Sexual infidelity is not infidelity-Kjo - Page 16

The more individualism is hailed, the more such concepts would appear in society.

When the notion is that only your personal happiness matters and nothing else, marriages and relationships will break down.

I hold the age-old view that no infidelity should be supported. If two people can’t work it out, they can try and resolve their issues and nothing else works, go your separate ways.

But when a committed man/woman starts to adapt to “ethical cheating”, the relationship is bound to cease one way or another.

I am not aware of any open relationship in which both the partners are happy and content. On top of that, how do we know if they are happy? Nobody knows what a person feels even though they put on a smiling face and a facade of a happy life.

Originally posted by: infinity101

Umm personally for me you can’t start developing feelings for someone unless you feel an emotional connect towards them or have been talking with them on a regular basis which involves getting a little too friendly with them, it’s morally wrong when you are already in a relationship with someone else, when you are taken there are certain boundaries that one should respect, say if I have someone in my life I obviously won’t get over friendly with other people, doesn’t mean that I should stop hanging out with my male friends but certain things are off limits because a relationship is based on trust and loyalty. First of all if you are in love with your partner a question of falling for someone else doesn’t even arise, and if you are developing feelings for someone behind your partner’s back that’s called “emotional infidelity” and any type of infidelity isn’t okay, it’s not really that hard to stay loyal and be in control of your feelings IMO. And if for some reason you are getting attracted to another person, the first thing to be done should be to be honest about it with your partner since they at least wouldn’t be kept in the dark, cheating starts exactly with “getting feelings for someone” while you are still committed IMO and they just don’t develop out of thin air, you gotta have been involved with them in some way since quite some time, even if not physically.

I still think there are some circumstances where feelings cant be controlled, or you dont realise until it's too late. I mean if it was that easy to control our emotions, then nobody would get hurt in the first place.

I have heard stories about some women who were forced into a marriage by their famillies but they could never get over their love and went into depression.😭

Originally posted by: la_Reine

I still think there are some circumstances where feelings cant be controlled, or you dont realise until it's too late. I mean if it was that easy to control our emotions, then nobody would get hurt in the first place.

I have heard stories about some women who were forced into a marriage by their famillies but they could never get over their love and went into depression.😭

Originally posted by: naaznin

It's becoming so difficult for ppl who believe in "one woman man" or "one man woman "

Knowing one is being tempted, and choosing not to pause ... is entrancing 😃

Originally posted by: Phosphorus

I am not aware of any open relationship in which both the partners are happy and content. On top of that, how do we know if they are happy? Nobody knows what a person feels even though they put on a smiling face and a facade of a happy life.

No one can know what happens in celebrity marriages.

But I have personally known open relationships. The first open marriage I came across was back in 2005. My colleague was married to his childhood best friend. He was a total man-wh0re who loved to sleep around, and she was a lesbian. They came from a Midwestern small town. It worked. They were best friends, enjoyed living together, liked each other's families, and enjoyed doing date nights and other couple-like things together. But it also gave them the sexual freedom to do what they wanted outside the marriage. Are they still together today? I don't know. Even they didn't know what would happen if he wanted to have kids and start a family or she met a woman she wanted to be with. But at the time it worked.

Another good friend of mine is also in an open marriage. I didn't their marriage was open until he told me about a guy his husband was interested in. He found it completely cute to see his husband in the awkward state of crushing on someone and trying to connect with them. At least on the surface level it seemed that he was very happy with the arrangement, and I assumed his husband was happy to. They're also still together after over a decade.

Originally posted by: la_Reine

But you cant just close yourself off to the outside world when you are in a relationship. You are bound to interact with people, at work and at parties.

She knoew this guy is not Mr perfect, in fact he is toxic and her husband is 100 times better than him. Still she got attracted to him.

Self control is of utmost importance. Just for few moments of happiness ruining an important relationship is stupidity.

If we realise that we are getting unhealthy attachment with someone it's better to create distance n focus on what we have..

Such unhealthy relationships r big reasons for anxiety n depression these days.

Meh. Sexual monogamy isn’t important to everyone

No wonder Alia says the same thing like KJO. With this thinking Alia and Ranbir will be the happiest couple of BW 🤓

Originally posted by: Manavi_kesari

Kjo is joke 😆

Sometimes I feel he is Male version of kangana...