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what could arnav's problem is with having a child? he is ok with kids around, what scares him is having his own kid or rather emotional connection with a child. He made that explicitly clear to lavanya and i got the same feeling when he refused to be guardian to Leher. atleast thats what i understand. So here is my take on this

I think Anjali lost her child in some way. She was so emotionally attached to it that she went into severe depression. As Arnav mentioned her husband was not present or was careless so he might be catalyst or not present to help her or in a way responsible but somehow Anjali couldn't take that pressure. I think she committed suicide and hence this phobia of Arnav to get emotionally attached to a child. He might believe what if he also succumbs or he might blame that child for anjali's actions.

He mentions even anjali di did not choose him. he mentions he let her down, he couldnt help her etc. he might have asked their family to let her come home or to mumbai for change, they might not have agreed and hence the fall out with family too

Plus the Oct time when he goes to annual trips coincides with big puja at hometown. I think it might be Anjali's barsi. he makes sure he doesn't attend that. Hence Khushi never went with him on these trips. Even Akash alludes to it saying this time of year u are always vulnerable and hence Khushi will understand. That's why Khushi also wanted to stay behind this year. Thats why all those adrenaline fueled sports like bungee jumping to get a high so he can forget this time of the year

Reminds me of Arnav of IPK when he used to go away during his mom's birthday.

I guess all the root cause is with Anjali and her child

Originally posted by: tashi26

Okay I need to let my emotions out otherwise will not be able to concentrate on anything.

So, I read the entire chapter and could read it without getting emotional, my practical side was reading and analysing everything.

But the moment I reached the part of Arnav and his mother’s conversation, my god those few paragraphs took me more than half an hour to read, I cried a lot.

It was like whatever Arnav could not understand in so many years about Khushi, her love for him, why she visited his home despite Arnav not wanting that, his mother explained in a few sentences.

Now Aakash already senses some foul play in what happened. Aman already does not like that BL.

In fact if Arnav had been calm when he woke up in the bed with Lavanya, she herself might have blurted out of them not going all the way( have a strong feeling boxers were still present on Arnav for a reason 😜). She made a blunder by letting out that she came on him.

But seeing Arnav’s reaction, she found the perfect opportunity for manipulating the situation in getting what she wanted for years.

I love Aman and my favourite line was “Your secretary didn’t go snooping around someone’s medical history” Aman replied in a deadpan voice. “Khushi Bhabhi’s brother did” and Arnav was effectively made to shut up.

Arnav also has his doubts, he knows he was taken advantage of, but I guess the reason they have not been able to get any concrete results is as so much is happening at present.

1)They can’t just abandon their business

2)Need to protect Khushi from media after divorce news was priority

3) Arnav himself is not at a very good place emotionally, this La chapter has taken so much toll on him.

4) the most important point, his anchor is missing, he needs Khushi , her presence.

Having said that, Arnav needs therapy, he blames himself for Anjali and now Khushi too.

His fear of having kids stems from something which happened to Anjali and his past.

He just deals with problems clinically. But Khushi knows and understands him more than anyone else.

What’s worse is just because he could not fulfil her wish of having kids he convinced himself, he did not love her. He is depressed from god knows how long and did everything in that state of mind.

The photographs with Khushi is that much needed push for both Arnav and even Aman to speed up their investigation. This guy will not stop at just destroying just BL’s career after he comes to know about the pictures and the hurt Khushi went through.

But I want Arnav Khushi as a team to destroy that bi*ch.

Now, Arpita you have to agree that Lavanya is a Batshit Lunatic.😛

And also please clarify, is it Resurgence and redemption of us readers. Because you knew we will first stop loving Arnav and then hate him. And then will bash him. And ultimately though not immediately will start having sympathy for him.

I never knew I would wait for Lavanya’s chapter so much, so that I can write Gaalis without an iota of doubt in my mind about her actions and character.

Edited:- Despite being so shrewd, Manali understood one thing wrong. Khushi is not Arnav Singh Raizada’s weakness, she is his strength.

Khushi is arnva's strength..this is so true..manali and lavanya have miscalculated big time.

I love Aman. i feel IPK did a disservice by not having that actual character in the show. Aman is immense in his loyalty and support to Arnav. To be honest whether this arnav or IPK arnav, he always toiled for others, people have taken him for granted. the only 2 people who actually stood by him in thick and thin and showed fierce loyalty to him are Khushi and Aman. Aman's statement i think was my most favorite line so far in this FF. which i enjoyed and felt happy too at the same time

Tashi perfect point of resurgence :D ..i wrote teh same thing. I used to say that my heart breaks for khushi now i say that my heart breaks for both of them. what a turnaround

Arpita please dont make us turnaround from our picture of lavanya too please. I wont be able to take that and i will cry and will throw tantrums.

Emotional EXHAUSTION is the only feeling now.

I feel almost blank and probably a first in this story where i feel i have no opinions to share as of now atleast.

This time i don't feel like even reading the emotional comments.

The chapter is a real manifestation of Murphy's law. Destiny always has its way good/ bad whatever.

There were parts where I literally felt like running and giving that trouble man a hug. Boy oh boy, this man is just beyond troubled, why i feel like his personal space has been violated before too, a child abuse may be. Him talking about 'something happening to me', 'my time is too precious', makes me think too. Always participating in risky games, was all those some kind of escapes?

I was right, it is a non-existent child, the only part of the chapter that made me happy.

I hope at the end of it all, both of these people just get some peace.

Arpita for the infinite time you are not just brilliant with your pen, but also a very intelligent person, there were so many parts that we have already read before but even then what to write and what not, the way you have calculated it all is just sheer intelligence.

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

what could arnav's problem is with having a child? he is ok with kids around, what scares him is having his own kid or rather emotional connection with a child. He made that explicitly clear to lavanya and i got the same feeling when he refused to be guardian to Leher. atleast thats what i understand. So here is my take on this

I think Anjali lost her child in some way. She was so emotionally attached to it that she went into severe depression. As Arnav mentioned her husband was not present or was careless so he might be catalyst or not present to help her or in a way responsible but somehow Anjali couldn't take that pressure. I think she committed suicide and hence this phobia of Arnav to get emotionally attached to a child. He might believe what if he also succumbs or he might blame that child for anjali's actions.

He mentions even anjali di did not choose him. he mentions he let her down, he couldnt help her etc. he might have asked their family to let her come home or to mumbai for change, they might not have agreed and hence the fall out with family too

Plus the Oct time when he goes to annual trips coincides with big puja at hometown. I think it might be Anjali's barsi. he makes sure he doesn't attend that. Hence Khushi never went with him on these trips. Even Akash alludes to it saying this time of year u are always vulnerable and hence Khushi will understand. That's why Khushi also wanted to stay behind this year. Thats why all those adrenaline fueled sports like bungee jumping to get a high so he can forget this time of the year

Reminds me of Arnav of IPK when he used to go away during his mom's birthday.

I guess all the root cause is with Anjali and her child

No she is alive, he wanted to call her while being in Bangalore but then didin't, remember?

Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

No she is alive, he wanted to call her while being in Bangalore but then didin't, remember?

i thought it was more like ' I wish i could call Gudiya di now' but he couldnt..like a wishful thinking

edit - i was about to DM you to ask where are u. the chapter is up for like 3 hours and u are not here. i was worried

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

what could arnav's problem is with having a child? he is ok with kids around, what scares him is having his own kid or rather emotional connection with a child. He made that explicitly clear to lavanya and i got the same feeling when he refused to be guardian to Leher. atleast thats what i understand. So here is my take on this

I think Anjali lost her child in some way. She was so emotionally attached to it that she went into severe depression. As Arnav mentioned her husband was not present or was careless so he might be catalyst or not present to help her or in a way responsible but somehow Anjali couldn't take that pressure. I think she committed suicide and hence this phobia of Arnav to get emotionally attached to a child. He might believe what if he also succumbs or he might blame that child for anjali's actions.

He mentions even anjali di did not choose him. he mentions he let her down, he couldnt help her etc. he might have asked their family to let her come home or to mumbai for change, they might not have agreed and hence the fall out with family too

Plus the Oct time when he goes to annual trips coincides with big puja at hometown. I think it might be Anjali's barsi. he makes sure he doesn't attend that. Hence Khushi never went with him on these trips. Even Akash alludes to it saying this time of year u are always vulnerable and hence Khushi will understand. That's why Khushi also wanted to stay behind this year. Thats why all those adrenaline fueled sports like bungee jumping to get a high so he can forget this time of the year

Reminds me of Arnav of IPK when he used to go away during his mom's birthday.

I guess all the root cause is with Anjali and her child

My guess is Anjali had only girl children and her husband wanted a boy. So he might have even remarried and still Anjali chose to stay there. Arnav’s father also made her stay there.

But it’s going to be a very complex revelation and heart wrenching too. Let’s see what Arpita has in store for us.

I dont think Arpita is going to justify Lunatic at all. She knows our Khushi loving hearts can’t take it.

Now I have one more thing to guess, in the chapter where Payal calls Khushi after divorce news is leaked out, Khushi says “just the whispers, nothing she has not handled before”.

Initially I thought it could be related to people thinking she is infertile.

Now can it be Arnav’s high society party calling Khushi dehaati or gawaar behind her back.

Something these two bi*ches started.

Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

Emotional EXHAUSTION is the only feeling now.

I feel almost blank and probably a first in this story where i feel i have no opinions to share as of now atleast.

This time i don't feel like even reading the emotional comments.

The chapter is a real manifestation of Murphy's law. Destiny always has its way good/ bad whatever.

There were parts where I literally felt like running and giving that trouble man a hug. Boy oh boy, this man is just beyond troubled, why i feel like his personal space has been violated before too, a child abuse may be. Him talking about 'something happening to me', 'my time is too precious', makes me think too. Always participating in risky games, was all those some kind of escapes?

I was right, it is a non-existent child, the only part of the chapter that made me happy.

I hope at the end of it all, both of these people just get some peace.

Arpita for the infinite time you are not just brilliant with your pen, but also a very intelligent person, there were so many parts that we have already read before but even then what to write and what not, the way you have calculated it all is just sheer intelligence.

i was the same after the chapter..i felt like doing an Arnav and saying ' I am so so tired Arpita' 🤣

But Arpita no wonder u fell sick babes while writing this update. These 2 parts which u wanted to initially write as 1 part are exhausting. Emotionally and physically. I cannot imagine how many times u must have written and deleted the sentences and reviewed them to make this beautiful update.

The challenge was more for part B as u were telling the incidents which we have already read and still had to make sure we view them in completely different lens.

Its bound to take toll. Please be cautious in future and take care of your health first.

If we are so emotionally drained just by reading it, cant even imagine your state

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

i was the same after the chapter..i felt like doing an Arnav and saying ' I am so so tired Arpita' 🤣

But Arpita no wonder u fell sick babes while writing this update. These 2 parts which u wanted to initially write as 1 part are exhausting. Emotionally and physically. I cannot imagine how many times u must have written and deleted the sentences and reviewed them to make this beautiful update.

The challenge was more for part B as u were telling the incidents which we have already read and still had to make sure we view them in completely different lens.

Its bound to take toll. Please be cautious in future and take care of your health first.

If we are so emotionally drained just by reading it, cant even imagine your state

Arpita, we are not going anywhere, please take your time and not compromise your health.

But then I think our writer wants to let everything out with the story like we are dying to read it.

It might be just so difficult when there is so much you have to say.

We get overwhelmed while writing a comment and she is writing both(story and replying).

So please take it easy dear.

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

i was the same after the chapter..i felt like doing an Arnav and saying ' I am so so tired Arpita' 🤣

But Arpita no wonder u fell sick babes while writing this update. These 2 parts which u wanted to initially write as 1 part are exhausting. Emotionally and physically. I cannot imagine how many times u must have written and deleted the sentences and reviewed them to make this beautiful update.

The challenge was more for part B as u were telling the incidents which we have already read and still had to make sure we view them in completely different lens.

Its bound to take toll. Please be cautious in future and take care of your health first.

If we are so emotionally drained just by reading it, cant even imagine your state

I feel like doing an arnav too 'what did i ever do to you arpita, to make me go through this'..

Arpita literally deleted/edited a 3k words part of the chapter as it was getting repetitive or something so you are right about the exhaustion.

Thank you for the concern ashvi, this tiny little things always warms my heart so so much. You were about us having some similar character traits.❤❤

I have not read any of your comments yet tashi and ashvi, i am on my way to home. I will read and reply after i reach. ❤❤