14 Oct 2023 - Synopsis Hub & other discussions. - Page 13

Originally posted by: Anu234

Makers plot k according sab change karte hei yahi bacchi abhir se insecure thi start mei 🤣

Yup!!!

But even this kid had character growth!!!

Akshara's character is still stagnant!!!

And Abhir's character is being degraded just to show Akshara's MAAhanta.. 🤭🤭🤭

https://twitter.com/Harshadrules/status/1713035104728371697

Mrs Sharma kept dissing Birlas and their upbringing, shouted from the rooftops that Abhimanyu will be a bad father, now look at how sorted Roohi is❤️. While Akshu has no idea how to raise a child, is fumbling & lying left,right and center to placate Abhir.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Honestly, I didn't have as much of an issue with the two min love story. That's love at first sight and I prefer those stories to the friends to lovers or enemies to lovers trope so popular in ITV. But the thing is that their families are quick to judge them and blame them when they themselves are only trying to do right by their family.

Think about it, everytime either one of them has opposed the other to help their family members it's backfired. And then the same family just ends up blaming them instead of taking responsibility in their mess.

There is a huge lack of understanding yes, but to me that is not Abhira's fault. They were never given the time or space to sort things out. They were never given that space in the family that it's ok, we don't want you to take sides here, you manage your own relationship first. Just look at how Muskaan and Kairav's relationship is. It's sooo much worse than Abhira's ever was, but still they remain together cause the Goenkas take care of that. They don't let their issues turn that huge. Manish stops Kairav from going too far. The rest of the family maybe upset with Muskaan but no one wants her to leave. That is what Abhira needed. They needed their families to support them. To stop them from going too far. To take up responsibility when they failed etc.

I have several examples of that! I won't go into before marriage. But first leap, we all know what Mahima did, but when she was blamed she conveniently said issue was in Abhira trust. Except before that she herself was telling Abhi that he has to choose family and he can't always choose Ak and all. They themselves were instigating and telling Abhi to cut off Ak and stand with his family. But after everything was over, it's Abhira's fault. During that reunion, Manjari is the one who brought Arohi into that house, who then instigated Manjari against Ak and it became such a cycle that by the time Neil's death happened, Manjari already had no faith in Ak which is why she blamed her. But she also blamed Abhi. She put everything on him and he was just trying to keep everyone afloat. Ak didn't help with that, and then he divorced her in anger. Fine tragedy can make people do crazy things. But what did their families do? Did Manjari or anyone tell Abhi no this is wrong go bring her back first? BP himself misrepresented info to both of them and now it's again on how they were bad at it.

Their families were wholly responsible for what happened during both the times. Their reactions weren't in vacuum, but we're heavily influenced by these families who they loved and these people who claimed to love them, have always had ridiculous expectations from them and then also blamed them for everything.

This was also why I had a soft spot for MJ despite her influence on Abhi because she never manipulated anyone. And now they are changing that narrative. But She inadverdently became responsible for their separation. Abhi managed to ignore everyone else for Akshara but couldn't ignore her.

I guess this just reiterates the point the families should just back off and could down a bit. Both MJ and Manish are on high gears and peddling in their matters. Abhi clearly asked her to stop interfering but they cut the convo short. I understand they came close to the marriage and are disappointed that it didn't happen but there is no need to push both of them to this extent. If they stop that, Abhi can actually focus on Abhir.

Originally posted by: yellomellow

It's ITV so I don't focus on the story or the characters because it will change every track. Personally, I watch for entertainment factor.

The same makers invalidated a six year dosti shaadi turned love with Akshara being ready to marry her ex-husband within months of Abhinav's death and asking him to be his child's father lol. She was having lunch dates and planning dinner dates after their wedding with her ex-husband at the same hospital Abhinav died in while pregnant with his child.

I prefer a story with two adults marrying each other and starting a family together because they love each over a readymade family via paternity fraud, but that's me. To each their own.

right ots a perspective that u take...now for me moving on is defo not wrong...jab bhi u feel like...but family manipulating this thru a kid by hiding the major truth of how the bio father actually treated his mom...is wrong.....

and an adult..a mom...manipulating a kid to ask his mom to get rid of an unborn...is also wrong....

and regarding enjoying a story.....proposing the love of your sis and then torturing her as if it is her mistake...defo makes a bad jija.....and then manipulating her to say ILU.....i would rather enjoy a frank proposal...with clarity on both sides.....looks more matured to me......

not sure y, but makers everytime made abhi ka character more of a negative one than a positive.....i was hopeful, that will change..but......

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

I really want to ask writers ..why do they have to spoil everyone...Why did they have to make Manjari manipulate a 6 year old...why do they have to spoil everyone I like

It's like banging our head against the wall 🧱 🙄

Originally posted by: Jyotsna09

It's like banging our head against the wall 🧱 🙄

Absolutely..every single day

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

Amru Aaj ☎️ Nahin you get a 🏅from me.

☎️ se bhach gayi.....

Moving on is fine, but using your ex-husband's child you pretended was dead for six years to build a fake family isn't.

Akshara and Abhinav didn't care about any "truth". They wanted to ensure the Abhir picked them by manipulating him and it worked. There is no maturity in building your "family" on lies. She lived with a man she didn't love and accepted him after being told to do so by your family. It took her seven years to move on from Abhi and months to remarry Abhi. From my perspective, that's not love she settled because of the sunk cost of the six years she invested into her dosti/marriage, which her family constantly reminded her of.

@bold Akshara was in love with her bad jija from the beginning and wanted to be his wife lol. In fact, I remember she was romancing him on Arohi's mandap the very next day.

The same makers glorified child abuse and paternity fraud so I don't have any expectations. So, let's agree to disagree. Everyone has different taste and perspectives.

Originally posted by: India_TV

right ots a perspective that u take...now for me moving on is defo not wrong...jab bhi u feel like...but family manipulating this thru a kid by hiding the major truth of how the bio father actually treated his mom...is wrong.....

and an adult..a mom...manipulating a kid to ask his mom to get rid of an unborn...is also wrong....

and regarding enjoying a story.....proposing the love of your sis and then torturing her as if it is her mistake...defo makes a bad jija.....and then manipulating her to say ILU.....i would rather enjoy a frank proposal...with clarity on both sides.....looks more matured to me......

not sure y, but makers everytime made abhi ka character more of a negative one than a positive.....i was hopeful, that will change..but......

Every time Abhir shows anger, impatience, disappointment like any other emotions besides happiness, Akshara always says you’re Mumma’s big, strong, understanding boy. She does realize that will teach him that he should suppress his true feelings or he won’t be considered strong?

This show is getting problematic by the minute, the writers mindset represented by "FL".

Dialogue writers are clearly unaware of anything happening in the story. I wish they cared a little about the women audience watching this shit show.

What double standards are they talking about exactly. Madam consummated to bear the child unlike the reference to Manju adopting Neil or Abhi treating Roohi as his own. It's not like she is adopting an illegitimate child of Pati jee with someone else that Manju and Abhi are expected to accept as blessing.

Their every attempt to show Abhi abandonment and fear of not being prioritised via Abhir, she looks further pathetic than already is. She knows to be submissive to Pati jee insecurities but can't shift schedules for kid? What even !!

Who is thinking of all these , clearly not people who have respect for women in any relationship, especially to mother's.

They should stop behaving like Abhi impregnated and abandoned her for her to behave like she's the queen.

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