💞Beautiful Seasons of Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai💞[DTNt:pg-30,151] - Page 47

When the family is like Goenkas, it is better to hide. Yuvraj can cause physical harm, while Goenkas will give Abhira a lifetime of mental and emotional trauma.

It's all about putting in effort. Initially, when Naira left due to a misunderstanding, Naitik made the effort to search for her in every city. During times of separation between Naira and Kartik, she had the support of her family - a caring father and a supportive brother Naksh, who not only pointed out her mistakes but also stood by her. However, when Kairav was born, Naitik wasn't around, and maybe he had passed away by then. There was a car blast and Naira's belongings burned, leading everyone to believe Naira had died, so the Singhania family didn't search for her. Naira tried to contact the Singhanias, but they thought she was deceased. She left because her character was questioned, and she didn't want her child's identity to be doubted. Whenever Naira lived separately from Kartik, she always longed for him, but circumstances kept them apart. Naira had the advantage of having a parental figure or a proper family. When Naira returned with Kairav they made her aware of her mistakes but equally accepted her.Akshara's family was supposed to be there for her, but their attention shifted when Sirat and Arohi entered their lives. Surprisingly, Kairav easily replaced Sirat after Naira, and he found a loving sister in Arohi, but not Akshara. He was ungrateful to the person who supported him after he was tagged murderer. Despite Arohi's demise, Kairav could have stayed in touch with Akshara and Abhira if he had made the effort. It's all about making an effort for family. When Abhir was born, Manish could have visited Akshara. He was in contact, so why didn't he visit? He could have easily met them under the guise of a business meeting. If a family treats someone as an outsider, naturally, they'll seek solace elsewhere.

Originally posted by: Shinning_AD

yes definitely! But what else she could have done? Unlike Singanhia and Maheshwari family who actually go to find their lost daughters - Goenka don’t even care? And asked her to go out while have a child and being pregnant

As I said, joint family mai bina blunder kiye rehna Sr.Akshara ki legacy se hua he nai.

Serials chalte he hai joint family set up ki wajah se for drama entertainment etc lekin yeh log bhul he gaye ki joint family mai sirf negativity dikhate rehne se they are only concluding one thing that family ties todd kar ya nuclear set mai rahoge toh he you can blossom in life. Yeh rishta ka yeh background nahi tha. OG Akshara ne har rishta acche se nibhaya tha. Baar baar family se rishta todne ke situations khud he create nahi kiye the.

Originally posted by: Manny_123

Wasn't she the one who complicated the whole Arohi's death situation in the first place? Abhi told her to tell the truth to family, but no, she decided to lie to protect Ruhi who did not even know her incident may have contributed in a way to the accident 🤦‍♀️. This situation could have handled better but Ak chose to handle it in the most worst possible way. Even after going, she wanted them to contact first when Abhi told her to call. Elders do not take the initiative but youngsters try to reach them. This part reminds me of Kabhi Kushi Kabhi Gham movie.

Her pattern is that when the situation gets worst she knows that she can't handle. So she leaves from that situation. Most of the time it is she who creates that situation lol.

Goenkas are not good and I accept that, but they didn't ask her to go but she decided to leave and go far away because she thought that it was the best decision to do to protect Ruhi. Goenkas except Mimi, Kairav and Muskaan simply didn't stop her. She could have reunited with the family later but she decided to stay away.

Originally posted by: Summer_Rain

It's all about putting in effort. Initially, when Naira left due to a misunderstanding, Naitik made the effort to search for her in every city. During times of separation between Naira and Kartik, she had the support of her family - a caring father and a supportive brother Naksh, who not only pointed out her mistakes but also stood by her. However, when Kairav was born, Naitik wasn't around, and maybe he had passed away by then. There was a car blast and Naira's belongings burned, leading everyone to believe Naira had died, so the Singhania family didn't search for her. Naira tried to contact the Singhanias, but they thought she was deceased. She left because her character was questioned, and she didn't want her child's identity to be doubted. Whenever Naira lived separately from Kartik, she always longed for him, but circumstances kept them apart. Naira had the advantage of having a parental figure or a proper family. When Naira returned with Kairav they made her aware of her mistakes but equally accepted her.Akshara's family was supposed to be there for her, but their attention shifted when Sirat and Arohi entered their lives. Surprisingly, Kairav easily replaced Sirat after Naira, and he found a loving sister in Arohi, but not Akshara. He was ungrateful to the person who supported him after he was tagged murderer. Despite Arohi's demise, Kairav could have stayed in touch with Akshara and Abhira if he had made the effort. It's all about making an effort for family. When Abhir was born, Manish could have visited Akshara. He was in contact, so why didn't he visit? He could have easily met them under the guise of a business meeting. If a family treats someone as an outsider, naturally, they'll seek solace elsewhere.

The way she keeps switching between the two males. After Abhinav death, the should have shown her pregnant then the marriage back with Abhimanyu only after 1-2 years.

Originally posted by: Shinning_AD

Yes! I guess everyone agreed that she should have told the truth ~ the blame is all on the makers tho for ending Gen3 such terribly 😔

OG Akshara and naira ke season tak har ek character ka apna ek respect tha, chahe fir gaayu ho yah naksh and Keerti ho , season 3 se unhone ne naya nonsense start kiya hai, jab dekho tab lead ke tracks/actions ke according baki sab character ki dhajjiya udate rehte hai. Same thing happening in anupama too.
Anupama and season 3 ke time se jaise naya eta start hua hai ki jaha har ek character ki dhajjiya lead ki mahanta ke according Udti rahegi.

Ekta ke show jaise bhi ho lekin Rajan shahi ke show mai jo last 2 saal se chal raha hai waisa waha aj tak nahi ho raha hai. Har ek character ka apna ek graph and ek respect hai.

Originally posted by: Shinning_AD

Yes! I guess everyone agreed that she should have told the truth ~ the blame is all on the makers tho for ending Gen3 such terribly 😔

Yeah sara blame goes to makers for not keeping the consistency in the characters and plot.

And what’s wrong to live in nuclear family? One can’t say Ak was in nuclear family in Kasauli per se as she lived with Muskan and Neelamma as well. Problem is not join or nuclear but the ppl in the family. Even if Ak lived with AbM someplace else (before he was transformed into AbN), she would have still faced problem because of controlling and overbearing nature of the latter.

There is nothing wrong in living alone in a nuclear family setup or having your own pad.

What I want to say is why writers never fixed Akshara's character.

When Akshara and Aarohi were teenagers Sirat instilled the belief that Akshu is always right. No one corrected Madame Goenka.

Makers initially projected Aarohi in a bad light when she said what she said.

No one really held Aarohi in high regard, they expected her to be the black sheep types. Writers went from whitewashing to total redemption.

Unfortunately at 52-53 Akshara isn't thinking straight after meeting Manish Goenka.

Did she inform Birla's about Abhimanyu and Abhir's demise.

Muskaan also has the right to know!!

Abhira should be aware about her brother.

A writer just needs to go thru the script or screenplay for rectifying mistakes or loopholes.

My question it wasn't done neither by Garima nor Zama Habib

Originally posted by: Manny_123

There is one thing that every individual always forgets which is the regret and despair that an individual feels if the past that (s)he looks back in our life during old age/any stage is overwhelmed with bad memories.

Sure nuclear family is convenient and you can live as per your terms and philosophy. But if you have to do that by breaking your other relationships you cannot really be happy in its true sense with the family no matter what because deep-rooted relationships are bounded by memories, attachment and emotions. It is a different story if you can stay without feeling sorrowful. But for most, at any point of their life, they will reminisce them and will regret if they are broken relationship.

Whose families are perfectly balance? No one's. But still people always do their best to maintain the relationships and stay with their families. Old Ak maintained every relationship and it is true Naira was shown as person being at disadvataged in her sasural. But in the end, she was able to amend her relationship with her sasural. But Ak tho couldn't maintain any of her relationships and she always regretted it. When she is gonna die also I do not think she can die peacefully ideally. She is leaving without amending her broken relationship with her beloved ones. Such a tragic character :/.

Well said! Whose family is perfectly balanced! If I remember OG Akshara’s season, she was blamed by bhabhimaa, her husband supported her, they lead their life in Cape Town for few years lekin iska matlab yeh bilkul nahi tha that Akshara Udaipur mai kisi ke bhi touch mai nahi thi yah fir naira naksh ko idea he nahi tha ki unki Udaipur mai kitni badi family hai. Uss zamane mai unko video call karte dikhaya tha Kyunki OG akshara ne apni toote rishto ka asar apne baccho par nahi hone diya tha.
Dusti taraf naira ko dekh lo , kairav ko yeh tak pata lagane diya ki Udaipur mai uss bacche ke kitne rishte hai, just because uske husband ne uske character par doubt kiya tha so uska sidha asar baccha and bacche ke relations par bhi woh ke ayi. Same applies to Jr. Akshara.
Last paragraph is damn true, yeh kaisi death hai ki apke bacche ke allawa apko ek bhi rishta nasib nahi hua! Such a tragic character but she deserves this.
Audience shayad sirf maa beti ko death bed par sath dekh kar khushi mana sakti hai ki chalo beti he hai uske paas lekin akshara character ko baar baar goenkas ko yaad karte hue dikhaya gaya hai .
Akshara ko barso pehle nila amma and muskaaan ka rishta bhi neighbours like family type tha. Mere bhi neighbours are like family hai lekin apne rishto ke sath ek ghar mai rehna is not their cup of tea.