Kavya is wrong

I'm not fan of Anupama's bhashan but today she was bang on.

1) if we accuse men for infidelity, and if women does the same, she shouldn't be victimized.

2) She cheated on Anirudh for Vanraj and now vice versa.

3) Vanraj was wrong but then the way out was divorce and not to show herself pregnant of Vanraj's baby.

4) Kavya can't b Victimized, also she told Anupama and it's not Anupama who told Vanraj, rather he heard their talks.

Let's not label kavya innocent just because Vanraj has been unfaithful..

Well yes. Kavya is wrong. Infidelity and lying on top of it that too about something as serious as a pregnancy is wrong.

But I would have still preferred if any other character other than Anupama had been chosen to lecture her.

Anupama herself is an emotional cheater who constantly hangs off of ex-husband in the name of grown up adult children/family

The right message but in the wrong person's mouth which made it feel hypocritcal to me.

Originally posted by: Peacelover15

I'm not fan of Anupama's bhashan but today she was bang on.

1) if we accuse men for infidelity, and if women does the same, she shouldn't be victimized.

2) She cheated on Anirudh for Vanraj and now vice versa.

3) Vanraj was wrong but then the way out was divorce and not to show herself pregnant of Vanraj's baby.

4) Kavya can't b Victimized, also she told Anupama and it's not Anupama who told Vanraj, rather he heard their talks.

Let's not label kavya innocent just because Vanraj has been unfaithful..

Who is Anupama to lecture considering she has been constantly emotionally cheating on Anuj, spending more time with her ex after knowing the ex has feeling for her and is the reason for Vanraj moving away from Kavya?

Anupama should be exposed before anyone else and she acts the victim the most.

This show mocks the sanctimony of marriage itself. Vanraj, Kavya, Anupama, Toshu all are wrong. And so was Anuj for living with another woman. EMAs, emotional cheating, illegal children, abandoned children, abandoned spouses. Its a perverse show.

P.S., we dont need shows to tell us that women cheating is wrong, in real life women cheating is shown way way way worse than men cheating, so its not like women find it easy. Women are considered "spoiled" or "bad" if they have relationships while men are considered "chads" or "studs"

Both Anupama and kavya are stupid . That's it.

Manipulating someone into believing the child is his just because biological father does not want the child is completely wrong.

Kavya should have filed paternity case on anirudh n focussed on building her career.

The issue is not about EMA anymore the issue is about forcing a child's responsibility on a man by manipulating him into believing the child is his.

Originally posted by: Harish111

Who is Anupama to lecture considering she has been constantly emotionally cheating on Anuj, spending more time with her ex after knowing the ex has feeling for her and is the reason for Vanraj moving away from Kavya?

Anupama should be exposed before anyone else and she acts the victim the most.

This show mocks the sanctimony of marriage itself. Vanraj, Kavya, Anupama, Toshu all are wrong. And so was Anuj for living with another woman. EMAs, emotional cheating, illegal children, abandoned children, abandoned spouses. Its a perverse show.

P.S., we dont need shows to tell us that women cheating is wrong, in real life women cheating is shown way way way worse than men cheating, so its not like women find it easy. Women are considered "spoiled" or "bad" if they have relationships while men are considered "chads" or "studs"

@bold

This my friend will never be addressed. When audiance started criticizing Anupama for the same they changed the track with Maaya bullshit and Anuj went after CA just to glorify and whitewash Anupama.

Even in today's episode no one not even Baa went after vanraj but Anupama, why?? Why do u care? I agree kavya told her the truth but then she could just give her advice and move on. Forget advice she gave her a long bhashan. Ok fine! Then what's the reason to check on vanraj ? Even if she doubts that he listened their convo, no need to check on him and confirm. Just stay out of it man!

Kavya is wrong but Maidmaa isn't right either. Infact she is worse than Kavya. Atleast Kavya has realisation but Maidmaa keeps JUSTIFYING her emotional infidelity under the garb of "pariwaar" and "mere bachchon ke pita". Which women makes her abusive ex sasural her maayka and gives them free paas to abuse her new family? Anupama is partially responsible for ruining their relationship.I am not supporting Vanraj but had Anupama drew healthy boundaries and gave Kavya the much required space to form a bond with that family, maybe things would have been different. Neither Vanraj would have rekindled his feelings for Anupama nor Kavya would have been attracted towards Aniruddh. That's my opinion,feel free to disagree....

In this serial they showed different type of cheating.

1 Vanraaj type: who didn’t like his wife and attracted to someone else wife. Then they have a 9 years long affair.

2 Toshu type: who loves his wife and not attracted to other one but had physical needs so he have one night stand with some one with no strings attached

3 Kavya type: who first didn’t loved her husband and cheat on him and now she loves her husband very much but can’t get his attention so have a kamjor pal and end up sleeping with her ex husband.

4 Anupama type: Who claim to love her second husband but have a soft corner for her ex husband. She knows to not cross physical boundaries with him but have a very close relationship with him and ready to do anything for his well being.

Anuj didn’t cheat on Anupama but said sorry hundred times.

Vanraj, Kavya and Toshu have been called out numerous times but what about Anupama? Who will show her the mirror? Just coz she is the lead doesn't mean she needs to be unnecessarily glorified. This show is setting a dangerous narrative where emotional infidelity is JUSTIFIED on frivolous grounds. Which women in real life keeps running back to her abusive ex sasural to meet her grown up, married kids? Which women ignores her new family to cater to her ex in-laws? Not everyone is smart and educated enough to understand the maker's filthy mindset. Some viewers are gullible especially women. They seriously idolize Anupama and can't hear a word against her. I won't take their name but I have seen few.Think what will happen if they start emulating her in real life? Considering the mass outreach this show has,the makers should have acted resbonsibily but.....😡

Originally posted by: naaznin

Manipulating someone into believing the child is his just because biological father does not want the child is completely wrong.

Kavya should have filed paternity case on anirudh n focussed on building her career.

The issue is not about EMA anymore the issue is about forcing a child's responsibility on a man by manipulating him into believing the child is his.

Yes exactly you are right