Love like anuj's exists - Page 3

Originally posted by: HoneyBee7312

Woh iss Jhandupama ko mauka nahi mila otherwise ye Kavya ki beti ka naamkaran bhi karti, Vanraj ke saath jhula jhulte jhulte.

You forgot she is "Badi Maa".

Originally posted by: Harish111

Lol this is nice double standards. Anupama abandoned Anuj and her daughter again and again and again. Whatever Anuj did was a REACTION. So according to people a wife can abandon her husband's family, be at exes house 90%, serve her ex in laws, abandon there daughter and a husband can do nothing?

What kind of one sided relationship do people want where a wife can spend 90% of time with her exes and ignore currenf family and husband should be ok? Husband and his kid doesn't have any needs?

No one should understand someone's obsession with her exes and her abusers. No one. No one who loves someone can tolerate their obsession with their abusers. Even parents won't tolerate daughter going back to abusers again and again. It's like an alcoholic going back to alcohol after rehabilitation, it's bad for her.

I cannot understand this mentality at all, a wife can abandon own family and daughter and spend 90% of time with her exes who is also her abusers and a husband shouldn't even react? And when it's bad for her and she gets nothing but abuse and tears?

Have these people been in any relationship in their entire life? Is this real world where people want a husband to be ok with wife's obsession with her exes and abusers? That's not understanding, that's just stupidity, which husband wants her wife to be obsessed with and always crying with her abusers?

Anupama stans don't want a husband, they want a boy toy who pays for them and fulfils their every demand while they don't have any responsibility to him and his family and his needs.

Anuj abandoned Anupama too taking off for months with Maya with not a word of solace to Anupama. What kind of one sided double standard is that?

Originally posted by: Radhiii

Shruthi did more for adhya then anupama ever did as a mother . Anupama left anuj and adhya when they probably needed her the most to assure them that she will give first priority to them as they need her more then shahs.

Anuj and adhya found refuge in shruti when they were lonely. If maa can still feel shahs as their apne then why can't anuj have someone who cares for him and his daughter after divorce. Only flaw in the story line is anuj still pining after his ex wife who is thankless and couldn't handle so much love and respect from anuj and adhya as she is used to abuse and disrespect from shahs

A mother doesn't leave her kid when they make mistake. If a kid feels insecure for her mothers love then mothers job is to assure that kid about how much she loves her all kids equally. Janda leke khadi nahi ho jati k mere pyaar pe shak kyu kiya

If Shruthi did more for Choti and Anuj, it is their cross to bear. Anuj and Aadhya can feel gratitude towards Shruthi.
I am saying if Shruthi is all that good for them, they should move on and let Anupama lead her life. That’s why I said Anupama doesn’t need a love like Aadhya’s or Anuj’s. If Anupama has become a stranger to Aadhya, Aadhya can very well not want Anupama in her life, misguided or not, but the spoilt girl has no right lashing out at Anupama so viciously. Being abused by her teen daughter with not an iota of respect and being chased by an ex who obviously has moved on with Shruthi - are not my ideal concept of love in any sense.