Originally posted by: Mehersudha
that tadap and yearning is there from ak. See we can't understand ak any day as she hides her feelings. All others are saying as ak loves nav and moved on.Did ak say it. Once in shadi of kv she said and its echoed dialogue. Husband is not soul mate. Even if soul mates are idhar udhar like abhis dialogues, , their love is holding them. In love we need to submit to that person and soul completely which abhira ate doing. Ak being preg with nav kid didnt change anything. Ak dance and cringe wont let her speak out anything. Learning from wher they went wrong is needed. Ak learnt it after seeing abji innocent proof and trusted him. People cant get her raslisation. With her kid being there she is not seen as og ak. But all oye hoye talks mind talks leaning for each other is the soul pull not external physical aspects given to abhira. Shadi is not needed for them as the souls are imbibed in each other. Ms kala dhaga sindoor phere all are shown as stopping points except varmala. This is for janm janm bandhan submitted to each others souls. Manju destroyed ar and ak life from start with her obsession on abhi. In this case manju is simply thinking if physical pleasure of abhi thru ak which i see it as normal mil. Being parents physical things play a secondary part as they are tied woth responsibility of holding and sharing things of kids. This happiness makes them united together and family is made that way.
If we see manjus past she is not accepted as wife by harsh properly but she was after him for yrs. This is like ar obsession on abhi. But it didnt work. Holding abhi mata didnt leave harsh. She tried to pull harsh to her side as mom but she failed as wife and harsh is failed pati and father. Mata didnt give him access nor harsh prove as gopd father though his love for abhi is there. They failed as hubby wife and parents which affected abhi badly. Neil is extra added kid without any identity there except food and shelter. For everything maa wont work in families. They threw harsh as father and hubby . Ak held manju to take that decision. Manju forgot it . Manju always took her own decisions didn't let harsh informed as parent or hubby and kept him aside. But her portrayal was she is after harsh for decisions. This i am talking about the episodes given from start. Kids see whats shown to them any day. If harsh is proved as good parent , abhi could have loved him as father . Ex ak didnt come in between abhi abhir from day1 they made their own bond. Kid is not told truth or false narrative of abhi any day as she has no guts to tell anything about her love story to kid where she failed as wife and bahu holding birlas and abhi.
If we see from nav death time abhi took his own place in abhi abd ak life held them with love. There are no expectations from that side to him and he just gave his love in his way. Ak allowed him near and in a way her redemption of what she cant do before she has done to abhi doctor profesion or abhis trauma for mata . More than words scenes are rolled in actions. Accepting mata and birlas back .whats done on w day or bus day cant be got back. When they got an opportunity they are trying to stand for each other. Matas way of love is different which normal people see it and want. Abhira love is different. Esp abhis love on ak standing for her when needed for her. Ak love which none can get or understand as they all see it as using for her motto.
Thanks Meher for bful writeups❤. We know ak is the worst written character coz we never had her pov bt i always feel her luv is there for ab. After first leap n wd her trust had gone. Ab gave that trust back now she is trying to rectify her mistakes bt they changed her character so much that we r nt feeling anything. Uper se in promo they said pyar ki nishani. How can people accept this pyar for both. No one understand ak. Makers ruined everything badly. Bt still we learn from her. Live in present. Don't think abt past n future. If ab dies she will move on for her kids. If her daughter will say mom u should settle with someone may be we get one more acha aadmi. Dkp can do anything like Anupma. Bt still I want to see them as happy family which we don't get. I truly want to see abhi's happiness. Dkp go to hell.
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