Anupamaa 04th Mar 2024 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread - Page 3

She knows that she will loose her free home, food and taxi if she shows attitude to Deepu.

She very well knows that she can loose her job which she hardly does. Maybe she have to leave for India too.

No one can get a job like this job where she can come and go on her convenience.

Anuj did not stop anupama because he himself wanted her to go

That is why he use clever trick ki jise Yeh lage ki anuj to anupama ko jaane ko to nahi kaha tha but anupama khud chali gayi but Asli baat yeh thi anuj khud chahta tha anupama chali jaaye that is why going on blaming anupama without giving Second thought without understanding amd properly listening anupama what anupama want to say

He just made prejudice ki agar anupama ne ek baar choti ke school function mein nahi pahunch paayi to is baar bhi anupama ne choti ko priority chutti pe dhyaan nahi diya hoga,..

Now pehle jee bhar ke anupama se shikayat kar liya ab Pata nahi kyon anupama ki ise itni chinta ho rahi hai

I just want anuj anupama ke uske haal pe rehne de jub anupama ko samjhane chahiye uski baat sunni chahiye tub anupama pur blame laga rahe they. Ab Pata nahi anupama ke prati jhoothi hamdardi dikha karke Pata nahi kya proove karna chahta hai anuj

Anupama jub Ghar se jaa rahi thi rub to anuj ne anupama ko roka nahi ab pats nahi ise anupama ki itni chinta kyon hai

Itni chinta hai to phir jhootha blame pe anupama kyon lagaya kyon jaane diya rokna tha na .

That is why I really want ki anuj anupama ki worry karna chodna band kare anupama ke apbe haal mein. Rehne do

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

Did anyone notice, when Tosu was leaving for work saying am getting late, Maa feeds him Dahi-Cheeni and gives a bhashan - you have got this opportunity, make the most of it, make us proud, you are so talented and most intelligent, one doesn’t get such opportunities everyday and tujhe to bohot saalon baad moka mila hae apni kabiliyat dikhane ka

Cut to Maa reprimanding Anooj why he hired Tosu, if he messes up she won’t take any responsibility….showing fake anger 😂

She also told Tosu - Tu humare khaandaan mein (Shah Khandaan) mein sabse zyada padha likha hai, poore Mohalle mein (Shah Mohalla) tere ae zyada hosiyar koi nahi tha, Tere Papa (Mishter Shah🥰) Samar aur Sweeti ko kehte the dekho aur seekho kuch isse

Ye Orat kitna hi fake karle that she doesn’t care about her riste but for her biological kids and grand kids and Mata Pita (Baa Bapuji) and Bachcho ke Pita, she will move Heaven and Earth!

While to Aadhya and Anuj - nahi believe karna mat karo pharak nahi padta, mae tumhari khusi ke liye chod kar gayi thi

To Anuj she told today, uljhe hue dor ko kaat ke phenk dena chahiye but to Shahs she will say aise tod ke thode na phekte hain, unhe suljhana chahiye, mae aaungi mae aaungi mera haq hae 😂

Never seen a lead character as shameless and hypocritical as Anupamaa Shah

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

Maa ke bachche paidaishi Kapoots hi the ! Inke kaands khatam hi nahi hote, Maa ko aaj bhi bhaag bhaag ke inke failaye hue raite sametne jana padta bai and then folks say ke kya wo bechari apne bachcho se milne bhi nahi jayegi, kya wo bechari jab uske bachcho ko uski itni zarurat hai tab bhi nahi jayegi 😂

Aaj subah hi iss cartoon ne Tosu ko Dahi Cheeni khila kar yaad dilaya tha ki wo poore khandaan mein sabse zyada hosiyar hai…..he just proved her right 😂

@bold, jab paidaish aur parvarrish itni nihayati ghatiya ho..... Raita sametne bhaagna toh padega na.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

She knows that she will loose her free home, food and taxi if she shows attitude to Deepu.

She very well knows that she can loose her job which she hardly does. Maybe she have to leave for India too.

No one can get a job like this job where she can come and go on her convenience.

Which means she is tolerating his behavior for the sake of her job and free shelter, food ?

She is literally leading a man at this age after two failed marriages, very well knowing his intent, neither confronting him nor telling him off. What do we call such people?

People compare her with Anuj to justify her behavior but atleast he made it clear to Shruti that he doesn’t love her never will and if she wants to leave she can.

Aaj toh Anupamaa ne Bol Diya hamara parivaar. Matlab Anupamaa Aaj bhi tank, mann (dhan nahi hai) se Shah ko hi apna parivaar maanti hai.

YAY 🥳

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Aaj toh Anupamaa ne Bol Diya hamara parivaar. Matlab Anupamaa Aaj bhi tann, mann (dhan nahi hai) se Shah ko hi apna parivaar maanti hai.

YAY 🥳

Toh fir itne din se kaahe faaltu bhashan de rahi hai ki 'Rissste peeche chhodkar aayi' etc etc. Oh maybe she only meant Anuj and Aadhya, because he dared to have a conversation with her, instead of wagging his tail and carrying out her orders

Shameless shahs ko toh hamesha apna hi maana tha even if they kept insulting and humiliating her to no end aur Raja Van ke duur rehne ke hukum ka bhi palan kiya. Anyway, this is good news. Unpaid maid will soon be reunited with her masters

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Wah wah anuj ke kya kehne .inki ro baat hi nirali hai

Yeh Jo chahe khuch anupama ko bol sakte Hai jub chahe rishta tod sakte hain But anupama apna decision Lena ka koi right nahi hai

When anupama save first Pari then choti( it was situation demand)

To anuj ke liye anupama anu se anupama ho gayi

Anuj called anupama as anupama two times even before anupama leave him

Anuj called anupama

When he said Maine apne 26 year pyaar shaadi jaldi kar diya anupama

Agar Maine shaadi jaldi nahi ki hoti to yeh sub nahi ho raha hota anupama

Arey anuj baar baar anupama anupama bol rahe they to tumne pehle rishta Toda hai

Anupama ko tub utna dukh nahi hua jub tum us par jhootha blame laga rahe they ki jyaada chinta rehti hai

But u called her as anupama which is shocking and even told her 26 year pyaar mein jaldi kar diya,.

To Mr anuj aapne rishta toda hai Pehle by calling as anupama

Anuj ka yahi ki jub marji aaye to anu ko anupama ko keh kar pukare aur anupama ko Anu keh kar pukare

The saddest part of the episode was that he didn't even care that she had just survived an accident with all the others. He just didn't care about her. Goes to show that he was just physically attracted to her. There was no love or even liking that he had for his wife. He clearly said that usko pari ko Marne Kay liye chhod Dena chahiye tha and should have prioritised his daughter. That means Anuj's relationship is important but Anupama's relationship is a baggage.

Any good person will never say that you should have let the infant die. That's just criminal. A woman cannot leave her attachments easily and expecting her to not help her kids when they need her is not justified. No matter what the age of the child is, no matter how bad or good he/she is, a child will remain a child for his mother.

Plus this lady is an abuse victim who fears doing anything cos she was always told that she was wrong, always abused. Telling such a woman that 'I did a mistake marrying you'(that too in front of everyone)is literally heartless. I think she had already said before marriage that she has baggages. Anuj shouldn't have married her and made her to feel even lower.

Any other woman who has been an abuse victim would have slipped into severe depression and would have ended her life. Guess that's what makes the show unintentionally(unintentionally cos rs just wants to increase the episodes. RS isn't thinking much) woman empowerment cos the woman didn't go the suicide way and even after so many setbacks decided to stand up again in her feet even in her old age. The time I disliked her the most is during Samar death cos no normal Indian mother will think about fulfilling her husband's physical needs and celebrating festivals when her child is dead. That was extremely disgusting writing.

P.S. Anyone expecting an abuse victim to change her ways like in movies, that my friend doesn't happen in real life. In real life abuse victims live miserable lives cos of their lack of self worth just like anupamaa. No matter what they achieve they will still feel useless and go back to their old ways cos that's home for them, that's where they feel safe, that's where they feel they won't be abused further.

Sorry for the long post.

Iyup anuj know anupama weakness yet he married her if he has so much problem he should have clear it before or would have not marry her

Amd moreover habit does not change overnight

But I have seen In real life

A recent death happen

Where a mother died at dhanteras but they kept dead body till bhai dooj because according to Hindu tradition one cannot celebrate festival or do any ritual if body is cremated till 13 days .

So inorder to celebrate festival they did not creamate dead body and they just kept dead body for 5 days

So there are many instance if during marriage if hole person died they Wil not creamate body until marriage full ritual happen

After performing ritual they will creamte body

Because until body is cremated In Hindu tradition one can do ritual

Just a koschen:

Let us suppose just suppose:

Anupama marries Vanraj by some divine intervention and Anuj marries Shruti and Aadhya has accepted this new arrangement.

Anuj-Anupama are divorced but Anupama is still (bachchi ki) Aadhya ki Maa and Romil ki Chachi.

Kapadia should become Mayka, right? Anupama would frequent Kapadia Mansion at the drop of the hat, everyday to cook, clean, be worried for their goodness. Leela-Hansmukh should have no issue since Anupama bachche hain waha, bachchon se milne bhi na jaye? And actually bachche hi hain (under the age of 18 unlike adult, married Shah "kids")

Suppose Anuj-Anupama have heart-to-heart long discussions, walks, Anuj proposes to Anupama that "he wants her to return" and she hides it from Vanraj. That's ALL fine.

Anupama ke jimmedari ke matke hain.