YRKKH Frustration Thread #1 [DT NOTE PG 30,44, 126] - Page 16

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

U r twisting man…soo do u mean really traumatic person shouldn’t have happy life or partner…should she/he wait for people who caused trauma to cure it? Or are u saying person with past trauma who is happy will not have past scars which r painful? Did u ever heard about pstd…it occurs to any people who face trauma….even after years even when they r happy they will get triggered to situations and face hell…so r u saying they shouldn’t be happy be in that trauma and suffer…I really didn’t understand

I mean k as per you Abhinav cured her trauma na. She was happy with him from last 6 years na.

So why this statement k trauma mein hai bichari 6 saal se etc etc.

AbhiM did what hi did- We hear his monologue k bhai repent kr rha hai, chahta hai akshu ko but obviously apne aap se hi sab barbad krdiya. Still bht ache time mein toh nahi tha

Par Akshara after the traumatic events of WD eventually met Abhinav and was happy with him

WD jo bhi sahi galat kahin na kahin toh Akshara was involved na in Neil's death. Aesa toh hua nahi k uska lena na dena bhai mar gya bande ne apna frustration biwi par nikla. Action sahi galat apart reaction toh action ka hi tha.

Toh comparison kaise hua AbhiM or AK ka.

Aur yeh traumatic insan kaisa hota hai kya hota hai yeh discussion ka mudda nahi ho skta hai kyunki har insaan alag hota hai uska tarika alag hota hai

Yahan baat AK ki ho rhi hai. Aur dikhega woh bola jayega philhal mujhe toh AK stuck on that day hi dikh rhi thi but as per your statement i am asking.

Lekin ap baat ghuma rahe ho kyunki apke paas answer hai hi nahi aur isliye nahi hai kyunki AK ka pov dhang se dikhaya hi nahi.

Main kaha keh Rahi ho ki abhi ko akshu mil jaaye. What soulmate!! I am only saying ki he has never rejected abhir as stated by others. And akshra loves abhinav to bich me abhimanyu kaha se aa gaya. All I am saying ki he atleast deserve a little space in his kids life and get acknowledged as a father. Baaki akshra and abhinav are husband wife to abhi kaha se bich me aa gaya.

Originally posted by: Multiverse

did he do favor to ak….let’s go back as u r saying if sk informed abhim about baby he would have snatched baby and kicked ak out as u said he rejected ak not abhir…is he doing any favor or anything…..if he wanted to be part of his kid’s life he need not intrude in their family matters….Muskaan wedding he need not get too involved or make decisions or make plans for wedding….he can just participate or attend like guests….he did propose to ak and told abhinav that he wants ak back even before knowing about abhir…no decency to ask a married woman……when she rejected he didn’t feel for what he did on WD ….he felt y he didn’t get forgiveness when did even apologize properly…

Originally posted by: kuchnaakahoo

What does that even mean ? That Abhimanyu rejected her and not the kid.

Means if he was informed that Akshara has given birth to one of his kids, then he along with his mother would have snatched even a new born from the mother, because according to Abhimanyu, he would still not accept her even if she was the mother of his kids. So kya vo thik hota. The man was still harbouring so much anger in his heart that he didn want to given his relationship with Akshara another chance even for the sake of their baby.

And u are saying look he didn reject the kid, only Akshara. Bohot bada ehsaan Kiya.

If Akshara not wanting to be back with Abhimanyu is acceptable then why is Abhimanyu not wanting to be together with Akshara after losing his brother n babies not acceptable? Akshara after coming out of her past trauma chose Abhinav - good for her!

And Abhimanyu also had until then been getting nightmares over Neil’s death - i remember the dream he had playing with twins and then Neil’s body was brought in. After crying and having a meltdown - he realizes he still loves Akshara - she rejected- accepted. It is just harder for some people to move on compare to others..

And Akshara is so great - she doesn’t think before risking the babies’ lives in pregnancy and also when she is about to take Abhir to US neglecting doctor’s advice but she panics when the child is being taken from her- what kind of love is this?

Originally posted by: chaipaani

I mean k as per you Abhinav cured her trauma na. She was happy with him from last 6 years na.

So why this statement k trauma mein hai bichari 6 saal se etc etc.

AbhiM did what hi did- We hear his monologue k bhai repent kr rha hai, chahta hai akshu ko but obviously apne aap se hi sab barbad krdiya. Still bht ache time mein toh nahi tha

Par Akshara after the traumatic events of WD eventually met Abhinav and was happy with him

WD jo bhi sahi galat kahin na kahin toh Akshara was involved na in Neil's death. Aesa toh hua nahi k uska lena na dena bhai mar gya bande ne apna frustration biwi par nikla. Action sahi galat apart reaction toh action ka hi tha.

Toh comparison kaise hua AbhiM or AK ka.

Aur yeh traumatic insan kaisa hota hai kya hota hai yeh discussion ka mudda nahi ho skta hai kyunki har insaan alag hota hai uska tarika alag hota hai

Yahan baat AK ki ho rhi hai. Aur dikhega woh bola jayega philhal mujhe toh AK stuck on that day hi dikh rhi thi but as per your statement i am asking.

Lekin ap baat ghuma rahe ho kyunki apke paas answer hai hi nahi aur isliye nahi hai kyunki AK ka pov dhang se dikhaya hi nahi.

So he have right to take frustration on wife and use her as punching bag

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

If Akshara not wanting to be back with Abhimanyu is acceptable then why is Abhimanyu not wanting to be together with Akshara after losing his brother n babies not acceptable? Akshara after coming out of her past trauma chose Abhinav - good for her!

And Abhimanyu also had until then been getting nightmares over Neil’s death - i remember the dream he had playing with twins and then Neil’s body was brought in. After crying and having a meltdown - he realizes he still loves Akshara - she rejected- accepted. It is just harder for some people to move on compare to others..

And Akshara is so great - she doesn’t think before risking the babies’ lives in pregnancy and also when she is about to take Abhir to US neglecting doctor’s advice but she panics when the child is being taken from her- what kind of love is this?

We are talking about the time when Akshara was not married to Abhinav and wanted to keep Abhimanyu in the loop about the kid.

U are twisting and speaking about the things which happened years later. And when Abhimanyu didn want to get back with Akshara even for the sake of the kid , then why after 6 years he begged for reconciliation. What changed then . Did he not remember his words. Why did he ask for forgiveness from an alleged murderer.

Originally posted by: kuchnaakahoo

We are talking about the time when Akshara was not married to Abhinav and wanted to keep Abhimanyu in the loop about the kid.

U are twisting and speaking about the things which happened years later. And when Abhimanyu didn want to get back with Akshara even for the sake of the kid , then why after 6 years he begged for reconciliation. What changed then . Did he not remember his words. Why did he ask for forgiveness from an alleged murderer.

I can’t say for others but marrying for the sake of kids just doesn’t appeal to me at all. People should marry to be together and for no other reason. He couldn’t be with her so asked for a divorce. He wronged her yes but he too was in trauma. And haven’t you ever seen people saying things they don’t mean when they are angry or hurt or frustrated? And besides he didn’t know about the kid then so doing for his sake doesn’t matter!!

There was no one to make him understand what he did or what he could do better - his brother was dead, his mother was having panic attacks and his father instead of comforting and supporting him - just went away it appears..

yes he asked for forgiveness for things he felt he did wrong - and also accepted and reflected upon the accusations Akshara made. But Akshara has never thought of any consequences apart from her lies unraveling.. And just because he said something doesn’t mean he can’t regret it or want to take it back..

I understand you were talking about the past but even then Akshara did risk her own babies to save the girls - again not implying that girls shouldn’t be saved.. But she was scared of kid being snatched but not of the baby losing its life— and i ask again what love is this? I mentioned about US because its the same fear again - prioritized more than the kid’s health.

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

So he have right to take frustration on wife and use her as punching bag

No all rights should be with wife..

• disappear for a year without a single word and expect husband to love and trust you all the same like nothing happened
• risk your and your babies’ lives to save others when you had assured others you would look after them- and blame family to not support you when your babies don’t survive.
• ask your family for space. don’t communicate that you are in trouble to them and then blame them for not being there to care for you when they didn’t even know and have been lied to!
• instigate the other person by threatening legal actions because you have studied law only to challenge his rights as a father - then blame them for winning the case your family started..
• don’t inform your sister and ex who are engaged that you have a child together- then blame the ex for prioritizing the child you hid from him and jeopardizing your sister’s happiness. (yes he didn’t pick that call before - but i would accept her intentions only if she had informed him upon meeting after the leap - which she didn’t- so Abhimanyu’s allegations that she didn’t really try her best to inform him are absolutely correct)

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Haan yaar uski biwi uska mann 🤣🤣

Waise bhi apko kuch bhi bolo eventually apne apna bna liya hai view.

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

Akshu ko ptsd dene wali na usko khoon khandan hai not AbhiM

Guess what AK k direct/indirect actions ne bhi AbhiM ko kaafi mental issues diye hain. Ek saal bin btaye gayab hojana has given him many issues as well.

Show ko show ki tarah discuss kijiye. Links dene se kuch prove nahi hojayega. Maybe hard to believe but baki bhi aware hain mental health issues se. Hum sabne duniya dekhi hai.

Hum sab ko pta hai kya kya hai apne apne experience hai.

Happy going guys non happy going guy ki baat kabhi chai pe charcha karlenge baat hogi Akshara ki coz yeh show ka forum hai

And dekho show mein kya dikhate hain

Akshara happy happy dancing with someone you claim to be her abuser:

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

No all rights should be with wife..

• disappear for a year without a single word and expect husband to love and trust you all the same like nothing happened
• risk your and your babies’ lives to save others when you had assured others you would look after them- and blame family to not support you when your babies don’t survive.
• ask your family for space. don’t communicate that you are in trouble to them and then blame them for not being there to care for you when they didn’t even know and have been lied to!
• instigate the other person by threatening legal actions because you have studied law only to challenge his rights as a father - then blame them for winning the case your family started..
• don’t inform your sister and ex who are engaged that you have a child together- then blame the ex for prioritizing the child you hid from him and jeopardizing your sister’s happiness. (yes he didn’t pick that call before - but i would accept her intentions only if she had informed him upon meeting after the leap - which she didn’t- so Abhimanyu’s allegations that she didn’t really try her best to inform him are absolutely correct)

Y would she inform him ASAP she meet him after leap…he is playing house house game with her sister and roohi….and why would she inform a person what caused her pain..she disappeared for that year because her love have a career by which now he gained abhir thanks to her…how much more she should try when he said on her face that he doesn’t want ot listen about her or kids…dude she has self respect not a doormat or shameless person to go back after that…she tried to inform,abhinav tried to inform what is the response…that what is problem….yes she did blame him for prioritizing abhir over roohi like she is some teddybear or back up thing….completely ignored her before and after he got truth about abhir and people must point out to him that he is negligence towards roohi may cause hatred between siblings……she went for checkup and neil is old enough to make is own decisions unlike his brother who depends on his mother….his mother doing all drama made is death like pathetic but he died like a brave soldier who saved lives….not family atleast as a doctor should he not consider her condition….failed as doctors family too birlas