Please come back when you feel up to it again :) - Page 3

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

You are a kind and graceful person. I need to learn to be more like you. Indeed, her conviction in her opinions is admirable. I didn't think she would want to leave the forum. I regret that my actions were part of what made her take a drastic step. Hopefully, it is a temporary hiatus to reset.

I woke up feeling reputation track 3. But now, trying to emulate your sensible approach, I will drop a track 5.

"Cause there were pages turned with the bridges burned

Everything you lose is a step you take

So make the friendship bracelets

Take the moment and taste it

You've got no reason to be afraid"

Nah not at all. Things can get heated on here but if my actions cause someone like Atomnis, who doesn’t have a history of personal attacks, to leave then I definitely feel bad. I also recently argued with her on the Korean thread so I do hold myself accountable, also. I truly hope she doesn’t feel ganged up. I don’t think most of us had that intention.

Originally posted by: ohophelia

No idea what transpired here. I only just saw the Korean pop Vs Indie pop thread now. Atomnis, just letting you know through Supari's thread, that I like reading your posts. You make interesting posts that ignite some discussion in this otherwise dead forum. Opinions may not always be same but I've noticed you don't attack members personally and only talk about the subject at hand. Kudos to you for that. Alot here are not capable of doing that. There was needless ganging up against one person in that thread imo.

I hope she comes back seeing all the love and concern for her here.❤️

I am copy pasting Aishistrash’s post from another thread here just so Atomnis can see it if she comes back around.

Well, I don't find IF "useless"... and:

"Bade bade deshon mein aisi choti choti baatein hoti rehti hai...."

Anyways, allthebest to those who decide to leave (for a while or forever).

Nobody has to feel guilty over anything. Neither atominis nor minion or rth or anyone else.

Debates happen. It's a public forum. People have diff opinions. We have different styles and ways when it comes to debates. Some are to the point and savage, some articulate and some go for essays and then there are those with word salads like Deepika's interviews.

Its fine. People deal with situations in different ways. Some people move on quickly some take their own sweet time. So no one should feel guilty over ranveer singh and korean skin. Pfft.

Originally posted by: Supari_khala

Nah not at all. Things can get heated on here but if my actions cause someone like Atomnis, who doesn’t have a history of personal attacks, to leave then I definitely feel bad. I also recently argued with her on the Korean thread so I do hold myself accountable, also. I truly hope she doesn’t feel ganged up. I don’t think most of us had that intention.

Yes. It was unfortunate that the threads happened back to back. The gang-up wasn't intentional at all. For me, both the threads touched a raw nerve and I took it way more seriously than I should have. Other members may have felt the same.

Everyone on this forum knows I don't like Ranveer and I have gotten into heated arguments for dissing him. In hindsight, it feels so silly to invest so much time and effort to defend him. But I felt compelled to keep going. Just unfortunate how it turned out.

But I have needed a reset after taking things too personally to remind myself it's just a forum. So, I am hopeful she comes back after resetting. She's one of the few people who makes topics that are interesting for a lengthy discussion.

Originally posted by: NomeansNo

I don't think that's true, she has crossed that certain line, intentional or otherwise. I also think she get too involved with the discussion seeing her long posts and repetition on the subject matter. It's fine to discuss and vocalize your opinions but it's also fine to agree to disagree instead of having the "my opinion is the right" approach. And she indulges in the latter a lot more. Just what I have observed having read through her threads. Besides that, everyone should feel welcome here but at the same time it's also good to take the break if one feels the need for it.

Been here long enough and have seen debates spiral out of control. Atomnis is perhaps one of the few people I've never seen personally attack or invalidate an individual user on this platform. They always stick to the point. However it's never a fair fight when 6-7 users gang up on a single person. Shit gets thrown. None of us are saints here.

Don't know what happened and which threads r being talked about here.

But Atominis needs a break..to connect to people, friends n family in the real world..all of us need to do that, but some need more. Will help to get a positive outlook in life. Virtual is not reality