Secondly, I think this is Shilpa's own personal decision, so we should respect her and her privacy rather than bashing her for being selfish. Are we not being selfish too, by wanting her just because we like her? I love her too, I don't want her to leave... but that doesn't mean I become selfish and forget she too has feelings and must have left for a good reason.
Oh and please could you discuss this in the pinned thread. š³
I intend no offense. š