There is no better love story than Arjun Reddy - Ranbir Kapoor - Page 8

Vanga is like Colleen Hoover with her absolute trash books

Originally posted by: zara321

Ugh kabir was such a terrible person, the worst person one can think of. It's like he targeted preeti because he could see she was a pushover, he knew she would not say anything to him, which is why he could do whatever he wanted to her, slap her, insult her, he does not ask permission to touch her or take her out of class, he tells her who she has to be friends with and when she should go back home after the vacation even though she didn't want to go home. He even moved her into his dorm room without even asking her permission, the most disgusting excuse of a man.

He is the weakest example of a man, because he wouldn't be able to handle a woman who had a voice and a opinion of her own, so he targets a girl like preeti. The fact that he would go crazy whenever somebody said no to him shows he is a coward and a wimp, a real man would be strong and stick by their girl, but kabir left preeti and threatened her when her father said no.

Preeti was so weak and silent, and they romanticised that, they tried to make it look desirable, which is so terrifying and heartbreaking to me, the whole relationship makes me feel sick, at the start she was terrified of him like everyone else, and kabir wanted her to be terrified so he can do whatever he wanted.

And as you said, there is no reason shown as to why kabir is like this, his family seems to be loving and well mannered. And then vanga rewards thus despicable human being by giving him preeti and the baby is his!

In Animal already rks heavily violent character is being shown as this stylish cool person, he will be admired by the toxic male audience, they are already giving the excuse that he loves his papa. And his abusive relationship will rashmika will be romanticised, because rashmika will stick by him through all of his psychotic behaviour.

It would surprise you that arjun reddy character was inspired by vanga the director life as medical student only (may be not fully) may be you google it you will get details

I am not sure about animal whose it inspired by but it looks like gaang wars between two familys or two relatives out to gain control over something

May be the family feud in telengana and rayalseema region of andhra pradesh

Originally posted by: Petrichor80

Yes, these days women don't bother with immature men. No one wants to be stuck with an overgrown toddler for the rest of their life.

You are wrong

In USA too indian women who are hit and abused by husbands take it quietly as their family says you cannot leave an US husband and come back to india or parent home

So you can imagine in india where hardly 25% women have jobs formal jobs how men must be behaving with wives may be not in public but in 4 walls of house

There are such immature men who control hit abuse wives but in public show decent image to world

Lets forget thinking of small towns or villages what must be happening with wives and woman in general is not imaginable to us

Like Neetu-Rishi's marriage. Great lovestory.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

You are wrong

In USA too indian women who are hit and abused by husbands take it quietly as their family says you cannot leave an US husband and come back to india or parent home

So you can imagine in india where hardly 25% women have jobs formal jobs how men must be behaving with wives may be not in public but in 4 walls of house

There are such immature men who control hit abuse wives but in public show decent image to world

Lets forget thinking of small towns or villages what must be happening with wives and woman in general is not imaginable to us

I feel for those women. That is a nightmare to be stuck in a toxic marriage and to be told from back home not to come back. Over the last decade divorces have gone up at least outside of India. There are women who get divorced and build a life of their own without having to go back home. Yes, there are women who are sadly stuck in toxic relationships, but with time with enough money and resources they can come out of it. I have seen that happen and it is not impossible.

Originally posted by: Petrichor80

I feel for those women. That is a nightmare to be stuck in a toxic marriage and to be told from back home not to come back. Over the last decade divorces have gone up at least outside of India. There are women who get divorced and build a life of their own without having to go back home. Yes, there are women who are sadly stuck in toxic relationships, but with time with enough money and resources they can come out of it. I have seen that happen and it is not impossible.

Thats in USA and europe where its not society taboo to divorce or to live as divorced woman not in india

In USA/UK society supports such woman to rebuild lives

But in india its opposite society only does not want woman to come out of toxic marraiages and targets such woman

Family too does not support and want woman back at maternal homes

I know BE working in big IT companies suffering toxic husbands but do not divorce as socety taboo and family pressurise to cut all relations with daughter if she divorce. This is common

We cannot compare situation of Northa america/europe nations with india how society treat women

Its not like thapad movie where for one slap you divorce and family supports

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Thats in USA and europe where its not society taboo to divorce or to live as divorced woman not in india

In USA/UK government and society supports such woman to rebuild lives

But in india its opposite society and govt only does not want woman to come out of toxic marraiages and targets such woman

Family too does not support and want woman back at maternal homes

I know BE working in big IT companies suffering toxic husbands but do not divorce as socety taboo and family pressurise to cut all relations with daughter if she divorce. This is common

We cannot compare situation of Northa america/europe nations with india how society and govt treat women

Its not like thapad movie where for one slap you divorce and family supports

This is absolutely horrible and heartbreaking. They are essentially trapped. I am not going to be watching Animal, but after reading this I am even more against movies like Animal.

I am thrown off by your comment on govt. Why doesn't the govt want women to come out of toxic marriages? Maybe avoid using the word govt cus otherwise post will get reported in forum.

Yes. I agree.

Originally posted by: Petrichor80

This is absolutely horrible and heartbreaking. They are essentially trapped. I am not going to be watching Animal, but after reading this I am even more against movies like Animal.

I am thrown off by your comment on govt. Why doesn't the govt want women to come out of toxic marriages? Maybe avoid using the word govt cus otherwise post will get reported in forum.

Sorry by govt i mean system that should help these woman

There is no support like USA/UK to rebuild life or support for skills and getting jobs making them independent

In USA you can start education or skil training in 40s and start career in india you cannot do that. People cannot start going to college or skills and get jobs in 40s suddenly especially woman

Also domestic violence is considered family issue to be resolved at home, police or law will not easily file FIRs etc if woman goes to file against husband or family for domestic voilence its taken very lightly

There is no support by authorities to battered woman or by maternal family too thats what i meant by gvt

Its a lonely battle without family or authorities support is what i meant. Thats why woman bear violence at home quietly or sexual harassment in offices bec in india its taken lightly by everyone unlike USA/UK

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Sorry by govt i mean system that should help these woman

There is no support like USA/UK to rebuild life or support for skills and getting jobs making them independent

In USA you can start education or skil training in 40s and start career in india you cannot do that. People cannot start going to college or skills and get jobs in 40s suddenly especially woman

Also domestic violence is considered family issue to be resolved at home, police or law will not easily file FIRs etc if woman goes to file against husband or family for domestic voilence its taken very lightly

There is no support by authorities to battered woman or by maternal family too thats what i meant by gvt

Its a lonely battle without family or authorities support is what i meant. Thats why woman bear violence at home quietly or sexual harassment in offices bec in india its taken lightly by everyone unlike USA/UK

I understand. I get it now. Thank you for patiently explaining it to me. I did not know this. I hope there are systems that get put in place to get this changed.