Anupama - @ Loss of speeches when its about Barka

Each and every time during the argument.. When Barkha says some thing they want them to discuss in private.

Suddenly cheating n having a child is become alright cos the guy is Ankush..

Regressive ness to another level - If the women is outspoken - Men can cheat.

like they did a white wash for Vanraj n now ankuj.

And Anuj says nobody needs ro go anywhere , indirectly giving permission to the kids staying there.

Barkha bhabhi meri maa samaan hai. Maa samaan my foot, they treat her worse than a house maid literally. Many times she speaks logic, just because it’s to show Anupama her true colors and intentions, she gets highlighted in negative ! It’s such a toxic show now. 🤢

Anuj has become the worst. I literally wish him to go die somewhere than living like a Anupama-Bot.

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Barkha bhabhi meri maa samaan hai. Maa samaan my foot, they treat her worse than a house maid literally. Many times she speaks logic, just because it’s to show Anupama her true colors and intentions, she gets highlighted in negative ! It’s such a toxic show now. 🤢

Anuj has become the worst. I literally wish him to go die somewhere than living like a Anupama-Bot.

Hain bhai hain .....anu maa ke alava aur koi maa nahi hai...🤣

Anupama is a walking talking hypocrite. There's no doubt about that. But Barkha kaunsi punyatma hai. She has also time and again tried to harm MaAn and snatch their property. Nobody is decent in this show. But since it is titled Anupamaa, all except her gets called out for their wrongdoings.

Barkha is shown popping pills and may be assumed to be suffering a long term depssion/anxiety.

Irony is,

1. Nobody tried addressing the issue

2. Despite this, Anupama is shown swooning out of anxiety, batao.

Kal ko agar:

1. Maa samaan Bhabhi, Barkha ko, God forbid, kuch hota hain, who is responsible?

2. Agar Kal Adhik ek bachche le aaye Kapadia House me toh Anuj-Anupama kya karenge?

Same question came to my mind what happens when Adhik comes with a child out of his marriage? Will Anuj and Anupama take same decision?

They are saying they won't interfere but Anuj clearly said kisi ko Ghar chodne ki zarurat nahi hai and Anupama insisting think about child and uske rahne se mujhe koi prob nahi hai...what is this?

The way this show addresses issues is pathetic.

But this is a flaw in the character sketches themselves. All working/career-oriented/outspoken women characters have been labelled as vamps/villains in this show.

They are mocked, ridiculed, lectured and disrespected since day one and then to justify this hypocrisy are shown as the ultimate bad guys through narrative restructuring (Rakhi's genuine concern for her daughter is portrayed as interference.) and coin flip personality changes (Kavya was a grey character but became a total goody two shoes/bestie of MAA)

The show's aim is to glorify and justify every action of Anupama and to do that all other women characters need to be pushed down or out (like Maya), turned into vamps/ two bit schemers and mostly these happen to be the outspoken or career oriented women which really shows the regressive thinking of the makers

It's really sad because it is 2023 and more women are having jobs or work independently, they are more outspoken now, they contribute financially in the household as much as the male members of the family sometimes even more and yet ITV continues to portray ambition and career and straight forward speech as negative traits in a woman.

I understand that BB is not some saint but she is still elder to Anupama and Anuj. Not to mention the fact that not wanting to accept your husband illegitimate child is a human reaction and completely understandable. It does not have to be treated with this kind of disrespect and dismissal.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Barkha is shown popping pills and may be assumed to be suffering a long term depssion/anxiety.

Irony is,

1. Nobody tried addressing the issue

2. Despite this, Anupama is shown swooning out of anxiety, batao.

Kal ko agar:

1. Maa samaan Bhabhi, Barkha ko, God forbid, kuch hota hain, who is responsible?

Anupamaa, of course😊

Because she is the owner of KM. N her silence abt this whole matter will blow up in her face.

Afterall, she is Maa. With a broad back and tough shoulders.

2. Agar Kal Adhik ek bachche le aaye Kapadia House me toh Anuj-Anupama kya karenge?

They'll play as they are playing right now. Its simple: as long as the Kapadia House's rooms get someone to sleep in, all is fine.

Afterall, infedelity are adult issues. Kids are innocent n nothing legitimate, illegitimate. So...

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

2. Agar Kal Adhik ek bachche le aaye Kapadia House me toh Anuj-Anupama kya karenge?

The same as always. There will be a lot of shouting and screaming. Soorajpamaa will tell everyone jara saanti se baat kariye and then give a big bhashan. Majboor will say Meri Anu hamesha sahi hai. Then he will go into dreamland while this Anu of his goes to meet her Bacchon ke pita and solve problems of Royal Tamashah Phemli. Majboor's dreams are rudely interrupted when everyone starts shouting and screaming again. Soorajpamaa returns to calm everyone and the entire cycle repeats all over again 😎

Im glad anupama didn't supported barkha.

Wasn't barkha the one who was supporting maya to snatch anupama's husband n didn't wanted anupmaa to return back n sent her luggage to her mayka.

How shameless of barkha to ask anupama to support her n understand her pain.

Also barkha doesn't love ankush she just wants to stay there for living lavish life in ankush brother's house n planning to snatch his wealth.

Barkha is a fake empowered woman. She is acting like she did a big thing by accepting ankush's affair but barkha just stayed with him for his n his brother's money. N it seems she doesn't want ankush's illegitimate child because she wants everything to be given to sara n adhik like she said in earlier episodes.She doesn't want one more waaris.