Anupama is too immature for her age!!

Isn't she is the one who gave divorce to vanraj without any help .she fought against Leela and toshu toxicity but look at her what the hell makers done to her character .. she is main character everything resolved around her .she should.be mature , accept her mistake and focus on her udaan ..wtf all she do is crying ,play victim card and run away from truth.I still don't understand why they made her EX in-law house as her Maayka and she became more of Shah Family Bahu than Anuj's wife and Kapadia Bahu.