Anupam aperfectly matches a narcissist personality person.
She has very high sense of own importance. They want people to admire them always and praise them or they get angry or upset. Like when anuj told anupam adoes ot understand international busness or law she made faces and got angry on him. Now imagine this a person whose not MBBS/MD if anyone says you cannot understand how to operate will anyone get angry?? No right but anupama does get agry if they try to correct her english or say shes not educated enough for company jobs.
High sense of entitlement. Actually all shahs have high sense of entitlement and cat like they are British royalty over all others. While in reality their financial status and behaviour standard will match only lower class slum uneducated ppl. Even anupama is same when anuj brought CA costly silver plate to eat she gives bashan on that too. Arrey its anuj only child he can buy gold plate whats your problem? Does he not have right to gift his only child anything and need anupama permission always. Now look at this kapdiya wealth created by anuj father is not going to kapadiya kids but shahs mostly. So why cannot anupa,ma say they are shahs do not use your father and your money on them? No she never objects. She will only object if anuj spends on real kapadiyas CA and malvika and himself.
Exploits others without guilt or shame. Should i say more. Anupama expolits anuj more than barkha, adhik and ankush put together to make her shahs rich and get jobs etc. Every shah is expoliting anuj kapadiya be it baa, bapuji, vanraj, toshu or dimpy or sweetudi. When malvika tried to tell anupam ato stay away from ex and in laws she was removed from serial within few days. And this anupam has no 1% shame to use second husband for ex and hs family and she talks big big things on respect and sanskaar shameless lady. Even nur jahan or napolean wife or cleopatra would not have exploited their hubby so much as this lady in real history to bring up their own family ex hubby family not siblings or mother father.
Frequently demeans, intimidates, bullies, or belittles others. When anupama feels others are peaking truth or correct and pointing her mistakes she starts bullying or belittling them. Like anuj who corrects her mistakes she belittles or bullies by shutting him up always. Anupam afeels threatened if anuj or anyone does not tomtoy or say yes to her always like anuj kavya, maya, rakhi etc and did everything to make them her slave by belittling them or bullying them
Vanraj is another kind of narcissit
Actually anuj himself is a narcissit to his family like malvika, ankush, adhik etc when they speak truth he starts bullying belittling them
But anuj has no braveness to put shahs or anupam ain their place which any hubby would do
This anuj is so spineless he cannot even put shahs or anupama in place for CA or malivika
As only elder in family should not anuj protect mavika and CA over anyone else but no this man allowed expoiltation of malvika at hands of vanraj and allowing shahs to abuse CA and anupam too abusing and illtreating CA
I had hoped MD will put all narcissit in place but shes becoming slave on anu and shahs now only
Narcissit never change they may act to have changed to please others if they see benefits of find bigger narcissit than themselves. Like anupam adoes before vanraj and baa
Kumkum Bhagya
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