26 Oct 2023 - Synopsis hub & other discussion - Page 8

Originally posted by: Liyo

What's your view on the whole cake scene

Whatever happy scenes comes with abhir ruhi I feel it as their memories aur kuch nehi.

Originally posted by: rajava5

Nav's photo travels with the cameraman, no scene without his photo in the background either zoomed in or zoomed out

They want us to remember him in every episode..don't worry DKP..I can NEVER forget him...the sheer torture

Originally posted by: Liyo

Of course you should have faith in this team ....didn't you see the post under the new cast photo? It's their to do list:

...start from scratch

..ground zero(don't understand that one..maybe the trp level they're aiming for?)

...positive vibes

..etc.. etc..

I totally believe him..I am sure in gen 4..there will be 'positive' vibes and I am sure everyone with be 'amazed'

Originally posted by: Emeralues

Beautifully written..❤️❤️❤️ Love just happens. You don't meticulously plan for it.

Well said..There is no switch for love to go on and off...

Originally posted by: aardhan

I edited my post a little bit. The post I wrote was solely looking at MJ’s share of mistakes and how it affected Abhira’s relationship, almost from the beginning of their story. And Ab has always forgiven her but the intensity of her kaands have only grown to the point where she openly conspired this time. Until now, everything she did was unintentional and out of love.

I will never negate Ak’s mistakes. To me she doesn’t know what true love is. She never valued Ab, his unconditional love, his emotions for her, his large heart or his unwavering loyalty to her. That’s why she took his words uttered in extreme anguish at face value and decided she wanted the worst kind of revenge.

Luckily for her she found an equally shallow and selfish man in Nav to help her. Neither of them had any ounce of guilt for the anguish and suffering they put Ab thru. I honestly believe that’s why Nav died when he did, right when Ab had sacrificed even his son and that guy didn’t even feel bad or shameful. Being an orphan he happily orphaned a father.

8 months of nonsense from Ak cannot be negated. She is not worthy of AB’s love but again he is loyal to everyone he considers his own.9 years back the only one who truly fell in love was him. She was infactuaed. Hence it was always easy for her to sacrifice Ab for one or the other reason.

Isn’t it ironic that this time she is fighting for their marriage, and claims she does not love him. When she used to, she did not even lift a finger to contribute to their relationship.

@bold..thank you for putting this in words...I remember Swarna saying to Birlas regarding Muskan cursing Abhira in front of Manjari in temple..and Swarna asking her pain of losing her neighbour is coming out in form of anger...WD pe everyone just painted Abhi as abuser and what not..his sorrow was just ignored..no one gave him any benefit of doubt at all..yes he went too far in divorce part..but each and every word he said was true..he asked all the right questions and everyone took what he said at face value..if Abhi gave her divorce..did Akshara fight for their marriage..no she didn't..she took one minute to sign those papers..she took one phone call without knowing context to decide Abhi will never be father...his anger had extreme pain of three deaths behind..3 kids died that day as Neil was his kid...I will forever be salty about shifting narrative of Abhira relationship as grahan and umarkaid due to one incident of anger whose base was extremely grief

Originally posted by: ABFanAccount

I 💯 agree AK was is and will forever be superficial and doesn't understand or deserve love. It holds good for the kid(s) as wel. Her idea of family is damaged and that's what she is shoving down at Abhi too and he seems to be shown content with it somehow.

People who make someone else center of their world are most likely to not have expectations except for them be considered/ prioritised to certain extent and they get happy with very minimal actions as well. That's exactly who Abhi was. Now that he is in the last stage and counting days (after deciding on handing over custody) his contention comes from literally anything.

It's just sad what they did with the character, giving no happiness. In real life too these are the kinda people who suffer the most because their love is pure. Utkarsh recently wrote the core traits of Abhi and Akshu on X if you've not already come across, must read. What he described for both just seem to be embedded in Abhi 🙂 Manju's love for Abhi I will never question unlike I do for AK for anyone. She is a classic example of what I want for my kid is what the right choice is. Most mothers honestly are like this because we are very dependent on them and their protective instinct. Does a mother save up her share of cake so her kid can have the extra bite - yes she does ; would she mind sharing that with another friend of yours , she wouldn't as long as she knows that makes you happy , if she saw the friend was being scheming she'd never want to give that piece of cake to you. That's what she's doing..it's just not age appropriate and not a thing.

Poetic justice will be that AK will loose her purpose of fight and will be left alone to delve in very soon that her Pati Jee shoved her into

With no rescue whatsoever.

I'd have wanted an entirely different story for my Abhi and Akshu, this is not done. 🙂💔

I do want to say that acc to what Utkarsh wrote of their core traits, that is how they started out. Abhi always stood up for what's right and Ak was actually that sweet and empathetic where she didn't want to say mean things to her way.

But after the leap they actually flipped the characters. Abhi became spineless to some extent exactly what Utkarsh didn't want. And Ak became mean and vile showing that being sweet just doesn't work - another thing he didn't want. So it honestly seems like post leap was some kind of revenge on the OG writers.

Originally posted by: Jyotsna09

This is what I want from you🥰 meher..perfect explanation..

That means only abhi exits ,not abhir..

But abhi isn't reciprocating as much as Ak , she's only desperate to get him for her baby..

These days they haven't shown abhi and abhir interactions much,even abhir is like her mumma,not remembering his didda, forget what all irrelevant as per convenience...

If we see manjus past she is not accepted as wife by harsh properly but she was after him for yrs. This is like ar obsession on abhi. But it didnt work. Holding abhi mata didnt leave harsh. She tried to pull harsh to her side as mom but she failed as wife and harsh is failed pati and father. Mata didnt give him access nor harsh prove as gopd father though his love for abhi is there. They failed as hubby wife and parents which affected abhi badly. Neil is extra added kid without any identity there except food and shelter. For everything maa wont work in families. They threw harsh as father and hubby . Ak held manju to take that decision. Manju forgot it . Manju always took her own decisions didn't let harsh informed as parent or hubby and kept him aside. But her portrayal was she is after harsh for decisions. This i am talking about the episodes given from start. Kids see whats shown to them any day. If harsh is proved as good parent , abhi could have loved him as father . Ex ak didnt come in between abhi abhir from day1 they made their own bond. Kid is not told truth or false narrative of abhi any day as she has no guts to tell anything about her love story to kid where she failed as wife and bahu holding birlas and abhi.

If we see from nav death time abhi took his own place in abhi abd ak life held them with love. There are no expectations from that side to him and he just gave his love in his way. Ak allowed him near and in a way her redemption of what she cant do before she has done to abhi doctor profesion or abhis trauma for mata . More than words scenes are rolled in actions. Accepting mata and birlas back .whats done on w day or bus day cant be got back. When they got an opportunity they are trying to stand for each other. Matas way of love is different which normal people see it and want. Abhira love is different. Esp abhis love on ak standing for her when needed for her. Ak love which none can get or understand as they all see it as using for her motto.

Originally posted by: Emeralues

The thing with MJ is she admitted to doing all her mistakes. She agreed that Abhi's life turned out to be like this due to the unreasonable demands she made on his love and on her expectations of him. Abhi did all these mistakes because he feared for MJ and was forced to choose her. She also admitted and apologized to Arohi for suspending her for so long.

Unfortunately for the first time she is making a reasonable request and not getting it from Abhi.

I don't think so. See MJ makes the same mistake over and over again. She goes too far in anything she wants to happen. Everytime her thoughts behind something are not entirely wrong. But the way she imposes it is. And that is the crux of the current issue acc to me.

Even before MJ's issues were always valid with Ak in terms of not loving Abhi or not being a good wife and stuff. But after the leap she became much much worse. She became an active person rather than a passive person basically in the absence of the OG active person Harsh Birla. They made her fill that vacuum.

First for Abrogi, her thoughts were not wrong, but her implementing it with so much force was. If Abhi and Arohi are saying no she should drop it. Then custody and stuff same thing. If Abhi is working out some form of co-parenting with the Kasauli ppls why does she have to throw a wrench into it? Asking Nav to give up Ak was wrong, even though her reasons were right. It went too far. Same during the custody, her reasons for not allowing Ak were right, but her enforcing the order was still wrong. She again went too far and it lead to tragedy.

Now again she is going too far. She should have accepted things when Abhi moved out. In Neil's case, she didn't like Arohi and Ak had shown everyone that Arohi was marrying for money/status. But still Manjari accepted her back for Neil. Here also she needed to drop her issues and most importantly not go so far as to put her own son in prison in front of her grandson.

Point is she goes too far always. And now the water is over Abhi's head.

Originally posted by: Ria23

I am not happy with leap

I want one more husband for alshara

Since abhinav bailed out

With Abhimanyu its not happening

There is a chance for one more

So why

One more daughter

And dkp can repeat the same thing as akshara-arohi

Well I agree humari Akshu akele kaise manage karegi.

Jab Abhir k time nahi ho payaa, Navri k time bhi urgency toh hai shaadi ki why stop if Abhi dies.

What will change ?

Itni achi hai, mahan hai plus mahan aatma k saath rahi thi toh maha mahan hai koi ladka kyun nahi barbadi I mean Shaadi with Akshu krna chahega. She is toh Tigerni lawyer bhi. I demand New lawyer papa for Navri if Abhi dies 🌝

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I don't think so. See MJ makes the same mistake over and over again. She goes too far in anything she wants to happen. Everytime her thoughts behind something are not entirely wrong. But the way she imposes it is. And that is the crux of the current issue acc to me.

Even before MJ's issues were always valid with Ak in terms of not loving Abhi or not being a good wife and stuff. But after the leap she became much much worse. She became an active person rather than a passive person basically in the absence of the OG active person Harsh Birla. They made her fill that vacuum.

First for Abrogi, her thoughts were not wrong, but her implementing it with so much force was. If Abhi and Arohi are saying no she should drop it. Then custody and stuff same thing. If Abhi is working out some form of co-parenting with the Kasauli ppls why does she have to throw a wrench into it? Asking Nav to give up Ak was wrong, even though her reasons were right. It went too far. Same during the custody, her reasons for not allowing Ak were right, but her enforcing the order was still wrong. She again went too far and it lead to tragedy.

Now again she is going too far. She should have accepted things when Abhi moved out. In Neil's case, she didn't like Arohi and Ak had shown everyone that Arohi was marrying for money/status. But still Manjari accepted her back for Neil. Here also she needed to drop her issues and most importantly not go so far as to put her own son in prison in front of her grandson.

Point is she goes too far always. And now the water is over Abhi's head.

This is so true well written meri maan ki baat likh di apne about mj she had interfered so much in their life.