Why the pleading and emotional blackmail?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hi guys, am back with two queries.

1. Will all the pleading, coercion, tears and begging Rohan and his parents to allow the marriage to take place actually redeem Rano's life and the mess that she has got herself into? Infact, i feel they are trying to push her into a deeper hell than she already is in. How can people think that a couple can build a marriage based on deceit and distrust?

2. Gaurav's mum swallowed sleeping pills and lying there hale and hearty emotionally blackmails him never to leave her. Possessive, unreasonable and such irrational behaviour cannot be condoned whatever the provocation may be. Yes, Gaurav loves his mum= agreed👏. Yes, Gaurav loves Rano = suspect! 😡He has to remember that he has left the person he promised to look after all his life on the crossroads, knowing fully well that she is incapable of leading an independant life at this stage of her life. Choices must be made but with thought and responsibility.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Sorry i did not appreciate the pleading of Rishi he was asking like he is father of Rano she has committed a mistake and rather hiding it they should..be more upfront nd should abduct Gaurav nd make him marry Rano 😆 😆

about..Gurav's mom..basically this is what..mostly MIL are made of up..they can stoop to any level just to make their son on their side..just like the other day..Veera made Rishi wear her choice of clothes...so advice BEware of Monsters in law 😆

more will be later..just here to give my pea brain a reak from all the balck nd white world of codes 😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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After marriage...if you satisfy your husband in the bedroom...it's only time before he starts going against his MOM.

That is the secret girls. 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: newpath

After marriage...if you satisfy your husband in the bedroom...it's only time before he starts going against his MOM.

That is the secret girls. 😳

i guess this is Publice Forum where people of every age comes visits nd post so DO THINK TWICE BEFORE writing anything in FUTURE😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Nothing wrong with what I wrote I used no swear words, no S word or F word....

It's a reality...and part of Grihasti....and happy one.

Nishta if your young and live abroad, you would have gone thru the whole sex education back in grade five. So there is nothing new here.

If I am educating anyone out there, I would say this is very serious topic...and b/c indians are so repressed they do not think about it like the way it is.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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agreed with you newpath....

that is the way to turn a mama's boy in to a wife's chamcha....

@ chalia... sweet I don't believe ppl falling for emotional blackmail ....these persons are weak...

If I would try that with my family ... they will look at me and tell me either to grow up and use common sense 😛 ... or to drop dead/ take a hicke 🤢 😆 .....
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: newpath

After marriage...if you satisfy your husband in the bedroom...it's only time before he starts going against his MOM.

That is the secret girls. 😳

Newpath,

you are a treasure. We always joke among ourselves that the way to a man's heart is not through his stomach.😉

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: shali

agreed with you newpath....

that is the way to turn a mama's boy in to a wife's chamcha....

@ chalia... sweet I don't believe ppl falling for emotional blackmail ....these persons are weak...

If I would try that with my family ... they will look at me and tell me either to grow up and use common sense 😛 ... or to drop dead/ take a hicke 🤢 😆 .....

well shali,

wake up to the real world. I know mothers and fathers who emotionally blackmail their kids into marriages, careers and other issues. Its all about how manipulative some people are. We are not used to them because we live abroad

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Posted: 17 years ago
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This is the best pre-marriage advice anyone can give you 😆

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