If Anupama was an educated and mature women

Ager anupama ek decent educated women hoti toh woh pehele hi royal tamashah family kah emotional torture and abuse koh pehele samaj leti Aur mister shah koh ivorce de deti .

I'm sure Anupamaa will made Kapadia family her priority she would lead happy life and probably OG anuj kapadia bhi kahi lost nahi hota.

Aur phir humlog torture se Bach jaate

I do not think anupama being educated or uneducated makes any diff

It depends on your parents, classmates, friends, relatives and surrounding your character and your willingness to change

anupama had progressive ppl like samar, rakhi dave, kinjal, anuj, malvika, devika, GK kaka, kanta ma, bhavesh, dolly, jignesh, ankush, sara, nandini as inspiration

But she choose to become baa, bapuji, vanraj, pakhi and toshu by nature that was her choice

Shes just not willing to change or become progressive

Instead she wants to force anuj, CA, Malathi, ankush, kinjal, malvika, Gk kaka to become like her and shahs

Anuj has already become like toshu and pakhi misbehaving with mother and brother and bhabhi and illtreating CA like vanraj did to samar

and doing bhajan of anupama like anupama does bajan of mr shah and baa

I doubt even if anupama was BSc or BE her character would be so diff from now

I mean you go to places like Kerala, Mangalore, north east more women matriarchal society's even 4th pass grand ma is more progressive than anupama or kinjal there because thats how their society and upbringing is like that

education has nothing much to do with behaviour

How did an uneducated woman go sit in all white bus during martin luther agitation for black rights did she have much education

Yes education increaes ability to thnk but not in everyone

With USA education how does anuj behave like uneducated bonded labourer of 18th century to landlord anupama

I do not think education can change basic character of human much

Also we must think why everyone who supported anupama to come out of abuse is no longer with her except anuj?

Because after taking samar, devika, kinjal, nandini, anuj, malvika, GK kaka help to come up in life she abandoned them all except anuj shes there for his money not for him

When you are not loyal to ppl who helped you in touch times and went against shahs for your sake who will support or like you?

You appear as shakuni or pakandi person

Because there you were doing drama i am abused shahs abuse me baa bause me vanraj abuse me my kids abuse me i am bechari in first 200 episodes when all helped you come out of that abuse relationship and house you acted as if you never were abused by vanraj baa and your kids and support them against ppl who helped give you better and come out of abuse

actually anupama is more cunning than baa, bapuji, vanraj, toshu and pakhi or even barkha and adhik and rakhi