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Posted: 2 years ago

Okay


I think I got through some of the posts. My my does this discussion turn heated at points. 🙃🙃🙃🙈


First of all I am shocked it took this long for the discussion to touch the pro life / pro choice topic. I knew with unwanted pregnancy and an emotionally unavailable father, it was going to be at least brushed with. I am glad you guys put forward your point. Same goes to the one where Arnav had made massive mistakes and where Khushi’s devotion is questionable.


I have said earlier that I won’t defend my characters in comments anymore and I would rather let events unfold in the story and them finding out along with you guys.


However. I can maybe talk on somethings which will not be touched upon the FF again. And are the burning questions in this comment section and my DMs 😆


Does Arnav think he is guilty of cheating? Yes. I don’t think it’s a secret anymore that I have to reveal later on in the story. Arnav does think he cheated on Khushi. He is in the self blaming mode. He does have fleeting memories of the night and they are enough to rattle him.


What do I think personally? Is irrelevant at the point. From characters POV he is at fault. Even though everyone who knows him is saying otherwise. Including Akash. He explicitly asked Arnav not to blame himself for sleeping with Lavanya but I don’t think it’s a convincing bit to someone like Arnav who keeps hearing


Always do the right thing chotey.


Did you guys find yourself irritated with him at the decisions he made when he was under tremendous guilt? 😆 Buckle up because his guilt is not going anywhere.


Now Why did he react to la and Manali’s news this mildly?


I see you guys. I hear your frustration at not absolutely obliterating them 😂 god some people want la to be slapped 😂. I know the urge to see him lose it all is high but can I ask you to please trust me on this?


I will urge you to read the thing once again. The first emotion is relief. He does not want a child and has been a mess ever since he had been informed. And he is extremely angry. For those of you who wanted cuss words for lama ( nice name btw 😂) blame it on Aman who jumped at the moment asking about Khushi Bhabhi 😂 ( I see he had gathered some fans in this chapter)


I wrote it earlier too. Akash the simple man asks him to ruin mahesh and Arnav doesn’t. He doesn’t lay the first hand. Manali’s threat was the first chapter till when even she is confident enough to walk into his office and threaten him. That’s the first time she sees him in an avatar this furious. I will leave it to all of you. But do you really think at that time if he could sense that Khushi was a possible target, he would have let go so calmly? His relationship had already ended in his head. To him, this la fiasco did not impact Khush the way he dreaded it would. In fact he was relieved he did not have to use that for divorce. He knows someday khushi is going to get to know. Maybe it will hurt her less.


Why then he would engage in a full fledged war with these two? Won’t khushi get to know that immediately then?


I mentioned it after the first chapter. These memory lanes are not Arnav’s redemption. You don’t have to like or dislike him based on these.


He is still the same character who has made these mistakes that ended up hurting Khushi. In ways that have left her completely broken. These chapters only showed you his intent. The outcome remains the same. Khushi has been hurt and broken beyond what both Khushi and Arnav had wanted or imagined.


If anything, he can just add this into the pile of things which will only increase his guilt.


Edit - there’s no hard and fast right and wrong yet established people. Yeah things have been laid out for you to judge and assess. You have all the right in the world to dislike Arnav and similarly, you have all the right to feel bad for him. Everyone reads fine prints differently and it is alright :)

Edited by VeiledWords - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

Okay


I think I got through some of the posts. My my does this discussion turn heated at points. 🙃🙃🙃🙈


First of all I am shocked it took this long for the discussion to touch the pro life / pro choice topic. I knew with unwanted pregnancy and an emotionally unavailable father, it was going to be at least brushed with. I am glad you guys put forward your point. Same goes to the one where Arnav had made massive mistakes and where Khushi’s devotion is questionable.


I have said earlier that I won’t defend my characters in comments anymore and I would rather let events unfold in the story and them finding out along with you guys.


However. I can maybe talk on somethings which will not be touched upon the FF again. And are the burning questions in this comment section and my DMs 😆


Does Arnav think he is guilty of cheating? Yes. I don’t think it’s a secret anymore that I have to reveal later on in the story. Arnav does think he cheated on Khushi. He is in the self blaming mode. He does have fleeting memories of the night and they are enough to rattle him.


What do I think personally? Is irrelevant at the point. From characters POV he is at fault. Even though everyone who knows him is saying otherwise. Including Akash. He explicitly asked Arnav not to blame himself for sleeping with Lavanya but I don’t think it’s a convincing bit to someone like Arnav who keeps hearing


Always do the right thing chotey.


Did you guys find yourself irritated with him at the decisions he made when he was under tremendous guilt? 😆 Buckle up because his guilt is not going anywhere.


Now Why did he react to la and Manali’s news this mildly?


I see you guys. I hear your frustration at not absolutely obliterating them 😂 god some people want la to be slapped 😂. I know the urge to see him lose it all is high but can I ask you to please trust me on this?


I will urge you to read the thing once again. The first emotion is relief. He does not want a child and has been a mess ever since he had been informed. And he is extremely angry. For those of you who wanted cuss words for lama ( nice name btw 😂) blame it on Aman who jumped at the moment asking about Khushi Bhabhi 😂 ( I see he had gathered some fans in this chapter)

I exactly said they same thing, he felt relief for himself and the pics being taken care of saved his reputation too so he didn't thinks deeper or care for Khushi...


I wrote it earlier too. Akash the simple man asks him to ruin mahesh and Arnav doesn’t. He doesn’t lay the first hand. Manali’s threat was the first chapter till when even she is confident enough to walk into his office and threaten him. That’s the first time she sees him in an avatar this furious. I will leave it to all of you. But do you really think at that time if he could sense that Khushi was a possible target, he would have let go so calmly? His relationship had already ended in his head. To him, this la fiasco did not impact Khush the way he dreaded it would. In fact he was relieved he did not have to use that for divorce. He knows someday khushi is going to get to know. Maybe it will hurt her less.

Arpita, you are making Arnav dump if he didn't see bigger picture and realize Khushi is target always by being his wife. The photographer could send her pics if he wants more money, Ma asked him for divorce for baby's sake and La wanted to be sure about it so they can send Khushi pics too to get her out of the way. Any third person could send it too.. How can he not see through this especially he observed La's attraction an desperate attempts? Just like he safe guarded his wealth, he could have simply investigated against her earlier and he was clear she was not his friend so not fully trustworthy.


Why then he would engage in a full fledged war with these two? Won’t khushi get to know that immediately then?

Come on again you are making him dumb, just like they did things indirectly, he has enough money and man power to leak old pics, news, drugs records or even fake stories... Since Jan, he did nothing and Khushi paid the price after Ma leaked divorce news.


I mentioned it after the first chapter. These memory lanes are not Arnav’s redemption. You don’t have to like or dislike him based on these.


He is still the same character who has made these mistakes that ended up hurting Khushi. In ways that have left her completely broken. These chapters only showed you his intent. The outcome remains the same. Khushi has been hurt and broken beyond what both Khushi and Arnav had wanted or imagined.

This is exactly why Khushi needs to go away from him and his toxicity. She deserves better at least right away to come out of the trauma she has gone through in 3 months.


If anything, he can just add this into the pile of things which will only increase his guilt.

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Posted: 2 years ago

MY MY MY GOODNESS 12+ pages of comments since i left last night. Crazy. 😂


I didn't go through all of it..my head will just burst. I am not arpita.😂

But i guess i have got the basic tone of it all, basically pro and anti (or just not pro) arnav.


Now if i can give my 2 cents.

I think the discussion/debate on where arnav was right and where wrong is never ending. Actions that are ok to one will be and is completely unforgivable to another. So i think we all have to just agree to disagree. Probably that is how it is with flawed characters. It is impossible to reach a conclusion unanimously. Never been possible even in history. Again if i can bring the most critical literature ever "Mahabharat", flawed characters like Karna and Kunti even with so many of their good deeds but for some of their mistakes will forever be in discussion till the end of time and still there would be no unanimous opinion on them. There will always be for and not for (if not against).



There is no point in the first place to take a magnifying glass, detect and go through his actions because had he been sane enough things could have/ would have solved in the very first few days of the baby discussion, 2013 i.e.


I myself have my reservations on him for going to meet L when khushi was back in mumbai, i understand his position but still my khushi loving heart doesnot like it much. I am sympathizing this man just on the ground that he is genuinely in dire need of therapy and help. That this man is way too much screwed and f cked up in his own head.

I am sympathizing on the fact that, YES his actions had HURT khushi and will HURT in future like nothing else, and she doesn't deserve one bit of it. Period.

But, was his intentions were to deliberately hurt khushi? NO.

YES he f cked up everything, but his heart was never in the wrong place, if not right. He was going through HELL himself, all of it his doing I AGREE, all of it he made up in his own crooked up mind, I AGREE. But HE WAS SUFFERING TOO.

But do khushi deserve any of it after loving, well devoting to this man? Do she deserves not knowing so many secrets of the man whom she had made her whole life? NO NO and NO. Not one bit of it. I have said so many times, his intentions could be anything but at the end he did make khushi go through hell.

As akash said, i am not forgiving a shit but just sympathizing with this extremely f cked up troubled man. Somewhere khushi understood all that too and so never pressurized him on anything. She is the flag bearer of when you love someone, you love them with all their good and all their bad, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and health.


Moral of the story- If you donot heal from your wounds, you will bleed on people who are not responsible for those.

Edited by Pujakrishna - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

Damn I got a lot of things to catch on. Just saw things fleetingly.


Chill out guys!! Just a story 😂😂😂

Don't worry, I am always chilled after calling a spade a spade... Tomorrow I will have chess moves for Arnav's stupidity and it's hilarious... Provided I have time...

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Posted: 2 years ago

Okay you NEED to confirm this!


The date details


Lavanya said she was going to get reports on Sunday, 15th November. I randomly checked calenders. And Sunday 15 th November 2015 was in fact a Sunday.

The date of Holi towards march end in 2016 is also in line with the story. The date of karwachauth in 2015 also matches the description. Last day of October. Arnav was in Nepal right?

And so is Diwali 2005 being early November!!!


Did you research all the dates too?? 😮😮😮😮

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Posted: 2 years ago

So true..😊

It's Amazing to see so many comments and reactions. The passion with which everybody is talking about it is mind blowing.

All credit to the author..🥳

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

But, was his intentions were to deliberately hurt khushi? NO.

YES he f cked up everything, but his heart was never in the wrong place, if not right. He was going through HELL himself, all of it his doing I AGREE, all of it he made up in his own crooked up mind, I AGREE. But HE WAS SUFFERING TOO.

Moral of the story- If you donot heal from your wounds, you will bleed on people who are not responsible for those.

THANK YOU!!! THATS ALL I AM TRYING TO SAY!!


nobody is disagreeing that he hurt Khushi and she didn’t deserve any of it. What I have a problem with is he is being made out to be and called it something he is not.


ZERO moral values? Narcissistic? Doesn’t care about Khushi? Is purposely cheating? Wasn’t violated ?


That is the hill I am willing to die on. His intentions alone are enough to prove he isn’t any of the names being handed out to him without a reason.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Learrntowrite

Okay you NEED to confirm this!


The date details


Lavanya said she was going to get reports on Sunday, 15th November. I randomly checked calenders. And Sunday 15 th November 2015 was in fact a Sunday.

The date of Holi towards march end in 2016 is also in line with the story. The date of karwachauth in 2015 also matches the description. Last day of October. Arnav was in Nepal right?

And so is Diwali 2005 being early November!!!


Did you research all the dates too?? 😮😮😮😮

Behen if i had known you in my real life and had i not been in your good books, GOD knows i would have been suprer scared of you.

JESUS CHRIST your investigation skills!

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Learrntowrite

Okay you NEED to confirm this!


The date details


Lavanya said she was going to get reports on Sunday, 15th November. I randomly checked calenders. And Sunday 15 th November 2015 was in fact a Sunday.

The date of Holi towards march end in 2016 is also in line with the story. The date of karwachauth in 2015 also matches the description. Last day of October. Arnav was in Nepal right?

And so is Diwali 2005 being early November!!!


Did you research all the dates too?? 😮😮😮😮

Reports were supposed to come on 15th December

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

Behen if i had known you in my real life and had i not been in your good books, GOD knows i would have been suprer scared of you.

JESUS CHRIST your investigation skills!

I will tag her whenever any confusion in chapter arise from now on. 😂😂

Sometimes I forget which chapter and angst gets to me. She is too good.

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