My Heart Broke For Neeti Here.. She Doesn't Deserve This! -DT Note pg5 - Page 2

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

My heart breaks for the women of India who have to watch this regressive drivel on tv and also have to contend with people supporting bigamy and rape as if it's no big deal. There should be a movement somehow against Ekta Kapoor. Enough with her putting this crap on tv. A while back I remember a foreigner trolling her on Twitter because of this regressive crap. It's so shameless and just reflective of the rot in Indian society. I mentioned Silsila Badalte Rishton Ka, and as usual, the comment went right over the heads of some. The issue is not whether or not Mauli was a likeable character; I remember many people rooting for Nandani and saw nothing wrong with her having a relationship with Mauli's husband because Nandani was an abused wife. Plenty of people hated Mauli. So that's not the point. The point is, in the end, the makers did something good for her character.

It is true that Mauli's character was mahaan but the truth is the writers didn't destroy Mauli's character to prop up Nandani's character. Instead they made her ex husband the villain and somewhat Kunal's character was villanized, rightfully so.

In this case, Neeti's character IS destroyed to ship PariRaj. It is deliberate. It is my understanding that Neeti was once a strong, independent character who was supportive of the spineless, weak character Pari. Perhaps, Neeti's character began to have a fan base, which did not bode well for the dream couple, Pari Raj.

But no matter what they do, I won't support Pari Raj. They both belong in jail for reasons I have already stated on this board. If Neeti goes to jail or dies, that's fine but I hope she gets FULL revenge so her jail sentence would be deserved.

If they wanted to ship Pari Raj then they should have made Neeti the villain from day one but the villain from day one was Rajiv and the Bajwaj zoo. Now they think they will make the bigamist as hero and the zoo as righteous. They think they will make cunning best friend, who chose to support her husband's bigamy, the FL. It's such a disgusting concept for a show

Agree with each and every word you said.

People are just missing the point.

The thing is they think Pari is some mahaan woman and Neeti is selfish not to share her husband or accept the bigamy.

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

My heart breaks for the women of India who have to watch this regressive drivel on tv and also have to contend with people supporting bigamy and rape as if it's no big deal. There should be a movement somehow against Ekta Kapoor. Enough with her putting this crap on tv. A while back I remember a foreigner trolling her on Twitter because of this regressive crap. It's so shameless and just reflective of the rot in Indian society. I mentioned Silsila Badalte Rishton Ka, and as usual, the comment went right over the heads of some. The issue is not whether or not Mauli was a likeable character; I remember many people rooting for Nandani and saw nothing wrong with her having a relationship with Mauli's husband because Nandani was an abused wife. Plenty of people hated Mauli. So that's not the point. The point is, in the end, the makers did something good for her character.

It is true that Mauli's character was mahaan but the truth is the writers didn't destroy Mauli's character to prop up Nandani's character. Instead they made her ex husband the villain and somewhat Kunal's character was villanized, rightfully so.

In this case, Neeti's character IS destroyed to ship PariRaj. It is deliberate. It is my understanding that Neeti was once a strong, independent character who was supportive of the spineless, weak character Pari. Perhaps, Neeti's character began to have a fan base, which did not bode well for the dream couple, Pari Raj.

But no matter what they do, I won't support Pari Raj. They both belong in jail for reasons I have already stated on this board. If Neeti goes to jail or dies, that's fine but I hope she gets FULL revenge so her jail sentence would be deserved.

If they wanted to ship Pari Raj then they should have made Neeti the villain from day one but the villain from day one was Rajiv and the Bajwaj zoo. Now they think they will make the bigamist as hero and the zoo as righteous. They think they will make cunning best friend, who chose to support her husband's bigamy, the FL. It's such a disgusting concept for a show

Originally posted by: sumz_d

Agree with each and every word you said.

People are just missing the point.

The thing is they think Pari is some mahaan woman and Neeti is selfish not to share her husband or accept the bigamy.

Noone is saying Niti should accept the bigamy.

She has seen him defending Pari and getting attached to her in a way no sane wife would accept... so just leave the guy instead of committing crime after crime to keep him.

If she thinks she can get away with taking Gurpreet's life, the multiple attacks on Pari and her unborn child, not to mention the attempt to marry her off to a rapist & the many times Rajiv ended up in hospital or jail while saving Pari + baby from some problem Niti created.... this woman is crazy and should be in a mental hospital.

Who goes to all this trouble for a man who's been showing signs of not even wanting her for months now?

Originally posted by: KalmaLove92

Noone is saying Niti should accept the bigamy.

She has seen him defending Pari and getting attached to her in a way no sane wife would accept... so just leave the guy instead of committing crime after crime to keep him.

If she thinks she can get away with taking Gurpreet's life, the multiple attacks on Pari and her unborn child, not to mention the attempt to marry her off to a rapist & the many times Rajiv ended up in hospital or jail while saving Pari + baby from some problem Niti created.... this woman is crazy and should be in a mental hospital.

Who goes to all this trouble for a man who's been showing signs of not even wanting her for months now?

Pari is a psycho actually.

She should also be put in jail.

Originally posted by: sumz_d

Pari is a psycho actually.

She should also be put in jail.

Funny, cuz the one whose list of crimes keeps getting longer and longer by the day isn't Pari.

Pari has lied, but that isn't a crime... and from what we're seeing now, even after knowing the truth Niti could very well keep wanting Sanju, cuz if she had all that much of self-respect, if she were so sorted-out and were so much like the old Niti said she was... then she'd have dumped Sanju long ago instead of becoming a criminal to keep what in her eyes is "her own husband".

The idea someone mentioned that Niti is being lied to and, hence, Rajnitis relationship is happening without consent... I doubt Niti would care about it.

And lets not forget she herself is the one who didn't think 2x before fixing Paris marriage w a rapist.

Sanju (cant believe I have to defend him these days) isn't a rapist and had no feelings for Pari up until a while back... and even that is something that Niti is causing, by continously putting Pari and baby in danger anx bringing Pariraj closer.

Girl is dumber than a monkey.

Originally posted by: KalmaLove92

Funny, cuz the one whose list of crimes keeps getting longer and longer by the day isn't Pari.

Pari has lied, but that isn't a crime... and from what we're seeing now, even after knowing the truth Niti could very well keep wanting Sanju, cuz if she had all that much of self-respect, if she were so sorted-out and were so much like the old Niti said she was... then she'd have dumped Sanju long ago instead of becoming a criminal to keep what in her eyes is "her own husband".

The idea someone mentioned that Niti is being lied to and, hence, Rajnitis relationship is happening without consent... I doubt Niti would care about it.

And lets not forget she herself is the one who didn't think 2x before fixing Paris marriage w a rapist.

Sanju (cant believe I have to defend him these days) isn't a rapist and had no feelings for Pari up until a while back... and even that is something that Niti is causing, by continously putting Pari and baby in danger anx bringing Pariraj closer.

Girl is dumber than a monkey.

You are totally missing the point and as usual you will turn blind eye to Pari's kartoot.

Thing is Neeti sees Pari as a other woman who keeps on seducing her husband on every chance she gets and who also happens to be her best friend.

When Neeti confronts Pari or Rajeev they keep lying to her and instead insult Neeti and her soch.

Everytime Rajeev has a moment with Pari he goes to Neeti and professes his undying love and talks big. Aise main ek patni kya sochegi? Yahi na ki Pari is doing some jadoo on her husband otherwise her husband loves Neeti only?

See Neeti is getting insecure because Rajeev is adding fuel to her confusion and hate for Pari. Koi bhi Neeti ki jagah hoti toh hate hi karti Pari ko.

Pari has the nerves to act all innocent and ask Neeti what is wrong with her after romancing her husband openly. This is gaslighting at its finest.

Pari comes across as somewhat Covert Narcissistic. She keeps on gaslighting Neeti.

Whoever comes in contact with a Narcissitic their life gets ruined. The victim tends to loose their mental balance and ruin their own life. This is what is happening with Neeti.

But you people carry on worshipping this Covert Narcisstic woman Pari. Aisi ladki ka palla pad jaye na real life main tab pata chalega.

Sorry i don't feel bad or have any sympathy for Neeti.

Originally posted by: Mages

Sorry i don't feel bad or have any sympathy for Neeti.

No need to feel sorry dear.

You carry on worshipping that Covert Narcissistic woman and be happy and proud of it

Originally posted by: KalmaLove92

Funny, cuz the one whose list of crimes keeps getting longer and longer by the day isn't Pari.

Pari has lied, but that isn't a crime... and from what we're seeing now, even after knowing the truth Niti could very well keep wanting Sanju, cuz if she had all that much of self-respect, if she were so sorted-out and were so much like the old Niti said she was... then she'd have dumped Sanju long ago instead of becoming a criminal to keep what in her eyes is "her own husband".

The idea someone mentioned that Niti is being lied to and, hence, Rajnitis relationship is happening without consent... I doubt Niti would care about it.

And lets not forget she herself is the one who didn't think 2x before fixing Paris marriage w a rapist.

Sanju (cant believe I have to defend him these days) isn't a rapist and had no feelings for Pari up until a while back... and even that is something that Niti is causing, by continously putting Pari and baby in danger anx bringing Pariraj closer.

Girl is dumber than a monkey.

If you can say you doubt Neeti would care about being married to a bigamist and having sex with a man not her husband then I can say, I guess Pari won't care if Neeti continues to try to kill her and succeed.

Saying all Pari did was lie and it's not a crime is, in fact, a lie

Pari's crimes are two fold:

1) She is an accessory to bigamy, a crime

2) she is accessory to the rape of Neeti, as rape is defined as having sexual relations without full consent. Neeti never consented to have sexual relations with anyone other than her legally married husband.

In fact, let me continue in the same vein as you:

I doubt Pari would be upset if Neeti succeeds in killing her because so many others have tried

I doubt Pari would mind if Neeti kills her mother because Pari already knows Neeti has attempted murder and has said nothing

I know Pari has no self respect because she stayed with a man who married her best friend and has sexual relations with her. She willingly carries his child and willingly supports him in his criminal life as a full fledged bigamist.

I doubt Pari cares if Neeti tries to marry off to a rapist because, well Neeti doesn't care that she is having sex she didn't agree to with a bigamist. Hey Pari, if Neeti can do it, so can you girl. I mean if Rajneeti's relationship is happening without consent and Neeti shouldn't care, why shouldn't you marry Rakesh

Finally, and this is the most important point. SANJU IS A RAPIST. Rape is defined as not giving full consent in sexual relations. Neeti never consented to having sex with anyone but her legally married husband. Likewise, Pari is accessory to rape as she is in cohoots with the rapist to continue the abuse.

Originally posted by: Jazzkapur

i agree with u about parineeti but i think u missed some facts about silsila. I don't remember anyone supporting Nandini. 99% comments used to be against Nandini n supporting mauli. Plenty? No. No1 or very few people hated mauli n those were drashti fans. N kunal was NOT villianised at all. Ulta he was shown mahaan (nonsense coz he was forcing mauli to marry Ishan) after leap n before memory loss track. N at the end, i don't think they did good to mauli's character coz she married Ishaan while still having feelings for kunal. If she would've loved Ishaan, then marrying him would be happy ending but i agree that its good that makers didn't make her negative.

I actually didn't see the last episodes with Ishaan. But in the later episodes when Mishti and and Pari had their own show, it was revealed that Ishaan and Mauli were a very happy couple. They even had a son together and were later killed in a car accident.

I honestly don't remember if she still had feelings for Kunal but that would be normal. She did spend so many years with him and shared a child. But are you saying she was in love with Kunal and chose to still marry Ishaan?

Sometimes this does happen, but it sounds like Mauli and Ishaan did eventually fall in love and have a happy life.

Yes, Neeti is not the same as Mauli but I would have hoped for a better ending for Neeti than I see coming.