Anupama's misplaced priorities are responsible for her misery. AnuRaj had failed to raise her kids as role models to the society. Toshu and Pakhi are spoilt brats. Even though Samar has turned to be the decent child, it was due to Anupama's constant pampering. All the 3 children of Anupama are complete failures in terms of their career.
01. Toshu : Anupama's 1st born child. He is interested only in a comfortable life, but is not interested to work. Even though he works it was as Rakhi ji's gulam without any self respect. He goes to a lavish pent house given by Rakhi ji leaving Kinjal behind. 1 fine day Rakhi ji does the right thing by firing Toshu from his job and throwing him out of the pent house. Forest King has turned Toshu to a spoilt brat with his endless pampering even supporting his evil ways. Shocking thing being a well educated girl like Kinjal goes against Rakhi ji's wishes and getting married to Ravanraj's photo copy by eloping. Kinjal is cheated by Toshu in the end.
02. Samar : Anupama's 2nd born child. The only decent child of AnuRaj. Anupama has pampered Samar so much that he had failed in coming out of Anupama's shadow. Ignores career options which give good salary in favour of dance in which Anupama was good at during her college days. Samar is also unemployed thanks to his obsession with dance. Marries Dimpy who is responsible for division of Shah house into 2.
03. Pakhi : Anupama's 3rd born child. Excessive pampering by Ravanraj lead Pakhi to become a spoilt brat. Pakhi is very much like her elder sibling Toshu who does not want to work but is interested in having only a rich life style. Marries Adhik at the age of 18 when she is supposed to complete her education and get a good job in her chosen field. Their wedding ends in divorce thanks to Pakhi's ego.
Anupama gets married to Anuj even though it is wrong for some 1 who is a divorcee, a mother of 3 children and who is about to become grand mother to 1. As if that was not enough, she does not say NO to Anuj's decision to adopt CA aka Aadhya from an orphanage. Anupama wants to tell the truth to her biological kids but Anuj instructs to keep her mouth shut. Anupama's biological kids have every right to know about their mother, then why is Anuj trying to hide his decision?
Anupama gets every thing on a platter after she gets married to Anuj. But her unhealthy attachment to the toxic Shah family was the final coffin in Anupama Anuj's wedding ending in a divorce after 3 years.
Even though Rakhi ji has given birth to her only daughter, she did a great job in moulding Kinjal into hard working, humble, well educated, career oriented and well mannered girl making her better than Anupama's biological kids. This is why Rakhi ji is the best mother in Anupama.