its just past, he can never be with his ex etc etc. so now Abhira feels with his behavior that they are both growing attached and will see a future together.

Originally posted by: bajarbattu

Again.......... she is mentally ill because of severe childhood trauma. She needed help. Swarna could have put her foot down, shared her knowledge of Ruhi Armaan love with Manish and Sulekha and all three could have put a stop to this ridiculous wedding.

Immoral and characterless is when you are physical with your person of interest. Just trying to be near someone, is not it. At least not in my generation of folks, and I am quite old. I don't really profess to understand the millennials nor the Gen Z... so we could have a serious block between your and my understanding of what constitutes immoral behaviour.

And "characterless" is sooooooooooooooooo like 70's ki priya rajvansh in Hanste Zakhm. Everytime I read that word I am reminded of Balraj Sahani dissing his own birth daughter. Only when she sacrifices her life for the adopted daughter, and the father comes to know of her sacrifices, he and his family relent.

All the Ruhi = Spade callers sound like Balraj Sahani 2x.

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much love, light and laughter,
Battu.

P.S.: This is my take, it need not be yours. And I do not question your take, so it would be nice if ...
I tagged Swathiyaa, because she shares the same views.

So basically it’s about liking. If some viewers like a character, they will defend anything and make excuses even for crimes and ignore rape. Rape because past MLs have done it and there were excuses even for that. But if a character isn’t liked by a section of audience, they will call the character with all names for small things even if it doesn’t make sense and the character is largely harmless. Like even here Armaan is liked more than Ruhi, so he’s rarely ever called out for ruining his brother’s life by going ahead with his brother marrying a woman whom he knew never loved his bro(who he considered as his jaan and all) and promising to love Ruhi all his life too yet Ruhi is always bashed for ruining Rohit’s life when it’s actually Armaan who’s the bigger culprit. So like I said humans are emotional and biased to the point of blind when it comes to their own. Most don’t make sense is what I have learned. As frustrating it is, I suggest to just ignore and/or block the problematic ones if it gets too much for your own peace.