I do Feel Bad

I don't want to ask who is responsible and all. But really, it is disturbing for me to see the pathetic lives of the characters. I mean... Kavya is not happy, her daughter is not happy, Ishani is not happy, Pakhi is not happy (i wish she never is), Adhik isn't happy, Anuj is not happy, Shruti isn't happy, Kinjal's life is the most pitiable, Toshi has lost all self-respect and common sense, Adhya is not happy, Anupama is not happy, Dimpy is not happy (ungrateful woman like her deserves this. How can someone bite on the same person who fought for her in such a scary episodes of her life? Even if Anupama is annoying).

So yeah, Pakhi, Toshu, Vanraj and Dimpy need to stay unhappy but others need joy. Yes, including Anupama. She deserves a better life.

Matlab, what is the motive of the story?

Exactly nobody is happy

Anuj and Aadhya are not happy

Anupama is not happy

Kinjal is not happy

The only one who is happy is dukhmukh and jhula devi

Jiske life ko Anupamaa ne touch kiya hai, all are unhappy

I hope deviji get so much success but don't get a human to share with, that pain will be worst than death after she treated aadhya & Anuj . Kanta aunty said if u want to close ur non existing heart close but do keeyone window open else u will get suffocated how she die after getting suffocated.

Hope MD return & ask what is d difference between both of us , only difference I don't rant that I did for Anuj aadhya happiness, u r coward to accept truth

She has turned into MD 2.0 hope she remains unhappy

Anuj & adhya , kavya r unhappy coz they choose wrong person for love who were not worthy of them

Anuj patience is again finishing hope this time he hate this woman with a passion

Originally posted by: Jefen

I don't want to ask who is responsible and all. But really, it is disturbing for me to see the pathetic lives of the characters. I mean... Kavya is not happy, her daughter is not happy, Ishani is not happy, Pakhi is not happy (i wish she never is), Adhik isn't happy, Anuj is not happy, Shruti isn't happy, Kinjal's life is the most pitiable, Toshi has lost all self-respect and common sense, Adhya is not happy, Anupama is not happy, Dimpy is not happy (ungrateful woman like her deserves this. How can someone bite on the same person who fought for her in such a scary episodes of her life? Even if Anupama is annoying).

So yeah, Pakhi, Toshu, Vanraj and Dimpy need to stay unhappy but others need joy. Yes, including Anupama. She deserves a better life.

Matlab, what is the motive of the story?

Its a drill lesson: Mahaan Maa banna hai toh khushiyon ko goli maaro.

Khud ki khushiyan, doosron ki khushiyan, viewers ki bhi.

Good person doesn't deserve happiness.

Good person means being a doormat, a sacrificial lamb.

Never mind your own business. Mind other's business. Shive your nose in other's personal matter.

Then play victim when its time to bear consequences.

How to be a lil less than God but a step ahead of being The ultimate perfect mother symbol.

Bass prod house ki trp increase karo, khush unko rakho.

The main objective of this show is to set an impossible standard of the PERFECT MOTHER material, for people to look up to, ages n ages to come.

The viewers are also unhappy.

I don’t think Anupama needs Joy.

She needs Shahs. They are her happiness, joy.

If they all stay together, they can ruin each other’s lives and spare others.

Everyone was happy until Anupamaa was caged in Shah house, she needs to get back there, asap.

But the two most important ones - Vanrajan and vanRajan are happy. What else is needed

Nobody is happy because nobody wants to be happy.

Adhya needs Anuj and Shru to be together to be happy. Her father is not letting that happen wholeheartedly so she is unhappy. She wants to fix other people's lives to be happy. It does not work like that, unfortunately.

Anuj wants Anupamaa but Anu comes with some unavoidable situations and many misplaced priorities. So he can't be happy.

For both of them to be happy together it's important that either she sorts out her life or he accepts that things can't change. So either he compromises with everything or he moves on. He can't do both so he can't be happy. He should join some meditation classes and now shift his focus from worshipping Anupamaa to worshipping God and work on his liberation from his world which is full of suffering. Buddha says desire is the cause of all suffering. He should try to rise above his worldly desire to get Anupamaa.

Anupamaa can never be happy. It's her fate that happiness will come in bits to her. She wants to be a Goddess while being born as a human. For her to be happy she wants to be everywhere, do everything, fix everything, be venerated by everyone, and made to be sit on a pedestal. Until then she can't be happy. Criticism, complaints, and challenging situations are unacceptable to her.. Usko sab sab sab chaiye and its a universal law ki sabko sab nahi milta. Most importantly she needs to be worshipped by Shahs. They won't do that. So not possible. She can't focus on the things she has. She should also join meditation classes but should not go for the same classes as Anuj. The problem with Anupamaa is that instead of learning, she will start teaching and then will distract everyone with her issues. A daily dose of drama will start happening in the mediation classes and will obstruct the well-being of other students too.. Perhaps she should become a jogan for real and not do pretense this time like the last time she did.

Kinjal needs to leave Toshu and enjoy the luxuries of life her mother worked hard to earn for her. But she doesn't do that so even she can't be happy.

Adhik should get his daughter. Dimpy should file a complaint against Vanraj for restricting her movement and Kavya should leave the house. T2 for his own good should move away from the toxic house. Since none of them are doing what they are supposed to do in order to be happy. How can they be happy?

At the end of the day, no one has control over life's circumstances or what situations we might get stuck in. One can only work towards their happiness and make appropriate decisions. In this show, no one takes the initiative to be happy.

The bottom line is they can either take control of their lives and be happy or Vanraj Shah ALLOWS them to be happy.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Jiske life ko Anupamaa ne touch kiya hai, all are unhappy