Teri Meri Doriyaann Episode Discussion Thread - 36 - Page 81

Sahiba did nothing for Him instead she did many kaands bring troubles to him still He’s not ready to divorce her or leave her . If he wants doormat wife why he wasting his time on this Arrogant women he can divorce her now Darji also ready to accept divorce.

Seems Sahiba changed now not expecting yes madam husband & realising what fault she did but people want Angad become yes mam husband 😏

Originally posted by: Jarama

😂 I’m one of those people! Haha
I liked this cute nok jhok. I think because we’ve had months of kailesh it was a light episode. It was a different side of sahiba which was cute I thought.

I did not mind it perse. Good to see Sahiba not getting blamed or crying for a change. But it wasn't logical and the timing of this kind of nok jhok after a heartfelt confession which has been completely forgotten and when theres a Sunny Sood kaand which is not just a simple MU but going overboard to the point of goons attacking them etc - thats the issue.

If he's gonna be picking up a valuable jewel, does he not need security anyway. With everything going on, would they not wanna file a police complaint. Its not normal to be attacked by goons mistaking you for someone else.

And they are finally getting alone time to discuss their marriage away from meddlesome family and he seems to have completely sidestepped that aspect despite Sahinas apologies and confession. He went to sleep so quickly even though he hasnt had to go to pick up diamond till 1 in the afternoon (Angar mentiond the time of his appointment for diamond delivery in his dialogue)! they include dialogues like that which actually demonstrates the ridiculousness of them not addressing important things. Confession hua from Sahiba, they got attacked, they came back to hotel and Angad managed to sleep before Sahiba could get the dishes cleared by hotel staff. And its not even because he has an early morning appointment. Agle din aaram seh 1pm ko pahunchna hai so why no continuation of a more meaningful conversation instead of irrelevant nok jhok.

Originally posted by: hellodona

Yes. Like Sahiba was shown to clearly regret ignoring his words about Rumi. Like the one time she did not trust him for a valid reason she is doing everything to appease to him.

But I can bet his family will blame her for any mess with the diamond and he will side with them or stay mute. But he will never accept he should have heed her warnings, be it regarding Seerat or anything in the world. And it is all on her, because her standards are in gutter. All her life she was mental slave to Seerat and now Angad and his family because she can't foster healthy relationships, she truly gets attached to Seerat Angad category people.

I really want writers to knock some senses into sahiba and she throw all these toxic people out of her life

Originally posted by: hellodona

If you are talking about jail track and not signing divorce papers, we are grasping at straws here. That is not trust.

He saw her punch a mirror and hands bleeding and his only worry was she would get him jailed, he had already blamed her for his client misbehaving with his bhabi and made her say sorry for his bhabis shirt change, he stood enjoying the show when Seerat was about to slap her and a police had to intervene, he only cared after she told him attempting marital rape was his way of giving himself pain and then bailed out his Daarji.

Then he showed 0 regrets for his ill treatment, just said he will never divorce her once truth was out. And this was after 50 other trust tests he had taken while giving free jimmedaris to his bhabi. Anyways Veer supported her then so Angad supporting when no one else did is also not true, what he did was give her all possible trauma, make her bail out his Daarji and find the actual culprit and then take all credit.

Tbh, Angad talking about trust is sooo funny, bcoz he never trusted sahiba without proof. And I'm so disappointed that sahiba took all blame on herself. Seerat is still treated better than sahiba in that house

She feels an obligation to nibhao relationships no matter what. She can't choose her biological family and she has been conditioned to love and provide for them even if they are despicable to her- so she never talked back to Santosh, Seerat or Ajeet. What her parents, her sisters want- she is the type to accommodate them all. She can compromise for their happiness because thats been drilled into her as the good , right thing to do. Marriage is another relationship to nibhao at all costs. So she will be respectful to manbeer, Jasleen, daarji bebe etc etc despite them being nasty to her. Never hold grudges. She couldn't stand for infidelity and left the house but she could never initiate divorce because that is too tough to do for a person like her. But now that theres no actual proper infidelity -in the most crass sense of the word- then she will again do everything to make her marriage work by bending over backwards. She does not even recognize the toxicity , emotional abuse meted out to her by Mongas and now Brars. If she doesn't recognize it then why would she disapprove of it. Thankfully she did not approve of her losing her agency to study and work but she would never say anything rude or break ties with family to pursue her aspirations. She'd just keep trying to convince them especially of how she will balance her bahu, biwi duties with everything else. It worked out for her that Angad agreed with her studying because he wants his wife to at least be a graduate and Angad ke aage kisi ki nahi chalti as raja beta of house. If he had not approved, I dunno if she'd have actually broken the marriage and left. Her own family wouldn't support it. So its hard to see her going away alone to sustain herself. She'd just make them (the ghar ke badein and Angad) grudgingly give her some leeway. Part time work, ghar seh work etc etc. So she would find a compromise. She is not the type to be like my way or highway if theres a disagreement with family members.

She has no real friends circle, financial independence or awareness of anything outside Ludhiana. She has lived a lower middle class life and so can't really expect her to be a rebel.

Despite it all she's reasonably street smart, has a good head on her shoulders and can form opinions on things in a reasonable way. Except no one cares about her or her opinions :(

Sahiba Family most toxic one greedy mother who had no respect her husband selfish creepy elder sister Gunda younger sister a spineless father who can’t go against his greedy when she tried to spoil his daughter life . She escaped from them she should thankful to Darji otherwise she continued her life as her mother & sister doormat naukrani.

In Brar mansion she behaved like my way is high way . No one escaped from her sharp tongue except her jin chak like veer & Gurleen . Get chance to achieve her dream too .

But Angad life becomes miserable with her entry that’s another story.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

She feels an obligation to nibhao relationships no matter what. She can't choose her biological family and she has been conditioned to love and provide for them even if they are despicable to her- so she never talked back to Santosh, Seerat or Ajeet. What her parents, her sisters want- she is the type to accommodate them all. She can compromise for their happiness because thats been drilled into her as the good , right thing to do. Marriage is another relationship to nibhao at all costs. So she will be respectful to manbeer, Jasleen, daarji bebe etc etc despite them being nasty to her. Never hold grudges. She couldn't stand for infidelity and left the house but she could never initiate divorce because that is too tough to do for a person like her. But now that theres no actual proper infidelity -in the most crass sense of the word- then she will again do everything to make her marriage work by bending over backwards. She does not even recognize the toxicity , emotional abuse meted out to her by Mongas and now Brars. If she doesn't recognize it then why would she disapprove of it. Thankfully she did not approve of her losing her agency to study and work but she would never say anything rude or break ties with family to pursue her aspirations. She'd just keep trying to convince them especially of how she will balance her bahu, biwi duties with everything else. It worked out for her that Angad agreed with her studying because he wants his wife to at least be a graduate and Angad ke aage kisi ki nahi chalti as raja beta of house. If he had not approved, I dunno if she'd have actually broken the marriage and left. Her own family wouldn't support it. So its hard to see her going away alone to sustain herself. She'd just make them (the ghar ke badein and Angad) grudgingly give her some leeway. Part time work, ghar seh work etc etc. So she would find a compromise. She is not the type to be like my way or highway if theres a disagreement with family members.

She has no real friends circle, financial independence or awareness of anything outside Ludhiana. She has lived a lower middle class life and so can't really expect her to be a rebel.

Despite it all she's reasonably street smart, has a good head on her shoulders and can form opinions on things in a reasonable way. Except no one cares about her or her opinions :(

She had so much potential in the beginning of show. She would have made something better out of her life if not married to brars. This house only has insults n toxicity for her. I understand ur point that her biological family conditioned her but one good thing there was that they recognized her effort n valued it (seerat was exception). But brars will not care for sahiba not matter what she does for them. Then also they will blame ki sahiba ki galti hai...

And this is soooo off putting about the show.... ITV mein drama toh hamesha hota tha but itna negativity maine kisi aur show mein nahi dekhi... No matter what is the track, All blames end up on sahiba. Why?

Why everything has to end on sahiba being wrong?

Why viewers have to end up feeling unfair, negative after watching each time.

Atleast few other shows are better in this aspect.

And not to mention, wasting one of the best onscreen couple in a longggggg time. My opinion pls.

After sujal kashish, this couple brought me back to ITV. but PH, storyline is sh*t....

They did the same crap with a good jodi in the previous show also. Its unfortunate that they lack creativity and good story telling skills

Originally posted by: Pinecone

They did the same crap with a good jodi in the previous show also. Its unfortunate that they lack creativity and good story telling skills

I didn't like jodi in previous show. Just my opinion..

However, there r so many ways they can separate lead couple without being toxic or putting all blames on FL... Ekta excelled this art with shows like kasauti n kahin toh hogi.... Viewers were hooked on to the show for leads even after hundreds n hundreds of episodes, bcoz of organic build up n less toxicity.. Love triangles existed without cringe... That's why they ended up as iconic couples of all times....

This show is about couple story. Not like Anupama to show Sahiba journey & women empowerment. Even Anupama they forget that😂😂even Sahiba marry other man Angad married other women story will around them only.