Anupamaa 07th Nov 2023 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread - Page 3

Originally posted by: Supree2022

Even I noticed that. Anuj and CA were at the bottomof her prayer list

Always just after marrage first day she had prayed same way last anuj

and no malvika, Gk kaka and now no MD

only Baa, bapuji, Mr shah, kavya, toshu, kinjal, samar, pakhi

Originally posted by: AAMP

According to Maa, there should be only 1 pooja thali in a house.. but there can be 2 wives living in a house.. Ex and present wives.. that’s ok right? 🙄

Never heard such rules

I have never heard only 1 puja plate , we buy many plates from diff places and pray in them

If you get late to puja bec of night shifts(you get up late) will you not pray to God later or in evening after you come home from work

Anyone can do puja or pray anytime

even in relatives home no one will say do not do your own puja,

some elderly ladies will have diff times and ways of praying we cannot stop them because its our home

when we have exams we do puja before exam after exam just bef result comes and the main house wife(grand mom or mom or aunty) will not stop anyone from doing puja even in their own ways or plates its their devotion

Sad part is AK choosing to be attached to them bcz of Anu, will make him also suffer Karma of other'.That’s the biggest tragedy - seeing AK suffering due to the karma of others. Poor guy is always collateral damage

Originally posted by: Historia

Sad part is AK choosing to be attached to them bcz of Anu, will make him also suffer Karma of other'.That’s the biggest tragedy - seeing AK suffering due to the karma of others. Poor guy is always collateral damage

If you are in comapny of drunkards always ppl think you are also drunkard

Same way if you are in companyof bad ppl you will also be considered bad only by world

Anuj may not know but his neighbours friends relatives will observe all this and think hes also cheap and bad like Shahs in long term

Like viewers already call him puppy simp etc bec of anupamas company

Before he married no one said all this

Pooja mein 2 ghee ka diya jalta hua nahi nahi Hona chahiye

Jub anupama ek ghee ka diya jala to maalti ko alag se ghee ka diya doosre bartan mein jalane ki kya jaroorat thi

Just because anupama is baa bhakt that does not mean koi khuch bhi karega wohi sahi Hoga

Pooja mein ek hi thali ek hi ghee ka diya uss hota hai

Yes aap usi same thalli phir se phool Akshat roli Chandan mein rakh sakte ho but doosri thalli mein nahi

Do thalli se se goddess laxmi Ruth jaati hain

Kal ko malt devi alag se Ghar mein. se ek aur mandir Bana le to aisa thodi hi hota hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Pooja mein 2 ghee ka diya jalta hua nahi nahi Hona chahiye

Jub anupama ek ghee ka diya jala to maalti ko alag se ghee ka diya doosre bartan mein jalane ki kya jaroorat thi

Just because anupama is baa bhakt that does not mean koi khuch bhi karega wohi sahi Hoga

Pooja mein ek hi thali ek hi ghee ka diya uss hota hai

Yes aap usi same thalli phir se phool Akshat roli Chandan mein rakh sakte ho but doosri thalli mein nahi

Do thalli se se goddess laxmi Ruth jaati hain

Kal ko malt devi alag se Ghar mein. se ek aur mandir Bana le to aisa thodi hi hota hai

Didi 2 -2 aaadmi ke saath Pooja kar sakti hai, jhoola jhool sakti hai. .par 2 diye nahi jal sakte, yeh kya baat hoti hai.matlab sab didi ko dekho ki didi Pooja karegi ya nahi karegi .nahi karengi toh hum kar sakte hai..nahi toh hum sirf didi ke peeche ghanta bajayenge

Yeh bhagwaan ne rules banaye hai ki 1 diya jalao.

Yes there is rule Aarti ya Pooja mein koi bhi cheej double nahi honi chahiye like do. Aarti ka diya ya do thalli mein Chandan roli

Aapko usi diya se pooja karni hai jo pehle se already jal raha hai

Aap ek pooja ke Saman ko alag thalli mein repeat nahi kar sakte .

Maan lijiye Aap shodoupchaar se Pooja kar Rahe ho aur Sara Saman ek thalli nahi aa raha to Doosri thalli use ho sakte ho

But Saman Doosri thalli mein repeat nahi Hona chahiye

Log etni simple baat nahi samjh paa rahe ki ITV par ek FL ko chodkar dusri koi aurat achhi nahi ho sakti. Women to women fight, unka aapas me competition, kitchens/Pooja politics yahi sab to dikhate hain. Aur real life me kai women aisa karti bhi hain to unhe yahi sab content chahiye. Fir isse ye sab promote hota hai.

Baki Anupama as a character to ek joke hai yaar! Har cheez uska do din ka khel hota hai. Do din college gai, pata nahi degree mili ya nahi mili. Do din dance academy chalai par badhiya Dancer aur Entrepreneur kahlane lagi. Isse jyada mehnat aur dedication to wo Vanraj ke cafe ko chalane me dikhati thi. CA ko ghar lai lekin ek do din uske saath 90s ka gaana gane ke alava wo us par jara bhi dhyan nahi deti. Choti bacchi se kai guna jyada focus uska Apne good for nothing "Toshu" par hota hai.

Business bhi pata nahi kaise chala rahi? Aadmi bahut talented/educated bhi ho to bhi bahut saal Ghar me baithne ke baad sab bhul bhaal jata hai, usko training ki jarurat padti hai. "Positive thinking" (darasal toxic aur unreal thinking) aur "Kanha ji dhyan rakh Jo" ke naam par Anupama kisi cheez me koi mehnat nahi karti. "Kanha ji" etne meharbaan hain ki use 26 saal tak emotionally torcher hone se nahi bacha sake, lekin ab use Bina mehnat aur talent ke promote kar rhe!

Baki Anupama dusri women ko neecha dikhane ke alava karti kya hai? Usko sabse jyada apni "Baa" pyari hai, aur is serial me Baa se jyada Dusht/evil koi nahi hai. Dusri women ek choti si galti bhi kare to wo "paap", "Baa" ko "paapin" hone ke bavjud sari choot hai. Wo ek episode me thik bankar baki saare repeated Kaand chupa leti hai.

Baki to think that.. Baa ka role karne wali actress ki umra Anupama ke hi barabar hai. Kitna bhi pretend Karo lekin 49 saal ki aurat ko aap 85 saal ka kaise Maan sakte ho. At least MD looks the part!

Waise bhi ye Anupama ki galti hai ki wo MD ko ghar me rahne de rahi. Legally wo Anuj ko maa hai, Old hai, kisi ki umra bhar ki legacy to khatm nahi hoti. Wo ek acchi maa nahi ban paai to use Ghar me rakhne (Mufti ki naukrani) ka kya matlab! MD ne dil se ijjat paane layak kaam nahi Kiya hai, to forcefully rishta jodna bhi nahi chahiye. Par wo ek sachhi artist thi, Anupama usko uska Dance Academy dilwakar Shishya ka farj nibha sakti thi. Anuj ko bhi MD ko alag FLAT leker de Dena chahiye tha. Isse jyada uska MD ke liye kuch karne ka matlab nahi. Isse Anuj bhi khush, MD bhi khush. Emotional rishta "assume" krne se Banta nahi.

Waise bhi is show ke jariye DKP Wale hame ye batana chahte Hain ko ek aurat chahe jitni Kameeni, violent, chor type ho lekin agar wo "beta/beta/beta" karti hai, wo achhi/bhali sanskari aurat hai, jise Anupama ka 40 panno ka bhashan bacha sakta hai. Lekin agar koi women career-oriented hai, self-respecting hai, to wo ek galti karke bhi umar bhar dukh sahne ke liye bani hai kyonki ye uska sabse bada paap hai.

Frankly... MD ke character ko "true" bhi maane to keval Anuj ko haq hai ki Wo MD ko judge kare, dusre kisi ko nahi.

Also, I love Isha Bhosle's character in Ghum hai kisi ke pyar mein (season 2). I would love to compare her to Anupama. We as a woman need Isha Bhonsales on TV, not some Anupama who is nothing but Sanskari Cinderella!

I don't watch Ghum for any other character. Mujhe hairani hai ki log "Isha Bhosle" ke character par baat nahi kar rhe, jabki kya Solid aur positive character hai! Wo realistic hai aur uske ideals bhi achhe hain. Unlike Anupamaa.. she walked out from toxic family and had to sacrifice/suffer a lot for her principals. And she has to grieve for it. She is still suffering and that's so understandable but her head is high because she never let her morals to be compromised. Unlike Anupamaa, she worked hard for her career and she is actually helping other women in her life. She doesn't put down other women to feel superior. Anupama is often very condescending to other women.

Isha call out her son's problematic behaviour. Wo Anupamaa ki tarah melodrama wala "call out" nahi, jahan actual me koi saja nahi milni kisi ko. Bas 2 episode ka rona, bas! Ant me to domestic violence Tak ko Anupama walo ne normalise kar diya! Aur Anupama aur Vanraj, dono etne Sanskari aur achhe hain ki unke bachhe choti moti nahi bhaari galtiyan karte rahte hain! Anupama ko great aur Vanraj ko bechara dikhane ke liye unke baccho ke character ko butcher kiya jata hai.

Isha ke bete Ishan ka apna complex character hai, toxic upbringing milne ke bavjud he is thoughtful and emotional. Aur Isha bahut bhari mistake ka intezar nahi karti, wo turant hi call out karti hai. Anupama hoti to "Savi" ko kahti ki tum apni Badi Aji (Bhawani) ko manano, aur fir tab kuch karo. Wo use "Sanskar" aur "bado ke samman" ka lecture deti aur katai nahi dekhti ki in sabme Savi ki life kharab ho rhi. Just like Anupama... Uske Toshu aur Sweety dono koi kaam nahi karte. Toshu so called hardworking parents ka beta hai, par use kaam me interest nahi hai. Sweety ko to uske Buddy ne sab kuch offer kar diya, par bahan ko pahle kam umra me "byaah" ka bhoot chada tha aur ab "bachhe" ka!

Anupamaa ke "values" to saaf uske baccho me dikh hi rahe! Aur wo to hamesha apne baccho ko "blame" karti hai, Baghbaan mode me chali jati hai. Vanraj aur Anupamaa koi responsibility assume nahi karte ki aakhir aisi kya parvarish ki unhone apne baccho ki unke bachhe etne battamij aur nikamme kaise ho gye!

Vanraj ka to chalo clear hai ki usne Anupama ko torcher krne me waqt bita diya. Par I think, Anupama mohalle ki women ko gyaan dene me etni busy thi ki usne apne baccho ko waqt par sahi gyaan nahi diya!

Aur kaha to so called "women empowerment" ka daava karta hai ye Serial! Is show me women ka career negative light me hi dikhaate hain. Waise to ITV par koi show achha nahi, par I think Anupama is worst show among all. Kyonki baaki etne pretences nahi karte.

Ghkkm s1 was bad but the 2 nd one got better. You are literally right about Isha's character. She is billion times better than Anupama in every aspect. Be it looks, clothes, accent, personality everything. I believe this actress must have been hired for Anupamas role. She actually brilliant. I saw her in another SP show as Nakul Mehtas mom and there she was awesome too.